Why do I always want more?

[Jada59]

Okay, maybe not always. Many years ago I had a BF. We would get into bed on Fri. and not get out of it pretty much until Mon. I didn't want more then.

But now I do! I gave up on my current BF. He is not acting like a BF at all and I need sex. So... Went back to the one before him. We are working on things. Seems I misunderstood some of the things that he wanted. English is not his native language.

So... We had sex a couple of hours ago. It was good. Very good! I came many times. But I still want more.

He went home. We're having a heat wave here and this house retains it like mad. I think if it were not so hot, we would have had more sex.

But... What is it that causes me to want more sex after I've had good orgasms? This doesn't just happen with a partner. It also happens when i'm left to my own devices.

 

[irishblade]

Okay, maybe not always. Many years ago I had a BF. We would get into bed on Fri. and not get out of it pretty much until Mon. I didn't want more then.

But now I do! I gave up on my current BF. He is not acting like a BF at all and I need sex. So... Went back to the one before him. We are working on things. Seems I misunderstood some of the things that he wanted. English is not his native language.

So... We had sex a couple of hours ago. It was good. Very good! I came many times. But I still want more.

He went home. We're having a heat wave here and this house retains it like mad. I think if it were not so hot, we would have had more sex.

But... What is it that causes me to want more sex after I've had good orgasms? This doesn't just happen with a partner. It also happens when i'm left to my own devices.

Pretty sure the good orgasms make you want more good orgasms.

 

[ParkerSteve66]

Nothing wrong with that

Okay, maybe not always. Many years ago I had a BF. We would get into bed on Fri. and not get out of it pretty much until Mon. I didn't want more then.

But now I do! I gave up on my current BF. He is not acting like a BF at all and I need sex. So... Went back to the one before him. We are working on things. Seems I misunderstood some of the things that he wanted. English is not his native language.

So... We had sex a couple of hours ago. It was good. Very good! I came many times. But I still want more.

He went home. We're having a heat wave here and this house retains it like mad. I think if it were not so hot, we would have had more sex.

But... What is it that causes me to want more sex after I've had good orgasms? This doesn't just happen with a partner. It also happens when i'm left to my own devices.

When I was 23 and just married, the wife and I fucked 4-times a day for 10 straight days.

Then I shipped overseas for a year. Never ever came close to that rate again.

 

[MatureChattyMann]

Okay, maybe not always. Many years ago I had a BF. We would get into bed on Fri. and not get out of it pretty much until Mon. I didn't want more then.

But now I do! I gave up on my current BF. He is not acting like a BF at all and I need sex. So... Went back to the one before him. We are working on things. Seems I misunderstood some of the things that he wanted. English is not his native language.

So... We had sex a couple of hours ago. It was good. Very good! I came many times. But I still want more.

He went home. We're having a heat wave here and this house retains it like mad. I think if it were not so hot, we would have had more sex.

But... What is it that causes me to want more sex after I've had good orgasms? This doesn't just happen with a partner. It also happens when i'm left to my own devices.

I don't know your mental state of course, or even if it's related, but I find myself constantly needing to masturbate when I'm in a trough of depression.

 

[Jada59]

Pretty sure the good orgasms make you want more good orgasms.

Yeah. They do!

 

[Jada59]

I don't know your mental state of course, or even if it's related, but I find myself constantly needing to masturbate when I'm in a trough of depression.

I've never had depression. I'm almost always in a good mood!

 

[MatureChattyMann]

I've never had depression. I'm almost always in a good mood!

Well that's not the cause then lol

 

[Jada59]

Well that's not the cause then lol

Yep. Ha!

 

[bitslinger]

Perhaps you're trying to fill a void that sex can't fill, but it feels like it does while it lasts.

 

[stargame]

Being the sexual being that you are simply requires more. It's a mental/physical thing and your body is perfectly suited for it. Enjoy the hunger

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

Okay, maybe not always. Many years ago I had a BF. We would get into bed on Fri. and not get out of it pretty much until Mon. I didn't want more then.

But now I do! I gave up on my current BF. He is not acting like a BF at all and I need sex. So... Went back to the one before him. We are working on things. Seems I misunderstood some of the things that he wanted. English is not his native language.

So... We had sex a couple of hours ago. It was good. Very good! I came many times. But I still want more.

He went home. We're having a heat wave here and this house retains it like mad. I think if it were not so hot, we would have had more sex.

But... What is it that causes me to want more sex after I've had good orgasms? This doesn't just happen with a partner. It also happens when i'm left to my own devices.

SURPRISE!!!! You're human! And a female!!!!
And not surprisingly --, you aren't that much different than most of the 5 billion plus people on the face of this planet.
Whose secret desire can be summoned up in one word---,
"MORE"

 

[davenjenn]

Women have the capacity for a lot of sex and some of us actually need a lot of sex -- likely from multiple partners. Most of my women friends -- and this includes me -- find they get hornier the more sex they have, at least until they get completely exhausted.

 

[Jada59]

Perhaps you're trying to fill a void that sex can't fill, but it feels like it does while it lasts.

Hmm... Maybe. But I don't think so.

 

[Jada59]

Being the sexual being that you are simply requires more. It's a mental/physical thing and your body is perfectly suited for it. Enjoy the hunger

Now that makes sense!

 

[Jada59]

SURPRISE!!!! You're human! And a female!!!!
And not surprisingly --, you aren't that much different than most of the 5 billion plus people on the face of this planet.
Whose secret desire can be summoned up in one word---,
"MORE"

Haha. Thanks!

 

[Jada59]

Women have the capacity for a lot of sex and some of us actually need a lot of sex -- likely from multiple partners. Most of my women friends -- and this includes me -- find they get hornier the more sex they have, at least until they get completely exhausted.

Thanks! That describes me. I just feel like an oddball because most of my female friends hate sex.

 

[CuttingEdge]

I used to joke: "I never go soft in bed...because I use my tongue!"

It was meant as a joke of course, but there is a bit of truth to it.

When you truly care about the person you are with, it is not the genitals that matter so much as it is the mind. Being creative, and in love, makes the sex between you so much sweeter.

When my wife and I were married, kind of late in life, I was having sex with her (3) times per day, on our three week honeymoon. Because of the situation, neither one of us could get enough.

 

[30bandits]

have tongue, will travel...

 

[hedonisatlurist]

smile

Its always been the same, i just love to make others have orgasms, I love the taste, the smell, the sounds she makes, her demanding more again and again. I guess I just love to please

 

[DarToon]

Jada

You know the answer, Jada:
It might be you are just be missing the extra bit of sugar that makes the cafe-au-lait complete.
But be careful, grin, that could get dangerous for your heart.

As to the "I just feel like an oddball because most of my female friends hate sex."
You are probably one of the special angels most of us just get to dream about.

 

[ace195008]

Jada I *think* some human beings are definitely more sexual than others. I found part of mine was connected to my ADHD and RSD (reject sensitive Dysphoria), RSD makes you more sensitive and feel things deeper also explains my deep interest in creation and art. Bottom line, I think there are a lot of reasons ppl are more sexual

 

[Islander55]

This is really way above my pay grade but I will throw a couple of pennies in. Sounds like you have a high sex drive which is not a bad thing. I believe I do too. However if you are unable to obtain satisfaction no matter how many orgasms you have, that is a problem. Might be worth doing some research or talking with a professional.

 

[FGB]

I was married to my first wife for...almost four years.

I would guess we had sex close to three thousand times.

Yes, I know that sounds impossible but... we were horny people.

Hell.

I thought it was a bone until I was eighteen or so.

The more I got the more I wanted and could handle.

 

[AZsurfer40]

My ex wife would get tired after 1 or 2 orgasms and pretty much quit so I had conditioned myself to her clock as a result.

But since I've been single and free to enjoy it I've met a few women like you. Luckily I always had great stamina so it wasn't hard to keep up and keep them rolling. But there was one who even after 5 hours and uncountable orgasms kept wanting it. It was the only time I was a little scared cause I knew I couldn't outlast her and as such, she'd never be fully satisfied. I'm a bit of an alpha, so scoreboard is key for me but here was one woman I could never get in front of. Dangerous.

 

[Jada59]

I used to joke: "I never go soft in bed...because I use my tongue!"

It was meant as a joke of course, but there is a bit of truth to it.

When you truly care about the person you are with, it is not the genitals that matter so much as it is the mind. Being creative, and in love, makes the sex between you so much sweeter.

When my wife and I were married, kind of late in life, I was having sex with her (3) times per day, on our three week honeymoon. Because of the situation, neither one of us could get enough.

Yes! The mind, for sure.