OX2
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We are all different
I have a very loving and tender marriage. Our libidos have diverged over time despite encouraging my wife to try swinging and enjoy extramarital sex. It’s just not her thing.
Yet I know women are very highly sexed who satisfy their needs outside their marriages. We are all different and have different ways of coping with it.
I have a very loving and tender marriage. Our libidos have diverged over time despite encouraging my wife to try swinging and enjoy extramarital sex. It’s just not her thing.
Yet I know women are very highly sexed who satisfy their needs outside their marriages. We are all different and have different ways of coping with it.
Spiritedlady
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Hey Polranny. Waves. Over 7 years for me x
UgliestSon
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This just recently started happening to me. About a year? Mostly my fault. I am all fucked up.
AnnieLit
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Did you feed her a wrong bottle of hormones and killed her libido?
Did you give her permission to play with others and now she is more than satisfied by somebody else?
If the answer is no to both questions, it can't possibly be your fault! If a woman has sexual needs and the only man in her life is her husband, who else can she come to to satisfy those needs? But if she does not have them... there isn't really much you can do about it.
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UgliestSon
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No she just thinks I am a drunk immature asshole. She is probably right most days.
Spiritedlady
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Well if that’s the case the problem is within your power to solve - if you want it to.
UgliestSon
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Trust me she has her own shit too and everyone else loves me so that’s the thing about that.
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Either you are drunk most days or not. There are no two ways about it. If you are... You know what to do, you don't really need Lit to figure that out what you have to do.
As for everybody else... Do you miss sex with her or with everybody else? They don't have to live with you day in and day out, so don't compare.
AnnieLit
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It sure can, but UgliestSon is a guy, complaining about no sex interest from his wife. So the other direction will not apply here
UgliestSon
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Well I cant stop now. And now you sound like my wife. Come on bruh!
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Smoothshavendad
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Ffs... really? Do we have to sink to this? It’s a two way street and I’ve encountered some amazing women whose men are the ones not wanting some lovin’... and men who are fucking women knowing they aren’t in the mood shouldn’t be thanked for anything...
THANK YOU!!!!
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Ffs... really? Do we have to sink to this? It’s a two way street and I’ve encountered some amazing women whose men are the ones not wanting some lovin’... and men who are fucking women knowing they aren’t in the mood shouldn’t be thanked for anything...
Knowing she's not in the mood.... I just couldn't. Massive turn off for me, even if I thought she was just going through the motions to make me happy.
Booboobear84
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Yep. For me more than half the fun is getting her off.
AnnieLit
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You can't stop drinking and this is your wife's fault? OK...
Looks like you have much bigger problems, than just a sexless marriage.
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Ffs... really? Do we have to sink to this? It’s a two way street and I’ve encountered some amazing women whose men are the ones not wanting some lovin’... and men who are fucking women knowing they aren’t in the mood shouldn’t be thanked for anything...
THANK YOU!
Saw that, cringed, but decided to let it slide. Not sure why, really.
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Only 5 years for me. I feel like a rookie compared to the rest of the posters.
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It's about 3 years for me in 12 year relationship, it has been taking a big toll on me as I've high sex drive. I am in two minds about what I should do, as I care for her very much. As we all know life happens, but I found time for her and initiated foreplay multiple times all to end up in no i don't want to!! So I suggested we do counselling but that idea was brushed off. I'm still hot for her but it's a big turn off when she has no interest.
Fast forward a few weeks ago in one of her recent medical test we found out she has something called vestibulodynia and that is what is affecting her. I'm hoping the long term treatment will help solve the problem. But in the meantime I'm by myself without any sex and my best friend is my right hand..
Fast forward a few weeks ago in one of her recent medical test we found out she has something called vestibulodynia and that is what is affecting her. I'm hoping the long term treatment will help solve the problem. But in the meantime I'm by myself without any sex and my best friend is my right hand..
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We counting the amount of instances of sex, or the amount of times out SO made us cum?
If the former: 2.
The latter: 1.
Last year was 4 & 2 respectively.
The year before 0&0.
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Agreed. Over the years my wife has offered a token HJ/BJ or even "just get it over with I'll do it for you"
Instant buzz kill.
Why would I want to plough away while she's laid there with a bored face, stopwatch and asking how much longer I'll be?
