Hornblende
Exploring eloquence
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Would bending her like Beckham be good or no? AFAF
Is the friend more interested in soccer or sex?

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Would bending her like Beckham be good or no? AFAF

Is the friend more interested in soccer or sex?![]()
Definitely a difference in the balls.
Did someone say bend over? Yes please.
It's definitely a more primal experience but sometimes that's just what a couple wants.


That word primal keeps cropping up!![]()
...First you’re bent over. So you can’t see your partner....Will he take you quick? Or will it be slow? Will it be a slow gentle screw? Or a fuck?
Then there is the different angle of penetration[ d]epending on how he’s standing and how or what you’re bent over.
All of the above, and I'd add that not having someone's face right in front of yours enables the recipient (as well as the giver, I imagine) to fantasize about someone else more easily.
All of the above, and I'd add that not having someone's face right in front of yours enables the recipient (as well as the giver, I imagine) to fantasize about someone else more easily.
I love / hate the mirror thingUnless, of course, there is a pre-positioned mirror so the Predator can yank His prey's head back by her hair with His left hand, making her look at herself as He drives Himself into her again and again and again, asking her, "look at that sexy woman! Isn't she beautiful? Isn't she desirable? Look how she is taking her Chosen Mate and everything she stirs in Him!" Punctuated, of course, by hard slaps of His right hand on her ass each time she takes too long to answer His question, or answers incorrectly.
***cough***
Or so I've heard. Being, of course, far too innocent to know such things first hand myself, yanno.
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Chosen Mate had me thinking of chess. Wrong kind of pawn site I guess.Unless, of course, there is a pre-positioned mirror so the Predator can yank His prey's head back by her hair with His left hand, making her look at herself as He drives Himself into her again and again and again, asking her, "look at that sexy woman! Isn't she beautiful? Isn't she desirable? Look how she is taking her Chosen Mate and everything she stirs in Him!" Punctuated, of course, by hard slaps of His right hand on her ass each time she takes too long to answer His question, or answers incorrectly.
***cough***
Or so I've heard. Being, of course, far too innocent to know such things first hand myself, yanno.
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Chosen Mate had me thinking of chess. Wrong kind of pawn site I guess.
At least it wasn't your sub.
Well, as to the phrasing, I do think it is because of how the control is balanced in that position. He has most of the control. As for the position itself, I have several reasons why it is in my top three favorite positions. As many mentioned, the whole primal aspect. It is a powerful position, very raw, him being in control, which is the probably the key to why I love about it but there are also logistical points. Again, there is the angle of penetration that works well. There is also the ease. I might request a switch to that position because a muscle group is fatigued from maintaining another position. I also love cowgirl, but then I might need a little break. It is an easy position for a female. Also, If he is much heavier than I am and I have been on top a while, it is a good choice.
There is also the whole unusual location type thing. It is a quick and dirty position in which a bed is irrelevant. If I am going to have sex in an elevator, for example, that will be my go to. I am a fairly tall girl, but I am still a bit shorter than the average man. That can make standing sex awkward. However, bending down, shifts hips upward, and makes up for that minor height variation. In an elevator, I would bend over having my hands on the handrail. Dressing room benches are small and not overly sturdy, the smarter use for them is for hand placement. Cars are rather restrictive and awkward, the hood is much less restrictive, but we probably don't want to risk dents. How strong is that table really?
There is also the option of placing hands on other body parts, breasts and clit can easily come in to play, and, of course, the ass smack. You don't have to feel like you should constantly maintain that whole romantic eye contact and deep kissing thing, which I find can get a little stifling. Sometimes I like being in control and sometimes I am just not in the mood to be in control. It is a flattering position if you are feeling fat that day. I don't have to worry about my boobs hitting him in the face all time.
Yes, there are many reasons that it is one of my preferred positions.
You're absolutely right that it works well with lovers of different heights, or as a change in position when muscles are getting tired. And while I can see what you mean about the eye contact thing, I personally like a mirror at the top of the bed/sofa, so we can both watch ourselves as we fuck!Chosen Mate had me thinking of chess. Wrong kind of pawn site I guess.

That's a really comprehensive answer, thank you!You're absolutely right that it works well with lovers of different heights, or as a change in position when muscles are getting tired. And while I can see what you mean about the eye contact thing, I personally like a mirror at the top of the bed/sofa, so we can both watch ourselves as we fuck!
I also love to administer a sound spanking, with hand, flogger, paddle, crop, cane, whatever really. When my woman masturbates at the same time it's even better, sighs of pleasure and pain merging into a powerful orgasm. Excuse me for a moment, I just have to have a little lie down...![]()