Clit/Pussy Spanking Discussion Thread

[hedonisatlurist]

Perfect,but I tend to be a little rougher

 

[hedonisatlurist]

it's so arousing to do it to a woman

 

[HCurious26]

that's hard to believe. I think most guys would be happy to do whatever, within some limits, whatever their partner likes. I know I would.

 

[WallBanging]

Talk to your partner! Communication is key. My ex loved it when I lightly slapped her with my cock, but too hard can ruin a mood really fast for her.

 

[theCARS1979]

oh I do like it, I generally get so wet and juicy when my pussy is spanked

Are you able to have it paddled with a hairbrush or a leather riding crop

 

[9to5]

love too make them jump with anything I can use to spank the clit. sometimes just keep tapping it, you don't even have to hit hard

 

[9to5]

a little vibe then a slap. legs held open and you cant stop any of it

 

[Upskirtladyl]

Love it? Hate it? Crave it?

its a love hate for me, turns me on a lot but it is painfull if done right!

I love my pussy spanked and I become wet and orgasm stronger when a women controls my pussy, I just imagine myself spread before a mistress and get my pussy spanked while my boyfriend fucks me,

 

[9to5]

I love my pussy spanked and I become wet and orgasm stronger when a women controls my pussy, I just imagine myself spread before a mistress and get my pussy spanked while my boyfriend fucks me,

welcome with your first post. I hope your dream will come true someday and you can see what it will be like

 

[Bigboobbabe]

The first time I full-on squirted was from a pussy slap.
I was fully aroused and hubby stopped licking to change positions.
He slapped my clit unexpectedly and I squirted on his upper chest more than 3 feet away.

 

[ShelbyDreamzz]

I like having my clit spanked on occasion. I enjoy my clit aroused with wooden or metal objects teasing my pussy lips and pinching my clit. Makes me very wet I've recently found.

 

[KinzyTaylor]

.....

 

[hrnyslt]

I love it

 

[Psychprofgal]

If gently, and not too much it is very arousing!

 

[Smoothshavendad]

If gently, and not too much it is very arousing!

Please allow me!

 

[zach20092]

The first time I full-on squirted was from a pussy slap.
I was fully aroused and hubby stopped licking to change positions.
He slapped my clit unexpectedly and I squirted on his upper chest more than 3 feet away.

My experience with an ex as well!! And we were pretty new... And her first squirting experience!! Clit and pussy spanking became a frequent part of the longer sessions.. guess enough foreplay to get her turned on for the pain..

 

[Mscott9004]

I love the idea of this but have nevee been able to talk a guy into it.

You’ve convinced me!

 

[cocktaildress21]

I realise this is becoming something of a theme for me - but I doubt anyone was ever turned on by having their clit spanked. It's a thing in porn, just as there is porn of guys getting kicked in the nuts.

And sure, there's someone out there somewhere who does it outside of porn. But .. my guess? That's self-loathing - not pleasure. Having someone 'spank' your clit is an enormously unpleasant jolt.

 

[Beachaged]

I realise this is becoming something of a theme for me - but I doubt anyone was ever turned on by having their clit spanked. It's a thing in porn, just as there is porn of guys getting kicked in the nuts.

And sure, there's someone out there somewhere who does it outside of porn. But .. my guess? That's self-loathing - not pleasure. Having someone 'spank' your clit is an enormously unpleasant jolt.

It depends on the context. If the spanking is part of sadomasochism then yes both partners are expecting it to be painful. There are people into that - not me. If the spanking is light and playful and part of a sensual experience I can assure you there are women who enjoy it. And even orgasm/squirt from it. I wouldn’t suggest you try it as you don’t seem to embrace the concept of sub space either.

 

[cocktaildress21]

It depends on the context. If the spanking is part of sadomasochism then yes both partners are expecting it to be painful. There are people into that - not me. If the spanking is light and playful and part of a sensual experience I can assure you there are women who enjoy it. And even orgasm/squirt from it. I wouldn’t suggest you try it as you don’t seem to embrace the concept of sub space either.

Painful is not the point. I enjoy spankings. I've been slapped and enjoyed it - well, sort of. But I'm telling you ... in the same way that no one enjoys it when the dentist drills into a nerve, no one (in their right minds) would enjoy having their clit spanked.

That said, I know a guy who says he enjoys CBT ... cock and ball torture. I do not believe him (I'm a sceptic, what can I say), I think his self-loathing is telling him he should enjoy it. But there it is: Some people do actually do these things. Although they are rare as rainbows, and quite possibly not of sound minds. Or maybe that's too harsh - but I still think therapy would be better.

 

[pplwatching]

no one (in their right minds) would enjoy having their clit spanked.

My dad spanked us with a belt. I know what it felt like and no I didn't enjoy it. During sex? Sure, I enjoy sensation play. The contextual connection to sex completely changes how I react. I think it's pretty fascinating.

My wife most definitely likes having her clit spanked, but as with anything else "all things in context and in moderation." Do I spank the way my dad did when he was meting out punishment? No. It's kind of difficult to spank just her clit and not have some of the impact on the upper labia or mons. Is it still spanking? I think so. She's pink(er) when I'm done and cums really hard when I switch to kisses, licks, and nibbles.

We never start cold though. She does have to already be aroused and then warm up lighter strikes before heavier, and she will let me know if the pleasure suddenly becomes painful. I don't always read how ready she is right before getting more intense. She likes harder when I switch between her bottom and clit.

 

[cocktaildress21]

My dad spanked us with a belt. I know what it felt like and no I didn't enjoy it. During sex? Sure, I enjoy sensation play. The contextual connection to sex completely changes how I react. I think it's pretty fascinating.

My wife most definitely likes having her clit spanked, but as with anything else "all things in context and in moderation." Do I spank the way my dad did when he was meting out punishment? No. It's kind of difficult to spank just her clit and not have some of the impact on the upper labia or mons. Is it still spanking? I think so. She's pink(er) when I'm done and cums really hard when I switch to kisses, licks, and nibbles.

We never start cold though. She does have to already be aroused and then warm up lighter strikes before heavier, and she will let me know if the pleasure suddenly becomes painful. I don't always read how ready she is right before getting more intense. She likes harder when I switch between her bottom and clit.

Oh. Well if you like 'sensation play' then .... look, I don't want to be calling you a liar, but here's what: the clitoris has the same number of nerve endings as the head of a penis. Ok? As you may realise, since it's a much smaller area ..... it's MUCH more sensitive.

So by way of comparison, next time you have a nice fat boner - you have your wife spank that, and report back to us. About that 'sensation'. Enjoy.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

A little clit spanking can be very fun!

 

[Beachaged]

Painful is not the point. I enjoy spankings. I've been slapped and enjoyed it - well, sort of. But I'm telling you ... in the same way that no one enjoys it when the dentist drills into a nerve, no one (in their right minds) would enjoy having their clit spanked.

That said, I know a guy who says he enjoys CBT ... cock and ball torture. I do not believe him (I'm a sceptic, what can I say), I think his self-loathing is telling him he should enjoy it. But there it is: Some people do actually do these things. Although they are rare as rainbows, and quite possibly not of sound minds. Or maybe that's too harsh - but I still think therapy would be better.

I guess we will need to agree to disagree on this one. But if a woman can orgasm and squirt of clit spanking I’m not sure how you can say she won’t enjoy it. I don’t think you can compare having an orgasm to going to the dentist.

 

[pplwatching]

So by way of comparison, next time you have a nice fat boner - you have your wife spank that, and report back to us. About that 'sensation'. Enjoy.

Saying that just because you don't enjoy it, no one else possibly can seems to completely devalue who she is as a sexual individual and her sexual response. Whether or not I would like having my cock spanked has nothing to do with what she enjoys. We are separate and unique.