Lootequiette: Pmann's Totally Original/Unaffiliated Thread

[Lord Pmann]

Lootequiette VII

So I have this idea for a totally original thread... Just kidding. This a very subtle rip-off of Papa Chained's thread. It's spelt different and everything. I managed it for him while he was gone, but he has come back so I figured I'd start my own and stop dirtying up his.

The basic premise is, I ask a very clever and compelling question. Then you all answer and tell me your deepest and darkest secrets.

Day 1:

What is a perception of you that you would like to change? What do people think about you that you wish they didn't? Are they right or wrong in thinking it? Do you care enough to adjust your behaviours to modify the perception?

Tell me your secrets.

I usually post a relevant song too.

If You Don't Know Me by David Brent

https://youtu.be/riOZoc8vyFQ

 

[UKMind]

I will kick off. I guess I would like to accept that my efforts are sufficient, however I don’t and I can’t envisage that changing.

A perception of me that I wish people didn’t hold of me is that I am a cold person. I would say they’re right but I am easily bored of drama and typically glaze over when we are going over old ground yet again. I guess I’d like to change but life circumstances put me here and despite a lot of work this is an element that is too ingrained!

 

[Lord Pmann]

I'll respond first (unless someone squeezes in), so people can see how vulnerable I am.

For me, people think I'm condescending. A lot. And I'm really not. I try to be pretty open about things and let other opinions fly.

Just last week this girl at my office told me I was being condescending to some of the staff. I wanted to lash out, because it was pretty offensive. So I calmed down and I said, "Sweetie, that's an awfully big word; are you certain you know what that means?"

Here at Lit sometimes I get accused of being Condescenderella, even though I just try to be light-hearted and fun.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

I get accused of being too sensitive and it’s true. I really wish I could change this about myself. I care enough to want to change, but I’m not really sure how.

 

[Richard_C]

People think my wang is to massive!! I have considered a penile reduction surgery. They're pretty rare. However, the doctor tells me that it could have adverse psychological affects! For instance, my harem volume could be drastically reduced. That would certainly put a damper on my mood!!

 

[Lord Pmann]

People think my wang is to massive!! I have considered a penile reduction surgery. They're pretty rare. However, the doctor tells me that it could have adverse psychological affects! For instance, my harem volume could be drastically reduced. That would certainly put a damper on my mood!!

This book changed my life, bro.

 

[Suz_anne]

I think the perceptions about me that don't hold true are more related to me being a female. Many of them are related to the nurturing traits that are stereotypically female.

That's not to say I'm not loving and affectionate. I am. *exaggerated wink*

But I don't have a lot of patience for people who want to emote and cry and talk and talk and talk and talk about their issues without any inclination to make changes needed to change their situation.

If you want to pull yourself up by your bootstraps and make changes, I'm your biggest cheerleader.

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

I think there's a perception that I'm too nice. In fact, it was said to me on more that one occasion by multiple other Litsters...usually as a fumble-thumbed attempt at cushioning the supposed "blow" of not wishing to continue what were friendships.

I don't know that that perception is accurate, or if it's even possible to be such a thing...but apparently it's NOT not a thing.

Do I care? Not enough to change, because I am who I am. But that always made me wonder. I mean, I'm here...how freaking nice can I really be?

 

[Lord Pmann]

I think the perceptions about me that don't hold true are more related to me being a female.

 

[Suz_anne]

Is that your way of asking me to send you a dick pic?

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

That made me laugh until I snorted. I dunno why...just caught me as funny.

 

[Mr_bogey]

I can't pretend to like someone. If I don't like you, I can put on a fake smile and pretend to be nice. I won't be rude or anti-social but I will look for an excuse to avoid being in that person's presence. I love to play poker but I guess I don't have much of a poker face.

How have I tried to change? Well, I used to do the rude thing and just walk away. Now I will say hello and wait a minute or so before having to use the bathroom or down my drink and need to get another or see Fred across the room and have to talk to him about something.

 

[Taegul]

In order for me to answer that question, I would have to understand what people's perceptions of me are which I haven't really given a shit about since I thought it was important in high school. So maybe if people shared their perceptions of me I could tell them why they are full of shit...err, I mean...what I would change regarding those perceptions of me.

It really is a hard question to answer when you are perfect in every way, ya know? Sorry if I had any typos. You ever tried typing while driving your Ferrari over speed bumps? It's harder than it looks.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I've let others opinions of me shape how I felt about myself, all my life.
That is what I'd change.

Most of the opinions here come from bad experiences. Others talking. Few deciding for themselves.
I own most of my behaviors. I can be ugly. The ones I do not own, are the ones that are based on others opinions who've never interacted with me.

Many come from hurt, anger and other ugly emotions. I lead with emotions. So I understand this. I wish I could change that. I've tried. Baby steps moving forward and attempting to care less about what others think.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jfr-oL9f0HM

 

[ChrisPharmD]

I think the perception of me is that I'm a vicious troll on the lookout for any opportunity to ruin a thread.

That's 100% not true. I simply want quality dialog and discussion. And to be frank, if you post something that I passionately disagree with, what's the point of a forum if I'm seen as a troll for pointing it out?

And I'll be the first one to tell you that I say dumb shit. If people call me out on it, fine. I'll have to decide if I want to double down or concede their point.

But this wild idea that we're all on an 18+ forum to be nice to each other like little fucking pre-schoolers is really fucking stupid. And if you can't handle it, well god damn... I can't imagine what it must be like to venture out into the rest of the internet.

I'm not changing. I come to a discussion board to discuss, not to kiss your ass because you have a pair of tits. If you think that's trolling, it doesn't hurt my feelings one bit if you put me on ignore.

"But it's called the Playground for a reason!!!! UGH!!!" Yeah, well stop posting your dirty laundry here every single day and get to playing. Then, I'll reconsider my position on what this subforum is called.

 

[StacyLeigh]

How you perceive me is usually based on how well you actually know me. Some see me as sweet and naïve – which is true. And some see me as a bit cold and aloof – also true. But I’ve also been told that I’m either “too sweet” or “too aloof”.

I think the perception I would change would be that I’m not one or the other, but both. (Sorry for the gray area, Dribble...) I’m sugary enough to be favorable and sarcastic enough to not give you a toothache. I have no intention of modifying my behavior to change either way…. If you don’t get both sides of me it’s likely your fault not mine

 

[Lord Pmann]

"But it's called the Playground for a reason!!!! UGH!!!" Yeah, well stop posting your dirty laundry here every single day and get to playing. Then, I'll reconsider my position on what this subforum is called.

This is a common thing I hear repeated in the name of peace. How many people remember a peaceful playground in school? Me neither.

 

[Deleted member 1306910]

I think people perceive me as being a creepy stalker. I really wish they would stop. It makes it very hard to stalk them whe they are all suspicious like that.

 

[Endless_Night]

What, no poll?




How is everyone answering this question?!

I could make some guesses as to generally held opinion, but misconceptions? No idea.

If I did know would I work to change ‘em?

Eh.

 

[Endless_Night]

I think people perceive me as being a creepy stalker. I really wish they would stop. It makes it very hard to stalk them whe they are all suspicious like that.

Hahaha! You are not a creepy stalker, Nevyn!

But you are kinda funny.

 

[Deacon_Voss]

Eh, people assume I'm some player, talking dirty to all these women, lol. Every women I know here says, "Yeah, but you've got all these women flirting with you," and the truth is, what you see on the forum, thats the extent of it, lol.

 

[Trekka]

Pmann.
Your narcissism is showing again.

Seriously?

You rip off a thread that’s on its seventh iteration rather than think up your own thread name AND you can’t participate in a discussion unless you’re running the show, eh?

I’m legit disgusted with you.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Pmann.
Your narcissism is showing again.

Seriously?

You rip off a thread that’s on its seventh iteration rather than think up your own thread name AND you can’t participate in a discussion unless you’re running the show, eh?

I’m legit disgusted with you.

I’ll second this.
I’m not speaking for Chained, but it’s a pretty big slight on him/his thread.
Crossed the line there in my book.
Tsk.Tsk.Tsk.

 

[Suz_anne]

Pmann.
Your narcissism is showing again.

Seriously?

You rip off a thread that’s on its seventh iteration rather than think up your own thread name AND you can’t participate in a discussion unless you’re running the show, eh?

I’m legit disgusted with you.

I’ll second this.
I’m not speaking for Chained, but it’s a pretty big slight on him/his thread.
Crossed the line there in my book.
Tsk.Tsk.Tsk.

We all know Lord Pmann doesn't miss an opportunity to put his name to a thread, but I didn't have the same take as you two.

Pmann resurrected the Litiquette thread over the last couple of months by asking questions and keeping the conversation going - drawing old Litiquetters and new posters, too. Then Papa C came back (after a looong absence) and started asking questions again once the thread gained momentum. Which is fine - it is his thread, after all.

My take is that Pmann started this thread as an avenue for him to ask his own brand of questions without stepping on Papa C's toes.

Or maybe he's being a narcissistic asshole. That's always on the table. But I don't think he has bad intentions.

 

[Deacon_Voss]

Not that anyone cares about my opinion, but if you bail on your thread, and someone else keeps it alive, sorry you lost it in my opinion.