Confessing Desire and Result

[woodword]

Showing or confessing desire can be scary. How many of you have fessed up to your object of affection and had a pleasant surprise? Or a bad ending? Or had it seemingly fail and then come around? Please share your stories of letting your desires be known and what resulted from your bold admission.

 

[anniebaby10]

OK. Well my hubby and I are pretty open about what we want sexually. One of the reasons we got on here is to "roll play" and chat with other people about their sex lives... to try new things. So I would love to see him suck a cock. And I have asked him. He laughed and said thanks but no. Did not get angry or even act surprised. We both have a lot of gay friends and one in particular was in our wedding and would be willing to be part of this. He was a college roommate of mine back in the day. At any rate, I keep bringing it up every now and then. I like gay porn so we put pornhub on streaming in our bedroom smart TV while we fuck as it really turns me on. So I went down that road and if you trust one another enough, nothing should be off limits to discuss

 

[woodword]

We'd live in a happier word if more relationships could be this open. Thanks for sharing!

 

[ericandshannon]

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[LekaSveta]

I did, it took a few years before she was in a headspace where she could reciprocate, but eventually it worked out for us)

I have a great fear of rejection, I'm a lesbian who's gaydar is fatally defective and I have a horrible habit of falling head over heels for straight girls! For a long time I figured my love life was just going to be an endless series of emotionless one night stands, or day after rejections when the object of my affections decided the next morning that sleeping with me was a bad idea. I got lucky and my soulmate finally found me (I'd have hit on her straight college roommate or something equally stupid if I'd found her first!)

 

[PaxNurgle]

It's never ended well for me. Lets just leave it at that. I typically try to keep my desires hidden, so as to avoid both heartache and embarrassment on my part and on hers as well. And, sometimes, to keep myself out of trouble. I certainly do not want to make anyone uncomfortable.

 

[screwher]

My wife

For many years I secretly fantasized about my wife having sex with other men. Just over three years ago ago I confessed my desires to Mrs. Screwher when an opportunity presented itself. As a couple we came to the decision that we both want to open up our marriage to include her having sex with other men. We've been loving our hotwife lifestyle ever since.

 

[13Fantasies]

It's never ended well for me. Lets just leave it at that. I typically try to keep my desires hidden, so as to avoid both heartache and embarrassment on my part and on hers as well. And, sometimes, to keep myself out of trouble. I certainly do not want to make anyone uncomfortable.

Pretty much the same. It's easy to talk about them, easier anyway, but it doesn't matter. There's never an acting on them, unless a firm NO counts as action...

 

[Erosfan]

I did this with my first wife and it went horribly wrong. She would not even try to understand and told me I was a pervert.
My wife now, is very open to discussing anything sexual with me. She listens, offers her thoughts and is quite receptive to my kinks. She assures me that I am quite normal. She says she doesn't have fantasies, go figure.
She has even made a few of my fantasies become reality (fantastic experiences). She is amazing and I can't imagine my life without her in it.

 

[quietlylooking]

One night in college a few weeks before the end of my senior year, I was out at a bar with a big group of friends. I had a huge crush on one of them, and that night I told him that I was really going to miss him (he was going overseas for graduate school and was leaving just after the semester ended). The next night he called me... and we got a six pack of beer and found a quiet spot on campus and talked all night. It was a beautiful night in every way. And then we stopped talking and started kissing. I saw a lot of him in those last two weeks...

 

[savmitch1038]

OK. Well my hubby and I are pretty open about what we want sexually. One of the reasons we got on here is to "roll play" and chat with other people about their sex lives... to try new things. So I would love to see him suck a cock. And I have asked him. He laughed and said thanks but no. Did not get angry or even act surprised. We both have a lot of gay friends and one in particular was in our wedding and would be willing to be part of this. He was a college roommate of mine back in the day. At any rate, I keep bringing it up every now and then. I like gay porn so we put pornhub on streaming in our bedroom smart TV while we fuck as it really turns me on. So I went down that road and if you trust one another enough, nothing should be off limits to discuss

Your fantasy is very hot! I wish my wife were that open. I would love to share a cock with my during a mfm. Your husband is a lucky man!

 

[clistenovena]

I did this with my first wife and it went horribly wrong. She would not even try to understand and told me I was a pervert.
My wife now, is very open to discussing anything sexual with me. She listens, offers her thoughts and is quite receptive to my kinks. She assures me that I am quite normal. She says she doesn't have fantasies, go figure.
She has even made a few of my fantasies become reality (fantastic experiences). She is amazing and I can't imagine my life without her in it.

How lovely! Good for you and your now-wife.

 

[Plane_Guy]

Showing or confessing desire can be scary. How many of you have fessed up to your object of affection and had a pleasant surprise? Or a bad ending? Or had it seemingly fail and then come around? Please share your stories of letting your desires be known and what resulted from your bold admission.

Well, I didn't fess up on first contact, but I did eventually tell her I was hooked. She already knew that. Don't remember what I said, in that first message, but I got a response and I continued the conversation with her for 5 years.

It did end badly, but life goes on and that perpetual torrent has a way of smoothing all the rough edges.

 

[ericandshannon]

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[BBCfan]

Showing or confessing desire can be scary. How many of you have fessed up to your object of affection and had a pleasant surprise? Or a bad ending? Or had it seemingly fail and then come around? Please share your stories of letting your desires be known and what resulted from your bold admission.

this is true story of when I confessed my hidden desire to suck big black cock to my then GF.

https://literotica.com/s/sucking-bbc-for-girlfriend

When I was dating my now wife, i very early on shared I'd had a few interactions with guys.

Eventually through some unforeseen circumstances I fully divulged the details of my black cock fetish.

Initially I think she was concerned I was a closeted homosexual . She asked to see the porn I masturbated to, which led to me jerking off to my fave BBC porn while she watched and demanded I not cum until I fucked her.

I know she has had many big black cocks so we ended up comparing notes of which BBC's we found most desirable as I edged my cock and shared my porn.

She was so turned on watching me edge to the porn that she came the quickest she ever has when I finally entered her.

I soon after bought a big realistic black dildo. When I told her, it eventually led to her wanting to see me suck it. I was concerned about revealing this side of my sexuality in action. I think she was still unsure of just how gay I might be and if there were still repressed desires I hadn't divulged.

It has led to a few great interactions with her getting into the role play and commanding me to suck while we fuck with awesome verbal play.

 

[Gabriel1664]

Wonderful about your sparking those last two weeks

quietly looking 0
Great you told him that and that you and he made that night, and those two weeks happen.

G

One night in college a few weeks before the end of my senior year, I was out at a bar with a big group of friends. I had a huge crush on one of them, and that night I told him that I was really going to miss him (he was going overseas for graduate school and was leaving just after the semester ended). The next night he called me... and we got a six pack of beer and found a quiet spot on campus and talked all night. It was a beautiful night in every way. And then we stopped talking and started kissing. I saw a lot of him in those last two weeks...

 

[JR284]

I had success but I had somewhat of an advantage. My fantasy for years had been for my wife to fuck other men, but she always came across as so vanilla and kinda innocent so I never thought she would go for it. I kept it a secret desire that I never shared with her. That all changed however when I found out that she was cheating on me. It was a huge shock, but also a massive turn on. As it turned out, she was the woman I had been fantasizing about the entire time. Clearly she was more than happy to fuck other guys, so at that point I confessed my desire to her. She was slightly hesitant at first, only because she thought I was making it up just to try to make things work but she soon realized that wasn't the case. Since then she has been with 26 guys and counting!

 

[woodword]

One night in college a few weeks before the end of my senior year, I was out at a bar with a big group of friends. I had a huge crush on one of them, and that night I told him that I was really going to miss him (he was going overseas for graduate school and was leaving just after the semester ended). The next night he called me... and we got a six pack of beer and found a quiet spot on campus and talked all night. It was a beautiful night in every way. And then we stopped talking and started kissing. I saw a lot of him in those last two weeks...

You are such a tease! Please please us with a few juicy details of how your confession of desire led to satisfaction. But good for you!

 

[woodword]

In college I met a girl at a bonfire who seemed to like me. We had a fun chat but that was it. We met on a Friday night. I thought about her all day Saturday. On Sunday I found a mutual friend who told me what dorm she lived in. Sunday evening I knocked on her door with flowers and a bottle of wine. She was stunned but let me in.

We drank the wine and talked for a couple hours and I left with a kiss. The next night I spent in her dorm room. She wanted to "take things slow" but asked in a very sexy, feminine, whispered. "I really like you. Can I give you a handjob?" I readily agreed and she lit a candle, peeled off her t-shirt, stood in a pair of white lace panties, got a bottle of baby oil from her bathroom, and peeled back the covers. Turns out she was the most skilled handjob giver of my life and gave me plenty more over the months we dated while mixing in all sorts of other fun.

I almost chickened out of knocking on her door as I stood in that dorm hallway.

 

[GD88]

My wife and I immediately clicked when we first met. We dated for about 3 weeks before we decided to go exclusive. For whatever reason we clicked so much personality-wise that there were no signs that we were going to escalate physically. The most physical we got was holding hands and a chaste kiss on the cheek when we agreed that we were going to go exclusive. The week after we decided to go exclusive we went to the movies. I decided I wanted to escalate physically. God knows I'd been friendzoned enough times for failing to show a woman that I desired her sexually.

She nestled into me when we watched the movie. It was a movie that I never remembered (and I have a pretty good memory) because halfway into it, with a theater that was half empty, I just started to caress and squeeze her tits through yellow tanktop. I remembered her reaction was to become giggly, to worry that someone might see us, and then to stop nestling into me. I was bit worried at how this might turn out for me.

I was determined though. I pulled her hand and put it on the hard bulge in my jeans. She giggled and commented that I was frisky today and pulled it away. But I persisted and placed it back on my bulge. Soon the giggles were gone, she stopped pulling her hands away, and she began squeezing and massaging my cock through my jeans.

Then the movie finished and I drove her back to her apartment. We were chatting as normal but then as we got close, I got serious and I told her that I've always enjoying spending time with her but that I also think that she's a sexy woman and that I want her. The conversation for the rest of the trip became non-existent and I again got worried.

Then when we arrived at her apartment, she finally broke her silence. "Do you want to come upstairs?". I thought it was now or never and said yes.

Don't quite remember how but the next thing I knew, we were making out on her couch with her straddling me. Much as woodword we decided to take things slow that night. But I got a great handjob and I came with her dirty talking in my ear about how she got wet and fingered herself thinking about me the night she first saw me. She later admitted that the fingering part was an exaggeration but that she legitimately "never got that wet for anybody when first meeting them."

 

[WonderWoman1980]

My ex husband loved girl on girl action so it was no surprise when he said he would like a mff. Even if he wasn’t into girl on girl, it’s probably almost every guys #1 fantasy. So I wasn’t instantly offended but I wasn’t on board with it. And thankfully he never persisted or insisted but he would bring it up every now and then. I had almost given in and agreed to it when I said that I would want a mfm afterwards. He flipped out and was totally against that idea. So the next few times he brought up the mff I brought up the mfm. Needless to say neither ever happened because when he said no I also said no

 

[Mtnmike]

My ex husband loved girl on girl action so it was no surprise when he said he would like a mff. Even if he wasn’t into girl on girl, it’s probably almost every guys #1 fantasy. So I wasn’t instantly offended but I wasn’t on board with it. And thankfully he never persisted or insisted but he would bring it up every now and then. I had almost given in and agreed to it when I said that I would want a mfm afterwards. He flipped out and was totally against that idea. So the next few times he brought up the mff I brought up the mfm. Needless to say neither ever happened because when he said no I also said no

Good for you, what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

 

[FL30]

Showing or confessing desire can be scary. How many of you have fessed up to your object of affection and had a pleasant surprise? Or a bad ending? Or had it seemingly fail and then come around? Please share your stories of letting your desires be known and what resulted from your bold admission.

I've had some good endings and some bad endings.

 

[Elite_Goblin]

I told my wife how much I had enjoyed our sexual escapades some years ago.
It put her very off to hear things like cock on neck, and other things that we actually talked about and did.

Decided to keep my mouth closed and just have LIT as my outlet now.

 

[Iris_66]

For me, it's always been about confessing my fetish for wearing female underwear.

After many 'should I?', nearly times, when I finally did, it absolutely bombed with my first wife, and was never mentioned again. It left me deeply self conscious and ashamed.

After the divorce, it took a big dollop of Dutch Courage and a huge leap of faith to confess to my GF. Luckily we were in a loving and 'try most things' relationship, so she embraced it. That has been the opening I needed to be comfortable in my own skin, and with my own kinks.

Subsequently, telling my (second) wife was another big jump, at a make or break stage in our relationship. She confessed she is attracted to women, but is afraid to make the jump, I confessed that I like (need) to dress like one and feminise in other ways (shaving etc). I guess in a way I am her lesbian lover!

So one disaster that put me years back, one amazing result and one good but somewhere in between for me