What Are YOU Thinking? Continued 3

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Thinking about a woman who one day marched me down to a store to buy condoms, but a month later was climbing on top of me unprotected. I’ll never know what her thinking was.
 
Wondering how I missed all the signs at first and once again fell into the unhealthy grip of a narcissist! Now determined to never let that happen again, from here on I’ll be a lot more cynical about being ‘love bombed’ initially.

Lesson learned, now I need to remember what he put me through the last few months and heal me.
 
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That’s a definite no.


Are you sure?? I mean I've never seen a bad looking one. :D:eek:


I love the varied style choices from Torrid, but where do I buy clothes from now? I've lost enough weight to be in the smallest size they carry...and even that seems to be hit or miss on if it will fit correctly.

This should be a "woohoo" moment but it's turning out to be bittersweet. So odd.

Maurice's and Charlotte Russe if you like Torrid. 👍
 
I really just want to go home, take a hot bath, climb in to bed and sleep. Is that to much to ask for?
 
I've noticed for a while now, my purpose for being on LIT has changed dramatically. I haven't put in any serious efforts in trying to seduce ladies in a while, yes I send pm's giving compliments, but no actual real consistent effort in seduction. I've had a lot more fun fucking with people, than I've had trying to fuck them 😆. It's funny as hell successfully baiting listers, let's you know you got them. I have been very honest in all my assessments, but realize nothing I say will change the fantasy some want to live on LIT, I'm moving on to the next subject.

Racism on LIT, in the GB it's blatant and I had fun informing them, they come from African genes and their Civilization was built off of stolen knowledge from Egypt. It was transferred from the Greeks who conquered Egypt, to The Roman Empire who conquered the Greeks, all of Europe after the Fall of Rome and traveled to the Americas. It was real fun seeing their reaction to it.

On the PG , Racism is much more subtle. They like their Racism, how they like their minorities, quiet and compliant. I've seen comments during the Election, speaking of getting rid of thr darkness, negative remarks on Muslims ( comment not made during Election time) and other comments throughout my time in the PG. Funny how everyone speaks their minds on almost all issues, but when PLP ( in the aidio philes a while ago ) brought up a question about race, it got real quiet and awkward. It's almost seems, if they open their mouths skeletons and hidden truths will come flying out. I don't know if anyone can sense or feel it, but I definitely can.


Just to be clear, not blaming my lack of popularity on racism. Not saying every Lister is racist, but for the most part I do see quiet Racism in the PG.
 
I've noticed for a while now, my purpose for being on LIT has changed dramatically. I haven't put in any serious efforts in trying to seduce ladies in a while, yes I send pm's giving compliments, but no actual real consistent effort in seduction. I've had a lot more fun fucking with people, than I've had trying to fuck them 😆. It's funny as hell successfully baiting listers, let's you know you got them. I have been very honest in all my assessments, but realize nothing I say will change the fantasy some want to live on LIT, I'm moving on to the next subject.

Racism on LIT, in the GB it's blatant and I had fun informing them, they come from African genes and their Civilization was built off of stolen knowledge from Egypt. It was transferred from the Greeks who conquered Egypt, to The Roman Empire who conquered the Greeks, all of Europe after the Fall of Rome and traveled to the Americas. It was real fun seeing their reaction to it.

On the PG , Racism is much more subtle. They like their Racism, how they like their minorities, quiet and compliant. I've seen comments during the Election, speaking of getting rid of thr darkness, negative remarks on Muslims ( comment not made during Election time) and other comments throughout my time in the PG. Funny how everyone speaks their minds on almost all issues, but when PLP ( in the aidio philes a while ago ) brought up a question about race, it got real quiet and awkward. It's almost seems, if they open their mouths skeletons and hidden truths will come flying out. I don't know if anyone can sense or feel it, but I definitely can.


Just to be clear, not blaming my lack of popularity on racism. Not saying every Lister is racist, but for the most part I do see quiet Racism in the PG.


I'm just hoping that you phrased this poorly and didn't just call me racist??
 
I love the varied style choices from Torrid, but where do I buy clothes from now? I've lost enough weight to be in the smallest size they carry...and even that seems to be hit or miss on if it will fit correctly.

This should be a "woohoo" moment but it's turning out to be bittersweet. So odd.

This happened to me too! I ended up finding similar things in Hot Topic. Congratulations and good luck with the shopping, lovely lady!
 
I'm just hoping that you phrased this poorly and didn't just call me racist??

I don't see where I worded it wrong and nothing there insinuates you being racist. I didn't call you Racist or anyone specifically, I'm speaking of the PG overall and used that situation as an example. You brought up a question about race, then all of LIT got quiet and awkward. My point being, the tone of quiet Racism that exists in the PG.
 
Wondering how I missed all the signs at first and once again fell into the unhealthy grip of a narcissist! Now determined to never let that happen again, from here on I’ll be a lot more cynical about being ‘love bombed’ initially.

Lesson learned, now I need to remember what he put me through the last few months and heal me.

You missed it the same way the rest of us do...by trusting someone to be who and what they portray themselves to be. You're no more "gullible" than the rest of us.

That doesn't mean we have to be more cynical, just more aware of the signs.

I'm sorry you're hurting and I hope you take the time you need to heal.
 
I don't see where I worded it wrong and nothing there insinuates you being racist. I didn't call you Racist or anyone specifically, I'm speaking of the PG overall and used that situation as an example. You brought up a question about race, then all of LIT got quiet and awkward. My point being, the tone of quiet Racism that exists in the PG.

I would argue -

The whole rest of the internet is arguing about racism.
People don't come to the PG for more heavy, deep, complicated issues.
Escapism is okay sometimes.
As I remember, you listened that episode months after it came out and conversation happened. So you probably missed the moment.
AfM and I shined a light on the issue for a moment but I also respect people's rights to not have an opinion.

But I appreciate the plug for AudioPhiles! ✌
 
You missed it the same way the rest of us do...by trusting someone to be who and what they portray themselves to be. You're no more "gullible" than the rest of us.

That doesn't mean we have to be more cynical, just more aware of the signs.

I'm sorry you're hurting and I hope you take the time you need to heal.

Thank you, should have known better as I’ve done it before and also should have listened to some fellow Litsters warnings. They tried to stop me going there!
 
I'm racist as fuck, and I know it. Every time I browse this forum, I think, "What's with all the fucking white bread?" Nothing but crackers in the morning, crackers in the evening, and crackers at suppertime. I'm tired of all these goddamn cracker bitches. This place needs more black women, more Asian women, more Latin women, more Middle Eastern women. No dudes, though. We're full up on dicks. (I'm also sexist as fuck.)
 
I would argue -

The whole rest of the internet is arguing about racism.
People don't come to the PG for more heavy, deep, complicated issues.
Escapism is okay sometimes.
As I remember, you listened that episode months after it came out and conversation happened. So you probably missed the moment.
AfM and I shined a light on the issue for a moment but I also respect people's rights to not have an opinion.

But I appreciate the plug for AudioPhiles! ✌

Not necessarily true, so many in depth comments on the ME TOO MOVEMENT, Body Shaming, I sometimes see Political posts, rape, deep real life family issues and more. I missed it, because I don't visit that thread, that specific post was brought to my attention. Many people listen to your thread.



I mentioned 1 incident that arised on the Audio Philes, to make my point. I also mentioned during the last Presidential Election, someone posting get rid of the darkness and another post about speaking unkindly to Muslims.


Point being my post has nothing to do with your thread, it was 1 of the incidents used to support my point, on Racism in the PG. The quiet Racism in the PG, is the only discussions I'm having, I'm not going to get distracted and let deflecting get in the way of my point.


QUIET RACISM IN THE PG
 
I mean - I've heard of worse systems...

Queens head the colonies and lay thousands of eggs to ensure the nest's survival. They are typically larger than workers.

Reproductive male ants mate with the queen and may die afterwards. They are generally the same size or larger than workers and have small heads with large eyes.

Workers are sterile, wingless females that never reproduce. Instead, they forage for food, care for the queen's offspring, maintain nests, and protect the colony. They can measure up to half an inch long and can be yellow, red, brown, or black in color.


Indeed 😆


When male lions take over a pride, they kill off all offspring that isn't his and have access to all females in the Pride
 
I agree with PLPs response to the racism question - I rarely come to Lit to talk serious shit. I have enough of that going on in my real world. I come to Lit for escapism and smut, and general shenanigans. That’s about it. If I have to get heavier than that or invest further you can almost always count me out.

I also gave 2 other seperate examples, you or her haven't adressed. Many speak on deep family matters, bullying, their marriage, they talk about rape, sexual harassment etc.etc.


Quite frankly either of you aren't equipped to answer what I wrote, because you haven't felt Racism. You are equipped to defend yourselves, but only yourself and you haven't been accused.

I'm speaking of a quiet undertone of racism on the PG. I have seen comments made about getting rid of the darkness ( Obama and his family ), during the last Presidential Election. I've seen other comments throughout my time on LIT, but those 2 were the ones to stick out.
 
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I also gave 2 other seperate examples, you or her adressed. Many speak on deep family matters, bullying, their marriage, they talk about rape, sexual harassment etc.etc.


Quite frankly either of you are equipped to answer what I wrote, because you haven't felt Racism. You are equipped to defend yourselves, but only yourself and you haven't been accused.

I'm speaking of a quiet undertone of racism on the PG. I have seen comments made about getting rid of the darkness ( Obama and his family ), during the last Presidential Election. I've seen other comments throughout my time on LIT, but those 2 were the ones to stick out.

Not white, but thanks for assuming what I know.

Carry on proving whatever point you're trying to make but keep my name out of your mouth.
 
I see so many topics I would love to post my opinions on. I struggle to find the words to leave any sort of positive impact.
 
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