Do mature women look better as you age?

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I still think no woman is more desirable than a tall, thin, fit, long legged 19 year old with big tits.

And I used to think a woman over 40 wasn't worth a fuck.

But now that I'm older, mature women can look pretty good, if they've taken care of themselves, and aren't fat.

I see quite a few I wouldn't mind fucking.

What do you think of mature women?
 
I LOVE mature women!

I once made the comment to my wife (and it didn't end well) that she need not worry about the hot 25 year old woman. She needed to start worrying when her 55 year old mom showed up.

I used to think the same as you. A hard bodied, 21 year old, with a great set of tits, and a tight little ass was my fantasy woman, and I still enjoy seeing them when I am out. But women over 40, over 50, and yes, even over 60 have become even hotter, sexier, and more desirable than I ever thought possible. I'll admit that they are more attractive if they haven't allowed themselves to become fat, but I am attracted to real women. What I mean is they still have some baby fat, they have some extra curves, maybe gravity has affected their breasts, maybe their once former tight little ass is now looser, and not so little. I don't want them to be perfect. I just want them to be natural.

Besides, there are those undefinable qualities that I find sexy. I find a woman who is articulate, can talk about different topics, have her own opinions, but allow for differing opinions very sexy. Intelligence is such an aphrodisiac for me. Plus, how they carry themselves with confidence, and experience, is an additional aphrodisiac.

Now, I will say this about myself as a male. For all the attraction I feel for mature women, I feel the responsibility to take care of myself to be attractive to them as well. I'm no catch anyway, so I have some catching up to do!
 
To some extent yes.


On another Dating site I have 421 matches, after I have culled probably 150 in the last two months. 3/4 of these will be too old,not my type or I just do not like their looks. Others will be so pretty and young looking that I do not believe that they are real and some are just to far out of my league i can only say I WISH!.

Some will look like serial killers or mean as hell and a few will be so unattractive that I will shriek and almost break the delete button!

Also they live too damned far away!
 
Not sure that they look better but they become more desirable as a man learns the value of experience and learns to appreciate the whole woman. At 65 it is still fun to look at a 20 year old hottie but I prefer a woman in my age range for establishing a relationship and having enjoyable sex.
 
A mature woman can be very desirable if she’s well dressed and has a nice personality and sex drive. I’m no spring chicken anymore, and although young and sexy is still desirable, I might not survive!
 
A mature woman can be very desirable if she’s well dressed and has a nice personality and sex drive. I’m no spring chicken anymore, and although young and sexy is still desirable, I might not survive!

Personally I prefer undressed but I agree that personality is key. The desire to have fun sexually or otherwise is important.
 
I would say it's not not that they look better as I age. It's that my definition of a mature woman changes as I age.

When you're 18 or 19, a 27 or a 28 year old woman is what I'd consider a mature woman. Now I'm 32, the age range I'd consider mature is 42-47.
 
I agree

I still think no woman is more desirable than a tall, thin, fit, long legged 19 year old with big tits.

And I used to think a woman over 40 wasn't worth a fuck.

But now that I'm older, mature women can look pretty good, if they've taken care of themselves, and aren't fat.

I see quite a few I wouldn't mind fucking.

What do you think of mature women?

I now find women in their 40s hot
 
I love everything about mature women. I love the way they fill out. I love the sags, the wrinkles, and the softness. I'll take a mature woman over a young one any day. Remember, you do have to talk to the twenty year old hottie before and after.
 
I still think no woman is more desirable than a tall, thin, fit, long legged 19 year old with big tits.

And I used to think a woman over 40 wasn't worth a fuck.

But now that I'm older, mature women can look pretty good, if they've taken care of themselves, and aren't fat.

I see quite a few I wouldn't mind fucking.

What do you think of mature women?

Now that you are older and aware, you still lack.

Is it up to them or you?

Have you taken care of yourself or are you fat?
 
No, I lack nothing. And I've broadened my horizons. I'm now open to fucking a lot more women that I used to reject.
That's my point. Older women can be sexy too.
 
No, I lack nothing. And I've broadened my horizons. I'm now open to fucking a lot more women that I used to reject.
That's my point. Older women can be sexy too.

Your first sentence gave you away.

Good for you broadening your horizons now that you are no longer in the group that can pick and choose.

Older women have always been sexy.
 
As an older woman in my 50s the line of thinking by my male contemporary counterparts assume a 20 or 30 year old is just waiting for them around the corner, just sort of makes me shake my head. Unless you’ve got a load of money or extremely fit, the odds of finding a youthful, sexy match is unlikely, yet they continue to aspire to this. Most do not come close to this description. Meanwhile there are plenty of 40, 50 or 60 year old gals out looking for a match (usually around their own age). They’ve probably have had a child or two, so yes, they are not likely to be slim and trimmed as their 20s. The edges are rounded and curvy now. They probably have stronger opinions now that they did when they were young or married. Most I know won’t put up with crap from anyone any more. The beauty of an older gal is that she I probably more assertive and self assured as to what she wants and doesn’t want in bed. I beginning to think guys just want it easy. I guess a 20/30 is malleable. *shrug* I’m just thankful every day that I’m not in the market to date.
 
I like your response Twitche. Many guys are caught up with women's looks or appearance, but I wonder if they look in the mirror. I know what my ideal woman looks like, but then I check in the mirror and realize that I'm nowhere near any ideal of a man. So, I have learned to appreciate all - there is a sexy beast just waiting to be unleashed in every person.
 
As an older woman in my 50s the line of thinking by my male contemporary counterparts assume a 20 or 30 year old is just waiting for them around the corner, just sort of makes me shake my head. Unless you’ve got a load of money or extremely fit, the odds of finding a youthful, sexy match is unlikely, yet they continue to aspire to this. Most do not come close to this description. Meanwhile there are plenty of 40, 50 or 60 year old gals out looking for a match (usually around their own age). They’ve probably have had a child or two, so yes, they are not likely to be slim and trimmed as their 20s. The edges are rounded and curvy now. They probably have stronger opinions now that they did when they were young or married. Most I know won’t put up with crap from anyone any more. The beauty of an older gal is that she I probably more assertive and self assured as to what she wants and doesn’t want in bed. I beginning to think guys just want it easy. I guess a 20/30 is malleable. *shrug* I’m just thankful every day that I’m not in the market to date.

You make a lot of valid points. My wife is 62, knows what she likes and is not afraid to ask for it. The body may not be as firm as in her 20's but the mind is sharper and the sex is better than ever. Now if I could just keep up. LOL As for the old guys looking for hot young bods. Go for it. Just make sure you have the money to keep them around.
 
Without a doubt, a mature woman who has taken care of herself is as sexy as fuck! I fantasize more about mature women than about young ones, and I'm sure it has a lot to do with the fact that I'm now 62 myself. Given a choice between a fit healthy 60 year old and an average 30 year old, I'd choose the mature lady any day of the week.
 
You're a fool. You know nothing about me except what you've read here.
I'm older now, but I still have younger women make themselves available to me. Perhaps they are attracted to my 'dad bod' or they can sense that I know how to please a woman.
I choose to keep my marriage, but if I were single, I'd prefer to fuck a 19 y.o. long legged hottie with big boobs.
Understand?
 
hey ...

I still think no woman is more desirable than a tall, thin, fit, long legged 19 year old with big tits.

And I used to think a woman over 40 wasn't worth a fuck.

But now that I'm older, mature women can look pretty good, if they've taken care of themselves, and aren't fat.

I see quite a few I wouldn't mind fucking.

What do you think of mature women?

What do i think about Mature Women?
I think if they can physically fuck, baby lets fuck!!!
 
First of all, I am mid 40 female and think I not only look as good as a 19 year old with big tits but sure know a hell of a lot more about sex than they do. Females reach their sexual peak in mid 30s and are pretty damn horny so why not rethink your position? Looks only go so far.
 
I have always loved older women and older men. The oldest were fifty years older than me.
 
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