Poly-amorous app suggestions

[Not_Your_Dom]

Apologies in advance if this thread already exists somewhere, I dare say it does but I couldn't find it. My wife and I have recently decided to explore with other people, both separately and together. Now, before this starts to sound like an advertisement, I'm hoping for advice on some apps or other ways for us to find people to chat to and possibly connect with?

We've tried Tinder and have just started looking at a couple of others but the obvious problem of my wife getting all the hits is occurring. I don't consider myself a bad looking guy but I'm not having any luck. Any advice or suggestions would be appreciated!

 

[jehoram]

Apologies in advance if this thread already exists somewhere, I dare say it does but I couldn't find it. My wife and I have recently decided to explore with other people, both separately and together. Now, before this starts to sound like an advertisement, I'm hoping for advice on some apps or other ways for us to find people to chat to and possibly connect with?

We've tried Tinder and have just started looking at a couple of others but the obvious problem of my wife getting all the hits is occurring. I don't consider myself a bad looking guy but I'm not having any luck. Any advice or suggestions would be appreciated!

I think maybe you're confusing swinging with polyamory. Swinging is casual hookups with no emotional commitment, whereas polyamory is more like a long-term relationship with other people.

I can't help you find what you're looking for, though. It depends on where you are, and what you're willing to experiment with. I wish you luck in your quest.

 

[Bramblethorn]

I think maybe you're confusing swinging with polyamory. Swinging is casual hookups with no emotional commitment, whereas polyamory is more like a long-term relationship with other people.

Didn't see OP saying anywhere that they weren't interested in a LTR?

 

[jehoram]

Didn't see OP saying anywhere that they weren't interested in a LTR?

True. But as most long-term relationships don't start with people "to chat to and possibly connect with," it had me wondering what the poster's intention was.

 

[amofiga]

Many of the longer term relationships I had started with "chatting and connecting" rather than just happenstance. One of the advantages of the internet is that it does allow you to meet and get to know someone from afar (for lack of a better word) versus being confined to a small geographic area. I had a LTR with someone in Chicago, many years ago and we would have never met under "old fashioned" methods. Just because you meet via the internet it doesn't mean that it's a casual "one off" "swinging" sort of thing.