Why?????

[SoulAssasin247]

Seems 2/3 (statistic pulled out of my rear end in a blatant attempt to sway opinions) of the answers are something akin to "people are rude".
Hmmm, maybe that's a bit harsh.
We could instead say "people are inconsiderate", yeah, let's say that so I don't seem so negative! =)




Money? (references above post about government, handicap stickers, etc)
Shame too, because I'm enjoying the music in the car and the mood is constantly broken up by commercials. Or I scan through the stations looking for a song I like and 90% (yikes, another completely fictional stat!) of the stations are talking at me instead of playing music.


Why oh why is it so difficult to be so honest and open with our lover about anything and everything, even when it means vulnerability (or forgiveness!)??

Because some are cheating, most don't admit to that.


Sometimes guys aren't honest with the women or themselves. When they want a woman and find out what kind of man she wants, they try to become that man and that is not who they are.


Pride


Scared to disappoint


They don't want to hear their partners complaints


Admitting your own flaws to yourself is difficult, let alone your partner


Fear of those vulnerabilities being used against them or thrown in their face


Same question

 

[Hipshot1554]

Very good question ....l'm interested to know the answer to this one, hopefully we can get a few suggested answers.
You would think your lover would never risk lying if you meant that much to them in fear they may loose you.

l'm not going to ask another question just yet....l would like to see what kind of response we get from this one.

There are lies that spare feelings. There are omissions (some consider them lies) that could start disagreements, if the truth were told.

I have lied and taken the blame for things that I wasn't guilty of.

All of these things have to do with the fact that she refuses to discuss the real problems we've had. All this to the point of our conversations now being mostly just chit chat.

 

[PattiJolene]

Because some are cheating, most don't admit to that.


Sometimes guys aren't honest with the women or themselves. When they want a woman and find out what kind of man she wants, they try to become that man and that is not who they are.


Pride


Scared to disappoint


They don't want to hear their partners complaints


Admitting your own flaws to yourself is difficult, let alone your partner


Fear of those vulnerabilities being used against them or thrown in their face


Same question

Some very good points, l think honesty for either party is most important. If you are not going to be honest then your relationship will fail...

There are lies that spare feelings. There are omissions (some consider them lies) that could start disagreements, if the truth were told.

I have lied and taken the blame for things that I wasn't guilty of.

All of these things have to do with the fact that she refuses to discuss the real problems we've had. All this to the point of our conversations now being mostly just chit chat.

Communication is key in a relationship, the lies may spare feeling at the time, but lies will find their way to the surface and then the impact of the situation is much worse. Choosing to tell the truth in the first place could very well save the future of your relationship.



Why do us ladies spend so much money on pretty bra's and panties and cover them up with cloths...

 

[Shelly2inme]

Why does the battery in my viborator...

I use Lithium Ion batteries in my vibrators. But it seems that they fail at the wrong time. My fingers are getting weary of this problem. Why oh why do my vibrator batteries wear down so fast?

 

[Hipshot1554]

Some very good points, l think honesty for either party is most important. If you are not going to be honest then your relationship will fail...



Why do us ladies spend so much money on pretty bra's and panties and cover them up with cloths...

Because women love having a secret...?

Why are so many "happily married" people on Lit so often?

 

[Hipshot1554]

What is the meaning of life??

That's something everyone has to find out for themselves.

What's the first thing you notice about the opposite sex?

 

[Hipshot1554]

I use Lithium Ion batteries in my vibrators. But it seems that they fail at the wrong time. My fingers are getting weary of this problem. Why oh why do my vibrator batteries wear down so fast?

Overworked...?

Why do so many women need vibes?

 

[FAITHandFLESH]

Overworked...?

Why do so many women need vibes?

I think LESS have them than you might think?

Why do continue to pay men who play GAMES so much money?

 

[Hipshot1554]

I think LESS have them than you might think?

Why do continue to pay men who play GAMES so much money?

That's a good question.

Why do we pay so much to watch them do it?

 

[lovetopleasewomen]

Why oh why is it so difficult to be so honest and open with our lover about anything and everything, even when it means vulnerability (or forgiveness!)??

Fear of those vulnerabilities being used against them or thrown in their face

This.


Why the fuck do you drive 55 mph in the left lane of a 70 mph road...with your right fucking blinker flashing???

 

[PattiJolene]

Because women love having a secret...?

Yes we do like secrets.
Why are so many "happily married" people on Lit so often?

Because this site is for happily married people.

That's something everyone has to find out for themselves.

What's the first thing you notice about the opposite sex?[/QUOTE

That's a tough one I noticed the way they dress the way they walk their neck their shoulders, a smile lol I can go on and on.

This.


Why the fuck do you drive 55 mph in the left lane of a 70 mph road...with your right fucking blinker flashing???

Because people have no clue how to drive these days. Don't ask me how they got their license. LOL

Why is it we always seem to have nicer weather through the week than we do on the weekends?

 

[DarkSimian]

I have a question: the other night, we had a power outage at work. For about a minute, the building was pitch black, until the emergency lighting kicked on. But the radio was still playing...Why?!?!?!?!?

 

[Hipshot1554]

I have a question: the other night, we had a power outage at work. For about a minute, the building was pitch black, until the emergency lighting kicked on. But the radio was still playing...Why?!?!?!?!?

Battery backup most likely.

Why do telemarketers call when you're eating supper?

 

[DarkSimian]

Battery backup most likely.

Why do telemarketers call when you're eating supper?

"Because you're all soulless pricks who should just all kill yourselves"~ almost a verbatim quote from a customer when I was a telemarketer, and called during supper

 

[beachbaby179]

Because this site is for happily married people.

That's something everyone has to find out for themselves.

What's the first thing you notice about the opposite sex?[/QUOTE

That's a tough one I noticed the way they dress the way they walk their neck their shoulders, a smile lol I can go on and on.



Because people have no clue how to drive these days. Don't ask me how they got their license. LOL

Why is it we always seem to have nicer weather through the week than we do on the weekends?

Because mother nature has a twisted fucking sense of humor.

Why do we remember such unimportant things, like lyrics to children's music, but forget where we left our keys?