Lootequiette: Pmann's Totally Original/Unaffiliated Thread

You know? This was a tough read.
It really stung.
But I can see your points.
And, I could have been nicer when I made mine.
I’ll see myself out now.

There are no hard feelings. You said you were disgusted with my behaviour because I spoofed a thread with a similar name. Was it a bit harsh what you said? Yeah, but I’m a big boy.

I simply responded in kind and said (we should all) grow the fuck up. Think about what made me “disgust you” and made SMN wag her finger at me- the name of a thread on a sex forum started by a man with a baseball bat dick stick figure avatar. I didn’t call you a name in my post. I implied it was childish (it is). I’m not quite sure why it was so hard to read. I didn’t attack you personally or really say anything super mean. I just made some valid points.

You are always welcome here. I’m blunt. Maybe this can be the thread for people who like blunt writing and the OG thread can be for those who like the soft, cuddly musings of Papa Chained.


Typical Pmann, and I'm thinking y'all don't get it. Like our President it doesn't matter if you like his thread or criticize his thread with the vilest of language, the point is you focused on Pmann, even if just for a second. He likely anticipated all this hoopla, he might even have silently predicted it to himself. You gave him what the damn narcissist wanted.

And heck, I like the entertainment. He's learned well from Tiger Man.

Nawwwwwww. You’re just saying all those things to get in my pants. :rose:

To be fair, I never expected anyone to be remotely disturbed by the name of this thread. I tried to make it so outlandishly obvious it was a copy of his thread, in case anyone actually cared. I presume that if I had just copied it but named it Pmann’s Brilliant Musings, I would’ve been met with a shitload of criticism for copying his thread. I couldn’t win. I’m truly the victim here. #SadFace
 
Maybe you should have called it Pmann's Unusually Super Sexy Yearnings.

I'm just full of bright ideas.
 
I been too busy with life...but this thread is already making me laugh. Do you know how many dissertations could be written based on the "perceived" drama alone?
 
I been too busy with life...but this thread is already making me laugh. Do you know how many dissertations could be written based on the "perceived" drama alone?

I feel like I’m a case study just waiting to be discovered. I’ll get this thread back on track tomorrow. But damn it’s fun tonight.

Say what you want about me, but I give good thread.
 
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https://www.google.com/search?q=gif+of+trainwreck&oq=gif+of+trainwreck&aqs=chrome..69i57.21474j0j7&client=tablet-android-verizon&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8#imgrc=QX7t9A9PUQPzxM:

The irony of when a train wreck GIF doesn’t work.
 
Interesting first day for a thread. Not necessarily for a pmann thread. But this wasn’t intended as such. We will get back on track tomorrow.

Before I get into my coffin for sleep, I wanted to say thanks to all those who posted. And, despite whatever differences are here, no hard feelings. We all have disagreements. We all get heated at times. But let us all just have fun. And laugh. Or I will call the police.
 
A lot of people are under the impression that I’m a peacemaker.

Nope.

Although I don’t like fighting, if it happens it happens. But it is a great opportunity to see how and who people really are. Look at the conversation earlier in this thread. This is why I like Trekka, Pmann, Suz, Naughty and Enny, there was an issue, it was put out there with no bullshit and a compromise occurred.

Suz already said it, but . . . “I love you MoFos” (I’m paraphrasing).

Also I lied, I have no idea what people think of me. I just assume everyone thinks I’m the greatest of all time. :cool:
 
And now I'm gonna step in for my girls, Trekka and SMN. I adore those women and I don't have an issue with either of them expressing their opinions. I was just trying to provide a different perspective and god help me, I ended up white knighting for Pmann. FML.

#teamsuz

Are you getting the idea this has nothing to do with Pmann.

(I kid, I kid)

How about we declare a "drama free day"? Wouldn't the world be a better place?
 
There were some squabbles here on the forum yesterday. It happens sometimes. Right now the ‘Rona has got everybody down. People are caged like chickens. Tensions can get high. We saw that yesterday, perhaps.

How are you guys with forgiveness? Do you forgive easily? Or do you hold a nasty grudge? How about asking for forgiveness if you are in the wrong?

Please Forgive Me by David Gray

https://youtu.be/qmFRXwYKQwU
 
I don't really think in terms of forgiveness. People make choices and mistakes based on a variety of reasons. If I can see their reasons (and I usually can) then I'd rather not dwell on it. If I can't see their reasons, or don't accept them then maybe it's time to move on.

Honestly, I can't even remember the last time I felt I had to forgive someone.

People are either worth being around (while accepting their quirks) or they aren't.

If I screwed up I will apologize, but I'm not really looking for forgiveness.
 
I forgive. Once, twice, too many times. But I don't forget. And I do have a breaking point, although it usually takes a lot to get me there. And forgiving and trusting again are two different things.
 
I'm fairly forgiving. I don't hold a grudge, and I don't dwell on the past. Thus, I get over things pretty well.
 
There were some squabbles here on the forum yesterday. It happens sometimes. Right now the ‘Rona has got everybody down. People are caged like chickens. Tensions can get high. We saw that yesterday, perhaps.

How are you guys with forgiveness? Do you forgive easily? Or do you hold a nasty grudge? How about asking for forgiveness if you are in the wrong?

Please Forgive Me by David Gray

https://youtu.be/qmFRXwYKQwU

I forgive. Too much, probably. I'm not a doormat by any means, but I think people are imperfect and mistakes happen. Grudges are pretty foreign to me.

When I'm in the wrong? This is the far more likely scenario, historically-speaking...I will absolutely ask for forgiveness, and need that forgiveness - or a blatant "GFY" for closure. I hate hurting people, and if I have done so I'm remorseful to a fault.
 
There were some squabbles here on the forum yesterday. It happens sometimes. Right now the ‘Rona has got everybody down. People are caged like chickens. Tensions can get high. We saw that yesterday, perhaps.

How are you guys with forgiveness? Do you forgive easily? Or do you hold a nasty grudge? How about asking for forgiveness if you are in the wrong?

Please Forgive Me by David Gray

https://youtu.be/qmFRXwYKQwU


Typically yes, forgive easily and quickly, the time here is too short.

I hope you don't think my post yesterday was intended to be a squabble -- it was purely jest. If you took it another way, then I am sorry. But I am sure not forgiving that website that screwed up my train wreck gif.
 
There were some squabbles here on the forum yesterday. It happens sometimes. Right now the ‘Rona has got everybody down. People are caged like chickens. Tensions can get high. We saw that yesterday, perhaps.

How are you guys with forgiveness? Do you forgive easily? Or do you hold a nasty grudge? How about asking for forgiveness if you are in the wrong?

Please Forgive Me by David Gray

https://youtu.be/qmFRXwYKQwU

I tend to forgive too easy, and too often. Holding grudges only weighs on yourself. (been guilty of them though) "Forgive others, not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace"

I've learned in therapy that most don't care if you forgive them, so you have to do it for yourself to move on. Even when I have done stupid things, been in the wrong. I've learned to forgive myself. Holding onto the negativity isn't healthy.

So while some took longer than others to get over (both my fault/theirs) once I forgave, I was able to still care and understand the situation better and move forward.
 
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My wife comes from a large family where people will spend years holding grudges usually over very silly things. If we're visiting someone from her side of the family, they will spend a lot time telling us why they are mad at someone, how they never want to see them again, and on and on. Then after that visit, we will sometimes get a call from the family member on the other side of that conflict to tell us their side of the story.

I just shake my head. I try not to hold grudges, and I'm quick to forgive, because I think life is too short.

I will apologize when I have done something wrong to someone. I make a point to say what it is I'm apologizing for (I think just saying "I'm sorry" and leaving it at that is kind of lame). Since I forgive quickly and move on, I guess I expect others to do the same when its me needing forgiveness, but that is out of my hands.
 
There were some squabbles here on the forum yesterday. It happens sometimes. Right now the ‘Rona has got everybody down. People are caged like chickens. Tensions can get high. We saw that yesterday, perhaps.

How are you guys with forgiveness? Do you forgive easily? Or do you hold a nasty grudge? How about asking for forgiveness if you are in the wrong?

Please Forgive Me by David Gray

https://youtu.be/qmFRXwYKQwU

I’m a big believer in forgiveness and giving second chances. None of us are perfect and we all screw up from time to time. I don’t blindly forgive if someone intentionally does something to hurt me, but I will always be open to forgiving someone who sincerely apologizes and is remorseful for what they have said or done. Life’s too short to hold a grudge.

I freely admit when I am in the wrong and have no problem asking for forgiveness.
 
How are you guys with forgiveness? Do you forgive easily? Or do you hold a nasty grudge? How about asking for forgiveness if you are in the wrong?

I'm pretty easy (maybe too easy) at forgiving and I don't hold grudges. If someone has already upset me with their actions, I'm certainly not going to let them continue controlling my emotions by holding on to that negativity. It serves no purpose. If you are close to me, I usually forgive and mostly forget because you're worth it. If you aren't, then I forgive but my walls remain up. And as with anything, lessons are learned.

When I need to apologize, I do. I have no issue admitting fault. I also realize that "I'm sorry" isn't the same as changing or fixing your actions. If you mean a great deal to me, I will purposefully ask for forgiveness.
 
It's all rather subjective for me. If I have invested time in a friendship/relationship and I like you, I'm pretty quick to forgive and move on. If the transgression is too great, I may take steps to dial back or end the relationship - it really depends on the person and what happened.

I'm not a nasty grudge holder. Even if I walk away from the situation, I rarely hold on to ill will. It just wasn't our destiny to be a part of each other's lives.

Asking for forgiveness and saying I'm sorry isn't difficult for me. But there are occasions where it takes me some time to recognize that I did something wrong. So it may take awhile for me to get there, but I get there.
 
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