Sexless Marriages

Aww yes I’m pretty sure they would be too...

Although we are in an open relationship 😂

The problem with you 3 Amigos is spoiling the friendships!

Not worth it, even for a quick shag! 😊

Hate quickie, need good hour.

We three musketeers, Brit, you the damsel, and we mean the HOT damsel in distress.
 
I'm feeling self conscious standing at a bar, looking cool, in my boxers, it seems as though the other two are doing something with their muskets
 
I'm feeling self conscious standing at a bar, looking cool, in my boxers, it seems as though the other two are doing something with their muskets

Bar leaves me out, don't and can't drink. Well, I can, if I want my liver disease to get me before the government does. Lol
 
I'm feeling self conscious standing at a bar, looking cool, in my boxers, it seems as though the other two are doing something with their muskets

Dude. That wasn’t what we meant by “dress for success “.
 
Can I be part of this club too?

Been married 10 years here and 3 kids. After the last one was born, things slowly started to drop off. Now I'm at the point where it has been about 4.5 months. She sees no need for it except to have kids. I've been snipped so there goes that. I'm all for giving massages and those things but it sucks feeling that she's not even 100% there with a hug......
 
Been married 10 years here and 3 kids. After the last one was born, things slowly started to drop off. Now I'm at the point where it has been about 4.5 months. She sees no need for it except to have kids. I've been snipped so there goes that. I'm all for giving massages and those things but it sucks feeling that she's not even 100% there with a hug......

Does suck to love one and not sure if the other one does back as much. Feels like more like room mates than hubby and wife some days.
 
Anyone else with this problem?
I have a high sex drive and the wife doesn't.
Looking for others with this problem, and possibly helping fill our needs.

Right there with you.
Wife enjoys back rubs and is satisfied. I see them as foreplay that never goes anywhere​.
Especially frustrating when she sleeps topless or nude.
Tried romance, tried being "manly" and forceful. *Sigh*
 
51 female who can join this same boat.
My sex drive is stronger than it’s ever been.
My Hub not so much. It’s going on 6 months.
Self love has kept me going, however, it’s not
the same. Midwest here.

Would love to watch as you love yourself
 
I hate myself when I ask or try for something. I’m always shot down so why do I keep trying. I think most of my anger and frustration is directed inward. Why do I keep hoping for something different? It isn’t going to happen.
 
Years ago, my wife and I had a dry spell for about 5 months and I talked to her about it, she considered giving me permission to find another. Oddly enough, the more she thought about it, the more she got jealous and decided to take it on herself. We had to talk about sex alot - and honestly. Some of the talk was very painful. Over 6 months the open communication, dating eachother again, and scheduled weekly sex led us to fantasies, Lit, and very regular and hotter than ever sex.

I have to keep putting this out there because I want folks to know you can move past it. It is hard, and you need to put in the effort - and if you still love her, its worth it. If she still loves you, she will put in the effort and things may improve, or she will give you permission to look elsewhere. If neither, get a divorce and move on.
 
Years ago, my wife and I had a dry spell for about 5 months and I talked to her about it, she considered giving me permission to find another. Oddly enough, the more she thought about it, the more she got jealous and decided to take it on herself. We had to talk about sex alot - and honestly. Some of the talk was very painful. Over 6 months the open communication, dating eachother again, and scheduled weekly sex led us to fantasies, Lit, and very regular and hotter than ever sex.

I have to keep putting this out there because I want folks to know you can move past it. It is hard, and you need to put in the effort - and if you still love her, its worth it. If she still loves you, she will put in the effort and things may improve, or she will give you permission to look elsewhere. If neither, get a divorce and move on.
I appreciate the input but not everyone has a communication problem and talking doesn’t fix everything. Plus I don’t see this as a black and white issue with divorcing or having sex as the only 2 outcomes. There are other factors such as money, kids, etc that factor into these decisions. Life is very complicated for most people.
 
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