What the hell happened?

[Ezeerider]

Well we all think we know what we like and lust for, and what we definitely do not.
BUT, have you ever had an occasion where, whether as a totally spontaneous one-night thing, or as something that developed so slowly that you never saw it coming, you had the greatest sex of your life with someone who - for whatever reason - was just not in any way "your type"?
Tell us about it.

 

[Buscando]

Well we all think we know what we like and lust for, and what we definitely do not.
BUT, have you ever had an occasion where, whether as a totally spontaneous one-night thing, or as something that developed so slowly that you never saw it coming, you had the greatest sex of your life with someone who - for whatever reason - was just not in any way "your type"?
Tell us about it.

Holy hell,it's happening now, and it's some of the hottest sex of my life - and I'm no monk.

I'd placed a post on a site, not hoping for much, actually, since I had no idea what the hell I was doing, and to my amazement received a near-immediate response, which led to some very interesting e-mails, and an eventual meeting.

Well when we met at a neutral location and I first saw her, I was already looking for a handy exit and an even handier excuse, but curiosity pushed me forward, after all the mails and a few phone conversations, so we sat down and had dinner together. During that time I was still sexually ambivalent, but her wit and intellect were drawing me in more powerfully as the evening went on.

We left the restaurant and agreed to an after-dinner drink, during which time I was becoming more and more curious about what it might be like to experiment so far out of my normal image of what is desirable.

By the time we were in her car, driving back to mine, and before she just put it out there with something completely unexpected like, "Well, what would you like to do? I know what I'd like to do, and it's you," I'd made up my mind to make a move, somehow sensing that there was something very sexually powerful lurking and laughing just beneath the surface - and that's something that always lights my fire.

Well the first kiss in a local motel started us ratcheting up to the height of an incredible, breathtaking roller coaster ride down, and we're still coming together with our E-tickets in hand every time, three years later as FWBs who get together on a fairly regular basis, and it's still a sheetwrecker almost every time.

It's happened before, where a woman whom I'd never suspected would or could light my fire not only did so, but rocked my world, so I say 'never say never.' Sometimes it's just about having all your receptors wide open to every subtlety and nuance, rather than holding up that same old template.

 

[Jada59]

No. I wouldn't have sex with someone who wasn't my type to begin with.

 

[Ezeerider]

No. I wouldn't have sex with someone who wasn't my type to begin with.

I can of course respect your personal choice(s), but this does raise no small amount of curiosity.
Do you not vary your diet? Your choice of beverages? Your route to a favorite place? Dinner companions?
And of course this also begs for the investigation into how you (or any of us) made your/our initial choice of that "type?"
All fascinating subjects, and one more of the reasons I love this site; there is so much to discuss and therefore to learn.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I am never shocked by who I find sexually appealing. My sexual chemistry receptors don't have a type, they're interested in who'd be a good fuck and that's it. They're constantly throwing all kinds of shit up for review.

 

[Nyquietman]

Yes I went w someone I had known but was never interested. We went crazy hot and heavy. Crazy good. Spoke with a friend afterwArds who knows both of us and told how great she was and she said I told you so.she told me I was an add for ignoring her for years.

 

[Ezeerider]

Re-read

I am never shocked by who I find sexually appealing. My sexual chemistry receptors don't have a type, they're interested in who'd be a good fuck and that's it. They're constantly throwing all kinds of shit up for review.

I agree with a lot of that, but this question asks about the phenomenon of finding yourself with someone you hadn't thought would be a good fuck, for whatever reason(s) and on whatever level, whether physical or intellectual.

Isn't it especially rich when you know that she didn't have you on her screen either ... prior to the moment that she did?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

This. I’m constantly floored by what gets me juicy.

Perv!

 

[GiggLeGasm]

I’d post my thoughts but it seems that the point of this thread is to explain why you’re wrong if you disagree sooo... I’ll just be wrong and move on.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

I would like to hear. I don’t think I’m wrong. Or anyone else.
Hey. It’s our beds to lie in, so to speak.

I'm inclined to agree with the women. While I tend to attract a type of man based on appearance, I'm not sexually attracted to a type in that same way. It seems to be that, regardless the personal style, there is a type of chemistry that goes beyond what stereotypes represent and I've had incredible encounters with different "types" of men who tend to share that same "type" of chemistry.

 

[Karabare]

I am never shocked by who I find sexually appealing. My sexual chemistry receptors don't have a type, they're interested in who'd be a good fuck and that's it. They're constantly throwing all kinds of shit up for review.

This. I’m constantly floored by what gets me juicy.

The only type I have is smart and funny. That can fit a plethora of physical types. I’ve even proven myself wrong on liking “older” men. Sometimes younger is ok.