Cfnm...your thoughts?
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You took this story in some very interesting directions. I would like to read what happens next, after practice the next day.
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Hey thanks for reading and the feedback!
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I just posted my very first story on Lit. It has some CFNM in it. The link is below.
https://www.literotica.com/s/a-fun-drive-home
https://www.literotica.com/s/a-fun-drive-home
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Something I have not done but it is on my bucket list.
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Very enjoyable...thank you and keep writing! Happy New Year!
Thank you for reading and commenting. I am writing, more to come.
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I'm much more interested in CMNF, as a man, a reader, and a writer, but I thought it would be interesting to explore the other point of view so I'm writing a CFNM story whose entree into the world is posing for an art class and then gets recruited for some fun activities by an older woman who is one of the students.
Part of the fun of it will be exploring things from the "female gaze" perspective and in particular the young man's reaction to seeing himself viewed the way men looked at women.
Part of the fun of it will be exploring things from the "female gaze" perspective and in particular the young man's reaction to seeing himself viewed the way men looked at women.
A three Part Story
This is a three part CFNM spanking story. Can you guys tell me what you think of it?
https://www.literotica.com/s/the-bad-boys-club-first-quarter
https://www.literotica.com/s/the-bad-boys-club-half-time
https://www.literotica.com/s/the-bad-boys-club-end-game
Thanks
Jim
This is a three part CFNM spanking story. Can you guys tell me what you think of it?
https://www.literotica.com/s/the-bad-boys-club-first-quarter
https://www.literotica.com/s/the-bad-boys-club-half-time
https://www.literotica.com/s/the-bad-boys-club-end-game
Thanks
Jim
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It’s definitely a show of dominance.
I have always tried to write my work from the idea that enjoying the feminine gaze is as good for men as it is for women. As a man, to know that women can think of a man's body as something that is beautiful and sexy and should not be covered up is powerful and liberating.
That does not mean that it isn't also a "show of female dominance," and as was stated above, "A naked man rarely looks impressive, putting him in a powerless position." But not having to be dominant and always powerful is also liberating. To be the sex object rather than the one doing the chasing can allow for a kind of relaxation that we men seldom get. when I used to attend CFNM parties, just allowing myself to be naked and vulnerable as well as ogled and stroked removed a ton of pressure to perform.
That does not mean that it isn't also a "show of female dominance," and as was stated above, "A naked man rarely looks impressive, putting him in a powerless position." But not having to be dominant and always powerful is also liberating. To be the sex object rather than the one doing the chasing can allow for a kind of relaxation that we men seldom get. when I used to attend CFNM parties, just allowing myself to be naked and vulnerable as well as ogled and stroked removed a ton of pressure to perform.
"But not having to be dominant and always powerful is also liberating."
"To be the sex object rather than the one doing the chasing can allow for a kind of relaxation that we men seldom get."
You nailed it right here Jim. It can be relaxing. It is nice (and fun) to get a break and let the woman/women enjoy some of what they put up with all of the time.
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***shrug***
I'm a little different than most who have posted in that I'm all D-type all the time with little to no submit to me. Even asking me to do things can be a little problematic, where telling me to will make me pause even if I was going to before. And telling me I have to guarantees I won't be doing that after all.
The thing is, at home, I am virtually always naked unless we have non-consenting guests. I'll pull on a pair of shorts or something to take the dog out, or if someone stops by. But, once they are gone, my wicked weenie is waving in the wind once more.
While I tend to prefer my submissive lover also nude, the overwhelming majority of them have felt some last vestiges of modesty that need some clothing. Which doesn't make just a whole lot of sense to me since I was in her throat with my balls filling her nostrils while I pulled her knees wide and over my elbows to allow full access to tongue her taint. But, I've been around enough to know that it can make them feel comfortable for me to relent and allow them clothing sometimes. And it's not like I can't rip it right the fuck back off for round seven...
Any road, when I first encountered clothed female and naked male, I did so with the sound off. And frankly, it just didn't seem any different to me than my walking around naked with my late wife in her orange-corduroy mou-mou that was, more often than not, all I would allow her in private.
And my pressing her to her knees to fill her mouth with my cock.
Or catching her in the kitchen and bending her over the dishwasher and flipping that mou-mou up over her ass.
When I did finally catch on that there was a very important element that I was missing, it baffled me at first.
Why should I feel any sort of humiliation at being naked while she is clothed? How could the fact that I was supremely comfortable naked as the day I was born while she was all embarrassed and coy and modest and needed clothing to feel comfortable in any way indicate that she was the dominant member of the relationship?
What can I say? I can be a bit slow sometimes about, I'm sure, a great many things.
But, it finally clicked that, as with all D/s, it is 100% in the mind. After a gal told me about a guy of her acquaintance that slept in pajamas with a belt. And got supremely tickled by my expression that mimed a little kid encountering asparagus for the first time.
Once I was clued in that he was naked and she was clothed because she wanted it that way, the rest cascaded into place.
I still walk around naked as a jaybird while she gets to wear clothes (sometimes, when I let her). But, I understand now that isn't really cfnm that I do the way I do it.
Any road, here's to you having all that you need and enough of what you want to be happy.
I'm a little different than most who have posted in that I'm all D-type all the time with little to no submit to me. Even asking me to do things can be a little problematic, where telling me to will make me pause even if I was going to before. And telling me I have to guarantees I won't be doing that after all.
The thing is, at home, I am virtually always naked unless we have non-consenting guests. I'll pull on a pair of shorts or something to take the dog out, or if someone stops by. But, once they are gone, my wicked weenie is waving in the wind once more.
While I tend to prefer my submissive lover also nude, the overwhelming majority of them have felt some last vestiges of modesty that need some clothing. Which doesn't make just a whole lot of sense to me since I was in her throat with my balls filling her nostrils while I pulled her knees wide and over my elbows to allow full access to tongue her taint. But, I've been around enough to know that it can make them feel comfortable for me to relent and allow them clothing sometimes. And it's not like I can't rip it right the fuck back off for round seven...
Any road, when I first encountered clothed female and naked male, I did so with the sound off. And frankly, it just didn't seem any different to me than my walking around naked with my late wife in her orange-corduroy mou-mou that was, more often than not, all I would allow her in private.
And my pressing her to her knees to fill her mouth with my cock.
Or catching her in the kitchen and bending her over the dishwasher and flipping that mou-mou up over her ass.
When I did finally catch on that there was a very important element that I was missing, it baffled me at first.
Why should I feel any sort of humiliation at being naked while she is clothed? How could the fact that I was supremely comfortable naked as the day I was born while she was all embarrassed and coy and modest and needed clothing to feel comfortable in any way indicate that she was the dominant member of the relationship?
What can I say? I can be a bit slow sometimes about, I'm sure, a great many things.
But, it finally clicked that, as with all D/s, it is 100% in the mind. After a gal told me about a guy of her acquaintance that slept in pajamas with a belt. And got supremely tickled by my expression that mimed a little kid encountering asparagus for the first time.
Once I was clued in that he was naked and she was clothed because she wanted it that way, the rest cascaded into place.
I still walk around naked as a jaybird while she gets to wear clothes (sometimes, when I let her). But, I understand now that isn't really cfnm that I do the way I do it.
Any road, here's to you having all that you need and enough of what you want to be happy.
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As is often the case when you're young, before you know the actual definition (or whether it exists at the time), you have certain fantasies which later correlate.
I told my wife, were it not for our kids, I'd be walking around in the buff all the time. I'd love it. Suffice it to say, many of my favorite artists get it too.
One of my favorites is Sardax, as shown below. Is it really CFNM, or just how it should be? Dommes in charge, and what a wonderful world it would be IMHO.
https://alchetron.com/cdn/sardax-a2f292f7-e610-49e4-beb9-d8bc07b304f-resize-750.jpeg
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/86/f9/38/86f938aafb59fa2707d298c95f56100f.jpg
https://cdn010.bdsmlr.com/uploads/photos/2019/12/107481/bdsmlr-107481-YPOnKzM1Ps-og.jpg
I told my wife, were it not for our kids, I'd be walking around in the buff all the time. I'd love it. Suffice it to say, many of my favorite artists get it too.
One of my favorites is Sardax, as shown below. Is it really CFNM, or just how it should be? Dommes in charge, and what a wonderful world it would be IMHO.
https://alchetron.com/cdn/sardax-a2f292f7-e610-49e4-beb9-d8bc07b304f-resize-750.jpeg
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/86/f9/38/86f938aafb59fa2707d298c95f56100f.jpg
https://cdn010.bdsmlr.com/uploads/photos/2019/12/107481/bdsmlr-107481-YPOnKzM1Ps-og.jpg
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Justplatonic
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More of my favorite artists, with a CFNM twist...
Underling...
http://images.uncyc.org/spank/thumb/a/a3/PillowTalk.jpg/653px-PillowTalk.jpg
http://images.uncyc.org/spank/thumb/8/8e/UnderlingAfterTheSpanking.jpg/718px-UnderlingAfterTheSpanking.jpg
http://images.uncyc.org/spank/thumb/7/7b/Step_Right_In.jpg/723px-Step_Right_In.jpg
Vernice61...
I actually placed his images directly from the website to here (they are the only proper source of his artwork), but they are super cautious, hence require you to consent on viewing his artwork.
If you're curious about Vernice61 (the women in his art are always in charge), I encourage you to check his artwork here.
Waldo...
http://boyzbeingboyz.com/gallery24/spanki12.jpg
http://boyzbeingboyz.com/gallery24/Spanking_(34).jpg
http://boyzbeingboyz.com/gallery24/Spanking_(46).jpg
Underling...
http://images.uncyc.org/spank/thumb/a/a3/PillowTalk.jpg/653px-PillowTalk.jpg
http://images.uncyc.org/spank/thumb/8/8e/UnderlingAfterTheSpanking.jpg/718px-UnderlingAfterTheSpanking.jpg
http://images.uncyc.org/spank/thumb/7/7b/Step_Right_In.jpg/723px-Step_Right_In.jpg
Vernice61...
I actually placed his images directly from the website to here (they are the only proper source of his artwork), but they are super cautious, hence require you to consent on viewing his artwork.
If you're curious about Vernice61 (the women in his art are always in charge), I encourage you to check his artwork here.
Waldo...
http://boyzbeingboyz.com/gallery24/spanki12.jpg
http://boyzbeingboyz.com/gallery24/Spanking_(34).jpg
http://boyzbeingboyz.com/gallery24/Spanking_(46).jpg
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RightFootFrwrd
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All for it.
As some people have already mentioned about themselves in this thread, I too just enjoy being naked, so the idea of cfnm is defintely a kink that I would enjoy exploring. I'm not really into the humiliation aspect, or any kind of feminization, but the idea of being naked around some gorgeous, but clothed, women with the expressed interest of me "serving" them, is a definite turn on... unless it's just to do the dishes, or fold laundry, or something dumb like that.
As some people have already mentioned about themselves in this thread, I too just enjoy being naked, so the idea of cfnm is defintely a kink that I would enjoy exploring. I'm not really into the humiliation aspect, or any kind of feminization, but the idea of being naked around some gorgeous, but clothed, women with the expressed interest of me "serving" them, is a definite turn on... unless it's just to do the dishes, or fold laundry, or something dumb like that.
I have had the good fortune to experience the fun side of CFNM a couple of times and I am forever hooked.
I was naked for my first wife and her best friend a couple of times. Nothing too crazy happened, darn it.
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For years, I thought I was the only one who enjoyed this idea. I've thought of it ever since I can remember. Growing up in a house where women were bullied, I always wondered what it would be like if the shoe were on the other foot. CFNM, strangely, showed me.
When my MIL saw me nude for the first time, walking in on me, I felt vulnerable, exposed, and not in power. It got to be where this was her role...the one with the power. We NEVER got sexual (except for her catching me in some alone time) but she would walk into my room while staying with us while I was changing, drying off...etc. The culmination of the CFNM was when she made me undress out of all of my clothing and place it in the washer right in front of her. I'd come in from working outside and I was filthy and smelled like smoke from the brush fire. She gave the commands and I did it and then she told me to "march upstairs and shower." Oddly, it was thrilling. My wife said she didn't like it so it stopped.
The funnest time was a nude 5k. I had clothed, middle-aged women cheering us on as they watched. I could hear them commenting on the asses and the "flopping around" and giggling.
When my MIL saw me nude for the first time, walking in on me, I felt vulnerable, exposed, and not in power. It got to be where this was her role...the one with the power. We NEVER got sexual (except for her catching me in some alone time) but she would walk into my room while staying with us while I was changing, drying off...etc. The culmination of the CFNM was when she made me undress out of all of my clothing and place it in the washer right in front of her. I'd come in from working outside and I was filthy and smelled like smoke from the brush fire. She gave the commands and I did it and then she told me to "march upstairs and shower." Oddly, it was thrilling. My wife said she didn't like it so it stopped.
The funnest time was a nude 5k. I had clothed, middle-aged women cheering us on as they watched. I could hear them commenting on the asses and the "flopping around" and giggling.
Justplatonic
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It's ultimately the basis of a fully expressed Domme and sub encounter(s). Most Dommes will always want to exploit their sub's vulnerability in some shape way or form, and admittedly, there are a myriad ways to do that... But it's as good a start as any, for the sub to be naked, and for the Domme be clothed (if the kids aren't around!).
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It's recurring and absorbing fantasy. I like the vulnerability.
