What Are You Thinking? Continued 6

[tnman03]

That it was all confirmation bias.

 

[PattiJolene]

So after 6 happy months with daily contact, I tonight received a ‘Dear John’ e-mail ending our relationship. I never had Canada tagged as a man who would be so inconsiderate and disrespectful.

It just goes to show how fooled we can be. It’s going to be a very long time before I trust my judgment on men, or another Lit man.

This time however I’m finding out it doesn’t hurt nearly as bad as the last one. I may be unwittingly protecting my heart more and also taking my time before I give it. I thought I had to Canada, but I had actually reflected just in the last few days that what I felt was not actually love.

This one I will notch up to experience and I suspect his regret will be greater than mine over time. We were an amazing match up while it lasted, it’s sad he couldn’t even give us a chance to talk first.

I'm sorry DD, guard your heart ...some people just aren't Worthy.

 

[DDBustyBrit]

Thank you all for the sweet supportive comments. I’m not heartbroken over this one, but seriously an e-mail is all I deserve after 6 months of daily cam calls. My earlier Ex may have broken my heart, but at least he was a gentleman and spoke to me and then communicated for awhile after.

And this one came in right after that and saw my total heartbreak and supported me, and he does this to me... just wow, I never expected this from him. I’m in shock and can’t believe he would treat me like this.

I have long said we should have a blacklist for those here who treat people like that, I’m still in favor of one. And the interesting thing is this guy would make it, the other I think I’d cut some slack as at least he had the guts to tell me in person!

Ironically he also does much research on personality disorders and assesses everyone. Well if you can do this to someone you have been this close to for this long, I think it’s clear who has a personality disorder!

In the words of Gloria Gaynor - I will survive

 

[ydahecnot]

That it was all confirmation bias.

I have been more concerned about communion bias

 

[BlackCashmere]

Sorry to hear this, I feel this should have been handled differently by him, but we can't change what is. I hope you lean on the people you trust and know care about you as a person. We all have been through through it, my advice is:

To lean on those, who truly love you
Take this time to get to know yourself and love yourself on a deeper level.
Let yourself heal, before letting someone in
Make sure the next man you deal with, earns his way to you body and heart, before you let him in
Let all that emotion out

Just know, no matter what you do, heartbreak can't be predicted ( except for the more obvious situations ). Love is a giant risk, when it's working in our favor it feels like the greatest gift in the world, but when it doesn't feels like a deep low.

Best of luck and wishes to you

Sage advice...

 

[tnman03]

I have been more concerned about communion bias

Oh??? Do tell???

 

[ydahecnot]

Oh??? Do tell???

Lapsed Catholic humor

 

[Polranny]

Thank you all for the sweet supportive comments. I’m not heartbroken over this one, but seriously an e-mail is all I deserve after 6 months of daily cam calls. My earlier Ex may have broken my heart, but at least he was a gentleman and spoke to me and then communicated for awhile after.

And this one came in right after that and saw my total heartbreak and supported me, and he does this to me... just wow, I never expected this from him. I’m in shock and can’t believe he would treat me like this.

I have long said we should have a blacklist for those here who treat people like that, I’m still in favor of one. And the interesting thing is this guy would make it, the other I think I’d cut some slack as at least he had the guts to tell me in person!

Ironically he also does much research on personality disorders and assesses everyone. Well if you can do this to someone you have been this close to for this long, I think it’s clear who has a personality disorder!

In the words of Gloria Gaynor - I will survive

Of course you'll survive but it doesn't alter the fact that Canada has shown himself to be a heartless bastard, perhaps he should test the water in one of those Great Lakes with a millstone round his neck

 

[tnman03]

Lapsed Catholic humor

I had an inkling...went to a Catholic school for a year...eye opening experence...confused the hell out of me for sure too.

 

[BlackCashmere]

** googles Millstone**

 

[letsusethethinkingchair]

I hope this goes better than last time.

 

[fsa52]

Same song, second verse repeating in my head

 

[fungatorgurl101]

I can say I have been thinking about last night all day. In a good way

 

[Amethyst_MoonFlower]

I'm hoping I can connect with someone on here. I really like to talk to someone who intrigues me.

 

[English_guy_bkk]

What are you thinking right now.

I'm hoping I can connect with someone on here. I really like to talk to someone who intrigues me.

Good luck.

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

I'm trying not to. Thoughts are messy objects by nature.

 

[JennyNo1]

So after 6 happy months with daily contact, I tonight received a ‘Dear John’ e-mail ending our relationship. I never had Canada tagged as a man who would be so inconsiderate and disrespectful.

It just goes to show how fooled we can be. It’s going to be a very long time before I trust my judgment on men, or another Lit man.

This time however I’m finding out it doesn’t hurt nearly as bad as the last one. I may be unwittingly protecting my heart more and also taking my time before I give it. I thought I had to Canada, but I had actually reflected just in the last few days that what I felt was not actually love.

This one I will notch up to experience and I suspect his regret will be greater than mine over time. We were an amazing match up while it lasted, it’s sad he couldn’t even give us a chance to talk first.

I'm so sorry. I know you and I have had our differences, but no one deserves that. I know with your inimitable spirit, you'll be on top again soon, stronger than ever. Keep loving yourself!

 

[Moochienanu]

Fuck you, Covid-19.

 

[tnman03]

Fuck you, Covid-19.

I agree. You be safe where you are and where your working.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

PSA Everyone in The World:

The world does not revolve around you.

If you need something from someone, ask nicely.

If you act like a mannerless twat waffle to someone don't be surprised if you get that in return.

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[Wild_Honey_66]

...but seriously an e-mail is all I deserve after 6 months of daily cam calls...

My earlier ex... but at least he was a gentleman and spoke to me and then communicated for awhile after.

...I never expected this from him. I’m in shock and can’t believe he would treat me like this.

... at least he had the guts to tell me in person!

The last three men i dated offline broke up with me (or didn't) via text/messenger.

I think it's becoming so commonplace that it seems acceptable to some, as crazy as that sounds.

 

[Emaliey]

Camping...

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

The last three men i dated offline broke up with me (or didn't) via text/messenger.

I think it's becoming so commonplace that it seems acceptable to some, as crazy as that sounds.

Fucking cowards.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

When you are a person who does shitty things to people, it should not come as a surprise when you are shat upon.

 

[Xerxes82]

Are we sure it's Monday? Today has been awesome so far.

Hope I didn't just jinx it.