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I find that if I enter a sexual relationship with someone I inevitably end up having feelings of love for them. Even if the relationship starts as just mutual sexual pleasuring I still find that I end up bonding with them. I don't think that is a bad thing but it is a complicated thing. My husband is my soul-mate and I love him in a different way and a more complete way than anyone else. However, I have discovered that a person can be "in love" with many people at the same time.
I think that sexual attraction would not be triggered if the person had noncompatible personality traits. So, that natural compatibility makes a clear pathway to drawing closer. With intimacy there is a measure of trust and that leads to understand and caring and eventually a feeling of being in love.
I do believe that social negativity about sex inhabits the number of sex partners most people have and I think that keeps people divided. If we all fucked more we would fight less.
Do you have nsa casual sex/ encounters?
If you do how do you feel toward those people emotionally?
In my earlier comment (post 2) I was talking about FWB not sex with strangers. I have never had sex with a stranger and can't imagine doing that. Of course when I say FWB that doesn't mean it has to be someone I have known for years. My point was that if an open marriage a person can have sex with a FWB and think it is going to be NSA. But while there may be no strings I find it impossible to have sex with a person on a regular basis and not develop feelings of love for them. The first time that happened I thought the best thing to do was end the relationship but my husband helped me to see that there is nothing wrong with loving more than one person. Also, if a person has more than one FWB than the relative nature of the love and sex is more generalized.
I just had to respond to this topic, I am happily married. My wife is a great woman and we have experienced a lot together in this lifestyle. In the 19 years together we are still very close.
At this time I have 2 other relationships going on that started out as nsa fun. One is with a 55 year old man. This one has been going on almost 4 years now. The other is with a 53 year old woman and it's been going on for almost 3 years. They both started out as fwb/nsa fun. Not long into each encounter feelings started being developed and now the I love you flows every time we talk or see each other. I am sure I will probably be judged harshly by quite a few on here but I do feel I can love multiple people at the same time. My wife will always be the one that holds the most of my heart though.
Why would you be harshly judged?
Im actually surprised this is possible over the long term but if it is that is great!
Seems like it would be complicated though.
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So far it's worked out very well. My boyfriend loves and cares for me but he likes to have his own life and we connect with each other a once or twice a month and it's pretty sensual. My girlfriend and I see each other more. She understands I am not wanting to leave my wife. She does wish that she could have a full on relationship with me. But so far it has not been difficult at all. As far as why I may be judged is because I love all 3 of them.
I just had to respond to this topic, I am happily married. My wife is a great woman and we have experienced a lot together in this lifestyle. In the 19 years together we are still very close.
At this time I have 2 other relationships going on that started out as nsa fun. One is with a 55 year old man. This one has been going on almost 4 years now. The other is with a 53 year old woman and it's been going on for almost 3 years. They both started out as fwb/nsa fun. Not long into each encounter feelings started being developed and now the I love you flows every time we talk or see each other. I am sure I will probably be judged harshly by quite a few on here but I do feel I can love multiple people at the same time. My wife will always be the one that holds the most of my heart though.
I find that if I enter a sexual relationship with someone I inevitably end up having feelings of love for them. Even if the relationship starts as just mutual sexual pleasuring I still find that I end up bonding with them. I don't think that is a bad thing but it is a complicated thing. My husband is my soul-mate and I love him in a different way and a more complete way than anyone else. However, I have discovered that a person can be "in love" with many people at the same time.
I think that sexual attraction would not be triggered if the person had noncompatible personality traits. So, that natural compatibility makes a clear pathway to drawing closer. With intimacy there is a measure of trust and that leads to understand and caring and eventually a feeling of being in love.
I do believe that social negativity about sex inhabits the number of sex partners most people have and I think that keeps people divided. If we all fucked more we would fight less.
Do you have nsa casual sex/ encounters?
If you do how do you feel toward those people emotionally?
I find that if I enter a sexual relationship with someone I inevitably end up having feelings of love for them. Even if the relationship starts as just mutual sexual pleasuring I still find that I end up bonding with them. I don't think that is a bad thing but it is a complicated thing. My husband is my soul-mate and I love him in a different way and a more complete way than anyone else. However, I have discovered that a person can be "in love" with many people at the same time.
I think that sexual attraction would not be triggered if the person had noncompatible personality traits. So, that natural compatibility makes a clear pathway to drawing closer. With intimacy there is a measure of trust and that leads to understand and caring and eventually a feeling of being in love.
I do believe that social negativity about sex inhabits the number of sex partners most people have and I think that keeps people divided. If we all fucked more we would fight less.
Do you have nsa casual sex/ encounters?
If you do how do you feel toward those people emotionally?
Do you have nsa casual sex/ encounters?
If you do how do you feel toward those people emotionally?
I have to have romantic attachment before I have sex with someone. I honestly am very confused as to how you all do it the other way around. I don't understand. I am not chastising or being mean either. I just don't get it.![]()
biology beats emotion every time when it comes to sex...
I hunt 24/7--, though I don't like people, I like what they cause in my touch receptors..., the need, the drive to get that willing touch of theirs on my body is a drug like no other. If they can get my body to respond to their touch in a pleasurable way, its a done deal--, but once its done I'm gone, no regrets
biology beats emotion every time when it comes to sex...
I hunt 24/7--, though I don't like people, I like what they cause in my touch receptors..., the need, the drive to get that willing touch of theirs on my body is a drug like no other. If they can get my body to respond to their touch in a pleasurable way, its a done deal--, but once its done I'm gone, no regrets