If a man

[KUJACK]

if a man decides he wants to become a woman but he wants to keep his private parts which means he's basically a crossdresser but really feels that he's a woman then he decides that not only is he a woman but he's a lesbian therefore it's a man who loves a woman isn't he just normal

 

[naughtygaywriter]

Good question, now a crossdresser is someone who gets sexual kinks out of wearing women's clothing were as trans person is someone who feels their inner gender does not match their outer gender. So they wouldn't be a crossdresser. Now many FTM keep their genitals, but have top surgery and take hormones and are attracted to other females meaning they are a Lesbian. In the end they are all normal because who are we to judge what is normal.

 

[stargame]

if a man decides he wants to become a woman but he wants to keep his private parts which means he's basically a crossdresser but really feels that he's a woman then he decides that not only is he a woman but he's a lesbian therefore it's a man who loves a woman isn't he just normal

oh the riddles of life. I admit I am feminine and I love the female form.

 

[dashie33]

In the end they are all normal because who are we to judge what is normal.

Love this. Wish more people would have this attitude. Live and let live. Let everyone live their best lives, even if you disagree with the particulars of it.

 

[midlifecrisispanties]

In my current experience, this question had come to mind frequently in some form. I am a masculine of appearance and could never make a convincing female. My wife and Mistress, however, has had me assume the roll of the wife in the house. I wear panties ans stockings 24-7. I cook the meals, ckean the house, perform bedroom tasks in feminine persona.

Outwardly, to others, there are no indicators of my feminine nature. To others, I appear merely to defer to her on all matters. In that regard, I am a crossdresser-submissive- bisexual-who lives as female.

It can seem complex. But, for us, it works.

 

[LincolnDuncan]

if a man decides he wants to become a woman but he wants to keep his private parts which means he's basically a crossdresser but really feels that he's a woman then he decides that not only is he a woman but he's a lesbian therefore it's a man who loves a woman isn't he just normal

This is way far away from my life experiences but I'm going to say, regardless of what that person considers themselves or how much they look like a woman most lesbians wouldn't consider that person a lesbian, but wtf do I know

 

[MelanieShaman]

As a pre-op trans woman who identifies as a lesbian, yes, it's possible to be a lesbian with a penis. Identity and sexuality are two different things. Now, there are the vast majority of cis-gender lesbians would likely not date a trans woman because some people are hung up on genitals (which i totally understand). BUT, there are women (cis) who would and do indeed date trans women (ask my exgf). It's just sometimes hard to find her.

 

[klippert]

he's a guy wearing women's clothing.. if he's that insane and has his junk chopped off...now he's a castrated male....No CNN, Pop'psycolog or affirming will ever change that. P.S. Remove a dick from me mutilation surgery, has a 100% failure rate.

you want to prance around in women clotting, act feminine...even prefer men fuk your ass... that's our gig. But, don't expect me to think of you 'AS' female

Trust me, there are some HOT CDz... and dude like that. but, I'm not a bigot because I won't date one.

 

[OpenMouth]

if a man decides he wants to become a woman but he wants to keep his private parts which means he's basically a crossdresser but really feels that he's a woman then he decides that not only is he a woman but he's a lesbian therefore it's a man who loves a woman isn't he just normal

Guilty as charged!

 

[Seafoamzone]

I have always wondered about the trans male, or MtoF , that prefer women and how many lesbians like a woman with a penis. It has to be a small dating pool.
Im certainly not trying to be offensive but to wish you well in your search.

 

[haurni]

if a man decides he wants to become a woman but he wants to keep his private parts which means he's basically a crossdresser but really feels that he's a woman then he decides that not only is he a woman but he's a lesbian therefore it's a man who loves a woman isn't he just normal

First, gender identity and sexual orientation are different things, and the former does not determine the latter.
Second, don't use 'it' to refer to anyone.
Third, trans women are not men, whatever's between their legs(and regardless of what klippert says)
Fourth, women who love women (lesbians) are normal.

If someone who was assigned male at birth, e.g. because of the presence of a penis, later realizes (one typically does not 'decide') they are female, they would be a transgender woman. Many trans women do not have 'bottom surgery' because of cost, potential complications, or other factors, but this in no way makes them any 'less' trans. It is not a 'requirement' to have gender-reassignment surgery, nor is it even a necessity to experience gender dysphoria.

A cross-dresser (CD) is a male-identified person who wears women's clothing (technically, it could also be a woman who wears men's clothing, but women are 'allowed' to do that in our society so there are usually no eyebrows raised). A CD does not typically cross-dress because of sexual arousal, but merely because they enjoy the look and/or the feel or the opportunity to occasionally express themselves as feminine.

I'm not sure what the currently-accepted term is, but a man who cross-dresses for sexual reasons - because wearing the clothing arouses him - is a 'transvestic fetishist' aka transvestite. Again, this is a male-identified person.

With that out of the way, a trans woman who is sexually attracted to other women is indeed a lesbian, regardless of what she or her partner have between their legs.