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[rlaflamme]

Wow! It has been a bit since I posted. Sorry about that!

I hope all is going well for people here. We are going through a very interesting year and with that comes questions, hope, sadness, joy and fear. Have you found someone to talk to? Whether you are looking for help or to receive a bit of help this is a place you can find it. Everyone needs an ear from time to time and you can find someone to lend your to or someone that will lend theirs to you.

Take some time and find someone to talk to, just a few words here and there. You might find a friend. We all need a friend after all.

Keep smiling

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

Wow! It has been a bit since I posted. Sorry about that!

I hope all is going well for people here. We are going through a very interesting year and with that comes questions, hope, sadness, joy and fear. Have you found someone to talk to? Whether you are looking for help or to receive a bit of help this is a place you can find it. Everyone needs an ear from time to time and you can find someone to lend your to or someone that will lend theirs to you.

Take some time and find someone to talk to, just a few words here and there. You might find a friend. We all need a friend after all.

Keep smiling

This makes me smile.

 

[rlaflamme]

This makes me smile.

Thank you for letting me know. It is a good thing when you know you made someone smile

It is amazing what a few positive words can do for someone. you can turn a bad day into a good one. You can help someone find a smile that they have been looking for. Just taking a few moments to show some kindness is a beautiful thing.

 

[Deacon_Voss]

The other day I was picking up my insulin needles at Walgreens, and parked next to us was a 2017 yellow Corvette. I was waiting in the car, so I got out and was looking at it, without touching, and the owner of the car came out.

I said, "Nice car, I love the color," and the guy laughs saying he hated the color. He said he bought the car for his wife for their 30th anniversary. He said he was just blowing the cobwebs out, which is guy talk for racing it around like a 20 year old.

We got to talking about hobbies, and work, and all this crap going on, and when my wife came out, we spent another ten minutes talking, and agreed to get together for a barbeque after the 4th of July.

Thats how I meet people, talking about cars. I've always loved it, and I hope it never stops

 

[rlaflamme]

The other day I was picking up my insulin needles at Walgreens, and parked next to us was a 2017 yellow Corvette. I was waiting in the car, so I got out and was looking at it, without touching, and the owner of the car came out.

I said, "Nice car, I love the color," and the guy laughs saying he hated the color. He said he bought the car for his wife for their 30th anniversary. He said he was just blowing the cobwebs out, which is guy talk for racing it around like a 20 year old.

We got to talking about hobbies, and work, and all this crap going on, and when my wife came out, we spent another ten minutes talking, and agreed to get together for a barbeque after the 4th of July.

Thats how I meet people, talking about cars. I've always loved it, and I hope it never stops

That is awesome! Thank you for sharing your experience. It is amazing how we can make friends with just one shared hobby

 

[rlaflamme]

In today's world everything seems to move so quickly, everything is on high speed. Take some time today, just sit back, take a deep breath and think have some positive thoughts. Take some time to smell the flowers, to see the ocean, to let your mind wander to places you want to or have visited. Let the fresh air flow through you and relax.

We tend to wind ourselves up as we think of the next task we have to do, the next chore, the next assignment. We flood our minds with what needs to be done and how quickly those things have to be accomplished. Sometimes, we just need to remember to enjoy what we have around us.

 

[rlaflamme]

Kindness goes a long way, it can bring a smile to a stranger, a warmth to the soul and a calmness to mind. It is a really simple thing to do, spread kindness. Sadly, we often forget that, forget how simple it is. When we show kindness it is not just for the one we are spreading it to though. When we spread it, we get the feelings of joy as well, we get the calm, the warmth and the smile. It is something that feels good to do and feels good to receive.

As you move about you day, take some time to think of something kind to do. It can be a simple thing, hold the door for someone, smile at someone, let someone out in traffic, anything really. When you show kindness it makes another want to show it as well and it spreads. And spreading that element of our life is the best thing to spread.

Take a moment, smile and enjoy

 

[rlaflamme]

Greetings everyone!

Today should be a good day. Reach out to someone or have a conversation with someone that reaches out to you. We can make a day a better day by simply talking. Be respectful and listen. Take in what someone has to offer or offer your assistance to somebody.

Sometimes the greatest gift you can give someone is an ear.

Keep smiling.

 

[rlaflamme]

Take some time and say hello to someone new. You might just be the person that makes them smile.

 

[fsa52]

Good morning! Hope you’re doing well. Love to know if they ever got to do anything with the theater production. Have a great Sunday!

 

[rlaflamme]

Good morning! Hope you’re doing well. Love to know if they ever got to do anything with the theater production. Have a great Sunday!

Good morning I am well, moving along as best I can. The theater is still shut down, but I am working on a project that might work to get some sort of theater working. My fingers are crossed for it. Have a wonderful day!

 

[rlaflamme]

Take a bit of time today to find someone who you think might need a few words to help them smile. We can do wonderful things for complete strangers by lending them an ear or a few words of encouragement. Some people are moving closer to normalcy, but others are stuck where they are. Both cases bring stress and can make someone uncomfortable, scared or nervous. Just a few minutes of talking can help them out.

Keep smiling.

 

[rlaflamme]

Good day to you all

Take some time to think of what you can do to help someone else out. Think of someone you know that may be in need. Maybe they need a ride to get some groceries or a little help walking their dog. Something simple that many don't think about. Perhaps that older lady that lives next door all by herself looks sad, would flowers brighten her day? The family across the street that appear to be struggling a bit, doesn't bringing a plate of cookies over to them sound like a wonderful thing just to see them all smile?

Some things that we can do are simple, temporary things, but they can live in the memory of that person forever. An act of kindness can go long way to getting someone to push forward, to move on, to try extra hard. It also casts a wonderfully bright ray that shines around us and them.

Keep smiling.

 

[rlaflamme]

Take some time today and reflect on the good things that you have done in your life. Look at the positive things that have happened to you. Take a bit of time and smile at those wonderful, happy moments.

We should always look for the best things

 

[rlaflamme]

Take a bit of time for yourself now and then. Make the day all about you. Take a hot shower or bath, light a candle. Just relax and keep yourself calm. There is nothing wrong with making it all about yourself from time to time.

Keep smiling.

 

[5by5]

Take a bit of time for yourself now and then. Make the day all about you. Take a hot shower or bath, light a candle. Just relax and keep yourself calm. There is nothing wrong with making it all about yourself from time to time.

Keep smiling.

Awwwww stumbled across this, hope it brings a smile to whoever reads it xx

 

[rlaflamme]

Awwwww stumbled across this, hope it brings a smile to whoever reads it xx

I am glad it made you smile I usually talk about looking at others and helping them through their day, but sometimes you have to make it about you.

 

[rlaflamme]

Stop. Take a deep breath. Relax. Think of the good things that happen that make you smile, focus on the positive things in you life. Smile at the memories that brought you enjoyment and comfort.

Find a new way to smile and spread the joy.

 

[rlaflamme]

Think of a simple act of kindness you can do today, then make it happen. Hold the door for someone, let someone pull out in front of you while driving, offer someone to take you place in line that has less to buy than you do. Something simple. It is these acts of kindness that encourage others to preform them as well and when an act of kindness is payed forward it begins to snowball. It is these acts that make more and more people smile. The more people that smile the happier the world gets.

Imagine, for just a moment, that your simple act can effect over a thousand people. Now that is what it is all about. Keep smiling.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

This is right up my alley - I love it. Thank you.

 

[rlaflamme]

This is right up my alley - I love it. Thank you.

That is wonderful Kindness goes a long way and when we show some it spreads like wildfire. Thank you for showing some.

 

[rlaflamme]

Think about the little things you can do to brighten up another's day. Think of things that made you smile when you had a rough day and pay those little acts forward.

I tend to flash a smile quite often when in stores, just to see if I can get on in return. It is amazing what a little smile can do. Of course, many people cannot do that right now, it is hard to show a smile with a mask on... so perhaps a "good morning", "good afternoon", "good evening." Those work as well. Going a bit more than hello and using the work good makes a big difference. It's not a conversation you are looking for or offering, but a wish for them to be having a good day. That little word makes a big difference.

Keep smiling and have a good day

 

[rlaflamme]

No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever waisted.

 

[fsa52]

No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever waisted.

I agree, but sometime I think that here on Lit people do sometimes take your comments of kindness and concern as a come on line you’ve used just to get close to them, when it is really empathy for their plight.

 

[rlaflamme]

I agree, but sometime I think that here on Lit people do sometimes take your comments of kindness and concern as a come on line you’ve used just to get close to them, when it is really empathy for their plight.

This is very true. I guess that comes with being on a site such as this where the erotica is more emphasized than social aspect. All we can do it try to show kindness and hope that is paid forward. that brings a smile to the world.