Being bent over...

[Hornblende]

I'm posting this question largely out of curiosity, and also because it's never a bad thing to improve one's understanding of the opposite sex .

It's about the phrase "being bent over...". In my meanderings around the forums I've noticed this phrase being used a lot by women contributors. The phraseology used is rarely "bending over.." (the sofa, a chair, the bed, etc..). It's almost always "being bent over...".

This led me to wonder about the psychology of this usage. So here's the question. If you like being bent over things (and then being fucked, licked or spanked, presumably) is it a positional thing, or a submissive thing, or something else entirely? If it is positional, then what are the different sensations you feel?

I did of course ask my woman about this, and she told me that it was about positions, angles, different sensations. I know, though, that she sometimes likes to submit too, so perhaps there's an element of that too...

Anyway, over to you, Litsters.

 

[LegendaryALT]

I see it mostly in terms of, being bent over the knee

I think for some reason during her childhood


She gets turned on, by being punished
Or
Has a Daddy experience, due to something in her childhood



I don't mean abuse or underage situations



Intrested in what the ladies have to say about this

 

[Trekka]

Being bent over is naughty.

I mean, I’ll go ahead and assume the position on my own sometimes, to, quite literally, be cheeky.
But it’s rare that a woman is going to strip herself down and bend herself over.
I mean, that’s what sluts would do.
And 99% of us are very good girls.
So, we might need a little assist, a little gentle (or rough!) encouragement from you menfolk.

I just like to get man-handled. And Numi’s correct, the position itself feels good.

 

[Karabare]

Being bent over is naughty.

I just like to get man-handled. And Numi’s correct, the position itself feels good.

Truer words have never been written

 

[Trekka]

Truer words have never been written

Right? Makes a girl feel good n appreciated.

 

[Karabare]

Right? Makes a girl feel good n appreciated.

A slap on the bum (or three) makes it that much better

 

[Cyberbella]

For me being bent over is losing control...his need to have me right then and right now

 

[Trekka]

Also, it’s primal.

 

[QuietCanadian]

Being bent over is naughty.

I mean, I’ll go ahead and assume the position on my own sometimes, to, quite literally, be cheeky.
But it’s rare that a woman is going to strip herself down and bend herself over.
I mean, that’s what sluts would do.
And 99% of us are very good girls.
So, we might need a little assist, a little gentle (or rough!) encouragement from you menfolk.

I just like to get man-handled. And Numi’s correct, the position itself feels good.

Truer words have never been written

Right? Makes a girl feel good n appreciated.

A slap on the bum (or three) makes it that much better

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[Scareltt]

So many sensations..

It’s a total escape. First you’re bent over. So you can’t see your partner. It’s not being blindfolded but you’re still left to wonder.

Will he take you quick? Or will it be slow? Will it be a slow gentle screw? Or a fuck?

It’s also primal, the whole idea of, “being breed”.

Then there is the different angle of penetration. Depending on how he’s standing and how or what you’re bent over. So many different places can get touched.

 

[Hornblende]

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Me too....

 

[Scareltt]

I’m glad.

Me too....

I’m glad you see you guys writing this down.

 

[Hornblende]

Thanks for all the replies - I will respond in more detail at some point but, being involved in the AMA thread this week, I barely have enough time for food and drink in between all the typing...

 

[QuietCanadian]

I’m glad you see you guys writing this down.

I haven't even drawn pictures yet.

 

[may_I_please]

I'm posting this question largely out of curiosity, and also because it's never a bad thing to improve one's understanding of the opposite sex .

It's about the phrase "being bent over...". In my meanderings around the forums I've noticed this phrase being used a lot by women contributors. The phraseology used is rarely "bending over.." (the sofa, a chair, the bed, etc..). It's almost always "being bent over...".

This led me to wonder about the psychology of this usage. So here's the question. If you like being bent over things (and then being fucked, licked or spanked, presumably) is it a positional thing, or a submissive thing, or something else entirely? If it is positional, then what are the different sensations you feel?

I did of course ask my woman about this, and she told me that it was about positions, angles, different sensations. I know, though, that she sometimes likes to submit too, so perhaps there's an element of that too...

Anyway, over to you, Litsters.

It’s about control and then about angles

Being taken is different to making love, more primal, more freeing in a way, clears the head of self and ego, turns you into a toy. I like being a plaything

And then hitting from behind just gets to the g spot a little better

Oh and hi

 

[ydahecnot]

Hey you You need to, um, reillustrate yourself

 

[may_I_please]

Hey you You need to, um, reillustrate yourself

OK

With what?

 

[ydahecnot]

Not terribly much

 

[may_I_please]

I think I should be appropriate

Gimme a sec

Edit: how’d I do?

 

[ydahecnot]

Quite appropriate, I daresay

 

[Hornblende]

It’s about control and then about angles

Being taken is different to making love, more primal, more freeing in a way, clears the head of self and ego, turns you into a toy. I like being a plaything

And then hitting from behind just gets to the g spot a little better

Oh and hi

Hi! Good to meet you, and thanks for the elucidation! Primal is an excellent way to describe this psychologically, but the angle thing works well too, I know from personal experience. I'm in charge (well mostly in charge ) of a cock with a pronounced upward curve when erect, and I believe that helps to hit the right spots...

 

[Trekka]

Thanks for all the replies - I will respond in more detail at some point but, being involved in the AMA thread this week, I barely have enough time for food and drink in between all the typing...

Dude. I feel you.
*collapses from exhaustion*

Also being bent over is - giggling - just plain old comfy!

 

[Hornblende]

Dude. I feel you.
*collapses from exhaustion*

Also being bent over is - giggling - just plain old comfy!

Maybe if it's too comfy you're doing it wrongly? Just sayin'....

 

[ydahecnot]

Would bending her like Beckham be good or no? AFAF

 

[Booboobear84]

Would bending her like Beckham be good or no? AFAF

I expect there are a lot of women who would like to be bent by Beckham