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Jada59

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Wasn't sure where to put this so I'm putting it here. I will try to PM some of you. I know that many of you were concerned about my living situation and a certain person refer to as "J"

Things escalated badly today to the point of me feeling unsafe. The police were called. He and his GF are moving out willingly as I type this, however, I also went the legal route as backup.

I have a restraining order so he can not come back. And a miracle has happened. I won't give details but I will now have the financial means to put things back in order.

I have petitioned the court to have J get counseling (of the mental health type). I do wish him well. I want him to get help. I just can't have him living here any more.

Dang! This almost feels better than when I got my divorce!

Please note that I am not looking to find a man. That's not why I started this thread. But for those of you I've had to put off (and you know who you are) due to lack of privacy, we can carry on! Might take a few days before I feel comfortable doing that. I still have to go back to court twice, change the locks, etc. So I will be on high alert, especially at night lest he try to come back before all the legal stuff is complete.

And then... Party on!

Love you all and thanks for showing me your support through all of this.

*Hugs all around*

For those who don't know what I'm talking about and feel the need to know or those who know but want more details, you can PM me. I just think it would be doing him a disservice to publicly post all that stiff. I really do love him and I really do hope he gets the help he needs.

Again, thanks for your support! :kiss::kiss::kiss:
 
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Wasn't sure where to put this so I'm putting it here. I will try to PM some of you. I know that many of you were concerned about my living situation and a certain person refer to as "J"

Things escalated badly today to the point of me feeling unsafe. The police were called. He and his GF are moving out willingly as I type this, however, I also went the legal route as backup.

I have a restraining order so he can not come back. And a miracle has happened. I won't give details but I will now have the financial means to put things back in order.

I have petitioned the court to have J get counseling (of the mental health type). I do wish him well. I want him to get help. I just can't have him living here any more.

Dang! This almost feels better than when I got my divorce!

Please note that I am not looking to find a man. That's not why I started this thread. But for those of you I've had to put off (and you know who you are) due to lack of privacy, we can carry on! Might take a few days before I feel comfortable doing that. I still have to go back to court twice, change the locks, etc. So I will be on high alert, especially at night lest he try to come back before all the legal stuff is complete.

And then... Party on!

Love you all and thanks for showing me your support through all of this.

*Hugs all around*

For those who don't know what I'm talking about and feel the need to know or those who know but want more details, you can PM me. I just think it would be doing him a disservice to publicly post all that stiff. I really do love him and I really do hope he gets the help he needs.

Again, thanks for your support! :kiss::kiss::kiss:

Good news bad news. Good for you.
 
Sounds like its time to end this chapter in your life and start a fresh one! Change is always good! Take care of YOURSELF!:)
 
Wasn't sure where to put this so I'm putting it here. I will try to PM some of you. I know that many of you were concerned about my living situation and a certain person refer to as "J"

Things escalated badly today to the point of me feeling unsafe. The police were called. He and his GF are moving out willingly as I type this, however, I also went the legal route as backup.

I have a restraining order so he can not come back. And a miracle has happened. I won't give details but I will now have the financial means to put things back in order.

I have petitioned the court to have J get counseling (of the mental health type). I do wish him well. I want him to get help. I just can't have him living here any more.

Dang! This almost feels better than when I got my divorce!

Please note that I am not looking to find a man. That's not why I started this thread. But for those of you I've had to put off (and you know who you are) due to lack of privacy, we can carry on! Might take a few days before I feel comfortable doing that. I still have to go back to court twice, change the locks, etc. So I will be on high alert, especially at night lest he try to come back before all the legal stuff is complete.

And then... Party on!

Love you all and thanks for showing me your support through all of this.

*Hugs all around*

For those who don't know what I'm talking about and feel the need to know or those who know but want more details, you can PM me. I just think it would be doing him a disservice to publicly post all that stiff. I really do love him and I really do hope he gets the help he needs.

Again, thanks for your support! :kiss::kiss::kiss:

Glad you are out of a bad situation!!!
 
We have never chatted but I read your post and that situation had me worried. I'm relieved he is out and that you are ok. Once you are settled, I hope you can take a great big breath and relax. And get a good night's sleep finally!
 
If you are simply replacing a deadbolt, it is less than $20 at any ACE hardware. All it takes is a medium Phillip's head screwdriver and 5 minutes. For any window or sliding glass door, all you have to do is cut a piece of wood to act as a wedgie.
 
I must say, that is one classy move, keeping the particulars off a public forum. Speaks volumes about the kind of person you are. I am glad you are out of a bad situation and I hope everything works out in your favor with the courts.
 
I hope everything is ok Jada. You have always been very kind.

Thank you. Everything will be good. I know it! As of tomorrow I will have a person back in my life who was a great help to me in the past. Because of her, I survived my former marriage and now this. I am super happy to meet up with her again!

*Hug*
 
Sounds like its time to end this chapter in your life and start a fresh one! Change is always good! Take care of YOURSELF!:)

For sure. Just like my ringtone... I feel good!

*Hug*
 
We have never chatted but I read your post and that situation had me worried. I'm relieved he is out and that you are ok. Once you are settled, I hope you can take a great big breath and relax. And get a good night's sleep finally!

Thanks so much.

*Hug*
 
If you are simply replacing a deadbolt, it is less than $20 at any ACE hardware. All it takes is a medium Phillip's head screwdriver and 5 minutes. For any window or sliding glass door, all you have to do is cut a piece of wood to act as a wedgie.

I have not tried to do a deadbolt before. I have replaced a door knob. Took me days to get it right. J took most of my tools. Took as in took them to the tiny house. I have not ventured back there yet as he still has an hour to get more of his things. I found someone to help me.
 
I must say, that is one classy move, keeping the particulars off a public forum. Speaks volumes about the kind of person you are. I am glad you are out of a bad situation and I hope everything works out in your favor with the courts.

Thank you!

*Hug*
 
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