What Are You Thinking? Continued 6

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If the word “Quarantine” was changed to something like Relax at Home, things wouldn’t be that scary
 
Maybe I’m devastatingly sad. People keep telling me that I sound that way. I guess I do see it. And, unless there’s some major cognitive dissonance, I don’t think I’m as miserable as I might read.

I just might need to focus on the positive more.
 
So after 6 happy months with daily contact, I tonight received a ‘Dear John’ e-mail ending our relationship. I never had Canada tagged as a man who would be so inconsiderate and disrespectful.

It just goes to show how fooled we can be. It’s going to be a very long time before I trust my judgment on men, or another Lit man.

This time however I’m finding out it doesn’t hurt nearly as bad as the last one. I may be unwittingly protecting my heart more and also taking my time before I give it. I thought I had to Canada, but I had actually reflected just in the last few days that what I felt was not actually love.

This one I will notch up to experience and I suspect his regret will be greater than mine over time. We were an amazing match up while it lasted, it’s sad he couldn’t even give us a chance to talk first.
 
So after 6 happy months with daily contact, I tonight received a ‘Dear John’ e-mail ending our relationship. I never had Canada tagged as a man who would be so inconsiderate and disrespectful.

It just goes to show how fooled we can be. It’s going to be a very long time before I trust my judgment on men, or another Lit man.

This time however I’m finding out it doesn’t hurt nearly as bad as the last one. I may be unwittingly protecting my heart more and also taking my time before I give it. I thought I had to Canada, but I had actually reflected just in the last few days that what I felt was not actually love.

This one I will notch up to experience and I suspect his regret will be greater than mine over time. We were an amazing match up while it lasted, it’s sad he couldn’t even give us a chance to talk first.

I'm sorry DD ⚘
 
So after 6 happy months with daily contact, I tonight received a ‘Dear John’ e-mail ending our relationship. I never had Canada tagged as a man who would be so inconsiderate and disrespectful.

It just goes to show how fooled we can be. It’s going to be a very long time before I trust my judgment on men, or another Lit man.

This time however I’m finding out it doesn’t hurt nearly as bad as the last one. I may be unwittingly protecting my heart more and also taking my time before I give it. I thought I had to Canada, but I had actually reflected just in the last few days that what I felt was not actually love.

This one I will notch up to experience and I suspect his regret will be greater than mine over time. We were an amazing match up while it lasted, it’s sad he couldn’t even give us a chance to talk first.

That really sucks, I know how that feels. It’s good that he messaged you, rather than just ghosting you, so hopefully that makes things a little easier.

Sounds like the perfect excuse for some girly pampering! Do something fun to treat yourself! :)
 
So after 6 happy months with daily contact, I tonight received a ‘Dear John’ e-mail ending our relationship. I never had Canada tagged as a man who would be so inconsiderate and disrespectful.

It just goes to show how fooled we can be. It’s going to be a very long time before I trust my judgment on men, or another Lit man.

This time however I’m finding out it doesn’t hurt nearly as bad as the last one. I may be unwittingly protecting my heart more and also taking my time before I give it. I thought I had to Canada, but I had actually reflected just in the last few days that what I felt was not actually love.

This one I will notch up to experience and I suspect his regret will be greater than mine over time. We were an amazing match up while it lasted, it’s sad he couldn’t even give us a chance to talk first.

Sorry to hear this, I feel this should have been handled differently by him, but we can't change what is. I hope you lean on the people you trust and know care about you as a person. We all have been through through it, my advice is:

To lean on those, who truly love you
Take this time to get to know yourself and love yourself on a deeper level.
Let yourself heal, before letting someone in
Make sure the next man you deal with, earns his way to you body and heart, before you let him in
Let all that emotion out

Just know, no matter what you do, heartbreak can't be predicted ( except for the more obvious situations ). Love is a giant risk, when it's working in our favor it feels like the greatest gift in the world, but when it doesn't feels like a deep low.

Best of luck and wishes to you
 
So after 6 happy months with daily contact, I tonight received a ‘Dear John’ e-mail ending our relationship. I never had Canada tagged as a man who would be so inconsiderate and disrespectful.

It just goes to show how fooled we can be. It’s going to be a very long time before I trust my judgment on men, or another Lit man.

This time however I’m finding out it doesn’t hurt nearly as bad as the last one. I may be unwittingly protecting my heart more and also taking my time before I give it. I thought I had to Canada, but I had actually reflected just in the last few days that what I felt was not actually love.

This one I will notch up to experience and I suspect his regret will be greater than mine over time. We were an amazing match up while it lasted, it’s sad he couldn’t even give us a chance to talk first.

Ah, that sucks. Especially out of the blue like that :/
 
So after 6 happy months with daily contact, I tonight received a ‘Dear John’ e-mail ending our relationship. I never had Canada tagged as a man who would be so inconsiderate and disrespectful.

It just goes to show how fooled we can be. It’s going to be a very long time before I trust my judgment on men, or another Lit man.

This time however I’m finding out it doesn’t hurt nearly as bad as the last one. I may be unwittingly protecting my heart more and also taking my time before I give it. I thought I had to Canada, but I had actually reflected just in the last few days that what I felt was not actually love.

This one I will notch up to experience and I suspect his regret will be greater than mine over time. We were an amazing match up while it lasted, it’s sad he couldn’t even give us a chance to talk first.

I m so sorry to read this, sweet sexy DD.
I always so enjoyed your banters of Canada.....
Sending you hugs, :kiss::rose::rose::rose:
 
You know you're old when you go to the grocery store and check the expiration date on canned goods wondering if these are items your kids might find in your cupboard and still want to eat after your wake. :rolleyes:
 
So after 6 happy months with daily contact, I tonight received a ‘Dear John’ e-mail ending our relationship. I never had Canada tagged as a man who would be so inconsiderate and disrespectful.

It just goes to show how fooled we can be. It’s going to be a very long time before I trust my judgment on men, or another Lit man.

This time however I’m finding out it doesn’t hurt nearly as bad as the last one. I may be unwittingly protecting my heart more and also taking my time before I give it. I thought I had to Canada, but I had actually reflected just in the last few days that what I felt was not actually love.

This one I will notch up to experience and I suspect his regret will be greater than mine over time. We were an amazing match up while it lasted, it’s sad he couldn’t even give us a chance to talk first.

Sorry to read this.... ..hugs DDBB
 
I must be a pretty boring person.

Seems 2 PMs is the limit people have for me before they stop talking to me. Well fuck a duck.
 
I'll never understand what drives someone to PM you about stuff you talk about on threads. That's literally what threads are for.
 
I was thinking if time travel were possible we could go anywhere in the universe instantly. Go back to the beginning of the Big Bang when all matter is in the same place then forward to where and when you want to be. Of course the infinite density and gravity would be a problem but that is what I’m thinking about.
 
I was thinking if time travel were possible we could go anywhere in the universe instantly. Go back to the beginning of the Big Bang when all matter is in the same place then forward to where and when you want to be. Of course the infinite density and gravity would be a problem but that is what I’m thinking about.

There's quite enough density on Lit. :D
 
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