Women in porn

[de_valmont]

It has never been good, but now it's getting even worse in my impression, esp. in industrial porn. Women are objects in porn, the playful play of power and obeying that has always been part of porn, sexual relation and the amateur talk and fun about it has become a serious acting of exploitation, abuse, overpowering, violence. If there are exclusions from the general rule, they can be found on places like Lit.

Don't get me wrong, I like to share a nicely set con-non-con fantasy or a rough and reluctant scene, if I know it's just a play.

What do you think, females especially, am I right?

The consequence is for me, I enjoy a continuously decreasing share of the porn given. I love quite a bunch of sex stories on Lit, and forum posts exchange, but sometimes I would like a good, arousing, rough or smooth, credible and plausible porn clip.

Do you still enjoy porn?

 

[GoldenBooty]

Where do I find porn with women in it?

 

[Specula]

It has never been good, but now it's getting even worse in my impression, esp. in industrial porn. Women are objects in porn, the playful play of power and obeying that has always been part of porn, sexual relation and the amateur talk and fun about it has become a serious acting of exploitation, abuse, overpowering, violence. If there are exclusions from the general rule, they can be found on places like Lit.

Don't get me wrong, I like to share a nicely set con-non-con fantasy or a rough and reluctant scene, if I know it's just a play.

What do you think, females especially, am I right?

The consequence is for me, I enjoy a continuously decreasing share of the porn given. I love quite a bunch of sex stories on Lit, and forum posts exchange, but sometimes I would like a good, arousing, rough or smooth, credible and plausible porn clip.

Do you still enjoy porn?

IT IS CRUCIAL TO DISTINGUISH.BETWEEN 'ABUSE' IN THE HIGHLY NEGATIVE SENSE AND 'ABUSE' IN the 'Sweet dreams are made of this", Annie Lennox sense.

 

[Sweet_b19]

Agreed! I’ve been watching porn less and less lately for the same reasons. Women are definitely play things in the industry unless it’s a kink video of a woman being the dominant. More realistic sex, sensual sex, would be great to see but I won’t hold my breath lol

I do enjoy lit as an alternative. It’s nice to be sexual and appreciated for it and not just treated like a piece of ass. I find the men on here very respectful towards us women which has been great.

 

[LucianaGrace]

I’d agree. Where my frustration lies is that lately men seem to be mentally and sexually influenced by it. It’s now an expectation that I’m supposed to allow them to treat me in such ways. If I don’t bow down to this and accept it as my birth fate, that I stand up for myself and not allow myself to be subjected to it, I’m the one that’s messed up in the head. I’m the one that deserves to be ‘alone’, ‘invisible’, and ‘neglected’. And yes, even from a first date I have experienced this. It’s heartbreaking.

Now this is just a frustration at the expectation. I believe I have the right to choose how I live my sexual liberties. And I’m not saying all men are like this. But I see it becoming more prominent.

 

[KnightProtector]

Agreed! I’ve been watching porn less and less lately for the same reasons. Women are definitely play things in the industry unless it’s a kink video of a woman being the dominant. More realistic sex, sensual sex, would be great to see but I won’t hold my breath lol

I do enjoy lit as an alternative. It’s nice to be sexual and appreciated for it and not just treated like a piece of ass. I find the men on here very respectful towards us women which has been great.

More realistic and affectionate sex in porn would be great, I agree.

 

[Mattentive]

Real couples who have Pornhub channels might be worth a look. There's often kissing and the women simply smile more so they seem to be at least okay with it.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I’d agree. Where my frustration lies is that lately men seem to be mentally and sexually influenced by it. It’s now an expectation that I’m supposed to allow them to treat me in such ways. If I don’t bow down to this and accept it as my birth fate, that I stand up for myself and not allow myself to be subjected to it, I’m the one that’s messed up in the head. I’m the one that deserves to be ‘alone’, ‘invisible’, and ‘neglected’. And yes, even from a first date I have experienced this. It’s heartbreaking.

Now this is just a frustration at the expectation. I believe I have the right to choose how I live my sexual liberties. And I’m not saying all men are like this. But I see it becoming more prominent.

Stick by your limits and don't compromise your feelings on such matters for the ease and sensibilities of others. Those people can fuck off. You ain't alone--, keep looking you will find what you're hoping to find.

 

[Twistedkink]

I’d agree. Where my frustration lies is that lately men seem to be mentally and sexually influenced by it. It’s now an expectation that I’m supposed to allow them to treat me in such ways. If I don’t bow down to this and accept it as my birth fate, that I stand up for myself and not allow myself to be subjected to it, I’m the one that’s messed up in the head. I’m the one that deserves to be ‘alone’, ‘invisible’, and ‘neglected’. And yes, even from a first date I have experienced this. It’s heartbreaking.

Now this is just a frustration at the expectation. I believe I have the right to choose how I live my sexual liberties. And I’m not saying all men are like this. But I see it becoming more prominent.

In the end it should about bringing mutual stimulation, pleasure and intimacy to a relationship. Which requires open communication without judgement. And if you care for someone you would only want to bring them pleasure and not inflict ones unwelcomed demands on them. And yes porn brings unrealistic expectations of sexual relations, especially that of women.

 

[de_valmont]

Agreed! I’ve been watching porn less and less lately for the same reasons. Women are definitely play things in the industry unless it’s a kink video of a woman being the dominant. More realistic sex, sensual sex, would be great to see but I won’t hold my breath lol

I do enjoy lit as an alternative. It’s nice to be sexual and appreciated for it and not just treated like a piece of ass. I find the men on here very respectful towards us women which has been great.

I like to know I have opinions in common with others. Yes, Lit is a biotope for more sensual people.

 

[de_valmont]

I’d agree. Where my frustration lies is that lately men seem to be mentally and sexually influenced by it. It’s now an expectation that I’m supposed to allow them to treat me in such ways. If I don’t bow down to this and accept it as my birth fate, that I stand up for myself and not allow myself to be subjected to it, I’m the one that’s messed up in the head. I’m the one that deserves to be ‘alone’, ‘invisible’, and ‘neglected’. And yes, even from a first date I have experienced this. It’s heartbreaking.

Now this is just a frustration at the expectation. I believe I have the right to choose how I live my sexual liberties. And I’m not saying all men are like this. But I see it becoming more prominent.

I see that's a trend. I think it's part of the general right-wing shift in society, politics and culture, everywhere.

But I know there are exceptions, people who consume porn or not and know it's not the reality.