HOW NOT to message a woman...ever

[KBelle1104]

Message pic attached. I don’t know how to report it... any mods around?

 

[Bdm20]

Message pic attached. I don’t know how to report it... any mods around?

Yikes! So sorry. What an A-hole.

 

[bbginger22]

Wowwwwwwww so sorry friend!

 

[MsLead]

Another rude male scary ass pig! Supposed to be fun here men!

 

[bondagegirl007]

Hit Forward on the message and send it to Laurel and Manu (type in their names in the recipient box and they'll pop up). They're really good about responding and they take these things seriously.

 

[5by5]

Oh my goodness, I've had nasty encounters but nothing as vile as that.

 

[KBelle1104]

Hit Forward on the message and send it to Laurel and Manu (type in their names in the recipient box and they'll pop up). They're really good about responding and they take these things seriously.

Omg thank you!!!!

 

[Booboobear84]

Message pic attached. I don’t know how to report it... any mods around?

That's not alright on so many levels. Sorry you had to deal with this.

 

[bondagegirl007]

Omg thank you!!!!

You're welcome! I had... a similar experience. Laurel responded really fast and took care of the situation thankfully, but it ruined this place for me for a little while. Luckily I've had a lot of really great experiences to counteract it.

 

[WetBiMoose]

The complete opposite of how any woman anywhere should be treated. First message was bad enough...if the second message was via text and you knew that person you could file a police report and have them charged.

On behalf of the less idiotic men on Lit I apologize for you having to deal with that kind of behavior.

 

[eroticageek]

Not sure why someone would think that line would get them anywhere...

 

[Thepenismightier0813]

It's really unfortunate. It scares me to see how much some people think anonymity on the internet gives them power. You didn't deserve such a comment and I hope that you see to the justice you deserve.

 

[Dribble]

I find behavior like this unacceptable on any level. As a man, I apologize. One way to stop getting random pm messages is to turn them off to anyone but your friends and the mods. This forces people to interact here...in the forums...

 

[gsmith1973]

As a man, you have my apologies. Occasionally people here think they can dispense with social courtesies.

 

[GreenManOfTheWood]

*shakes my head* ... aside from apologizing as a member of the male half of the world ... it makes me sad to think that there are assholes like this running around thinking that hiding behind a nick makes their behavior acceptable. How can someone reach the age of majority and believe they can start a conversation off like this? ... *shakes my head again*

 

[niceshot]

KBelle, still getting messages from your seeking post? Have you thought about deleting the attachments?

 

[BrokenBarbie]

Sorry you got one like that, sadly it happens.

 

[ChattyMikey]

I don't see myself as exactly Shakespearean in my composition, but I can't begin to imagine how anyone would think that's acceptable!

 

[BrokenBarbie]

I don't see myself as exactly Shakespearean in my composition, but I can't begin to imagine how anyone would think that's acceptable!

There are more than a couple people on here that send things like that.

People get brave and rude behind keyboards.

 

[ChattyMikey]

There are more than a couple people on here that send things like that.

People get brave and rude behind keyboards.

There's nothing brave there, it's aggressive and degrading.

 

[BrokenBarbie]

There's nothing brave there, it's aggressive and degrading.

And nothing he’s ever have the balls to say in person, most likely.

 

[PageWriter]

Idiot

Completely uncalled for

 

[blisteredbunz]

Total loser

 

[Unravelx]

No way am I opening the image!

Sorry there are men out there letting the side down

 

[misterym]

Respect and consideration

As an ADULT male I am taken aback by this.. now if this was in the midst of heated role play that's 1 consideration.... however, I was taught to respect. Just because you are on a site like Literotica does NOT give you the right to treat someone like that. OR be treated like that.

Even as a Dom the 1st thing you need to do is listen. Find common ground, negotiate... be respectful, but with a firm hand.