Daddy's Little Girl: Second Edition

[cascadiabound]

"I want to be negotiated with, not dictated to. Communicated with, not spoken to or ordered. Acknowledged, not ignored. Cherished and supported, not taken for granted. Inspired and guided, not forced or patronized. Useful, not used. Appreciated, not diminished... And at times all this makes me wonder, am I a submissive at all?"

anon​

Sadly there are a lot of people out there who call themselves dominant who want to make themselves feel big by making their partner feel small. It absolutely does not have to work that way. I feel like your statements can roughly be summarized as ‘I want to feel respected’. You can 100% be submissive and require respect from the person you are submitting to.

Being submissive is just part of who I am. If my partner didn’t see that my submission is worthy of respect then I wouldn’t feel like they respected me. If they don’t respect me and my submission yet they want my submission, then they don’t even value the things they personally want. That makes no sense to me. Why would you want something if you feel it doesn’t have value? Maybe that means they don’t value their own judgment, then. If someone doesn’t see value in me as a submissive to respect me, and the work I put into my submission enough to respect it, then I couldn’t value their judgment enough to let them lead me.

@amysubmits​

I believe those are excellent qualities in a submissive. The best D/s // D/lg relationships work exactly that way. Respect goes both ways.

 

[barefootgirl69]

"I want to be negotiated with, not dictated to. Communicated with, not spoken to or ordered. Acknowledged, not ignored. Cherished and supported, not taken for granted. Inspired and guided, not forced or patronized. Useful, not used. Appreciated, not diminished... And at times all this makes me wonder, am I a submissive at all?"

anon​

This is a good reminder.

There are dominant people and there are domineering people

 

[cascadiabound]

This is a good reminder.

There are dominant people and there are domineering people

Indeed. Domineering people are not healthy in a D/s dynamic. It is important to get your feelers fine tuned to distinguish the difference.

 

[Moochienanu]

Indeed. Domineering people are not healthy in a D/s dynamic. It is important to get your feelers fine tuned to distinguish the difference.

It definitely felt like those fine-tuned feelers took forever to develop, though... kinda wish life came with an instruction manual for this kind of thing so that I could have skipped the ‘learning the hard way’ parts.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I like when I tell him at his bedtime that it's been a stressful day but I can't talk about it at that time, then he tells me he's setting his clock earlier so "I can tell Daddy everything".

It makes me feel cared for.

 

[cascadiabound]

It definitely felt like those fine-tuned feelers took forever to develop, though... kinda wish life came with an instruction manual for this kind of thing so that I could have skipped the ‘learning the hard way’ parts.

Learning the hard way is kinda the way life goes.

“Education comes in many forms; in mistakes, experiences, and in people.”

- Pien Pouwels”​

 

[cascadiabound]

I like when I tell him at his bedtime that it's been a stressful day but I can't talk about it at that time, then he tells me he's setting his clock earlier so "I can tell Daddy everything".

It makes me feel cared for.

This is lovely.

 

[cascadiabound]

Good morning littles and friends.

Just wanted to pop in and say thank you to all who reached out to me last week. it meant a lot

I hope you are well. Hope to see you more around here.

 

[DarkSimian]

Good morning littles and friends.

Just wanted to pop in and say thank you to all who reached out to me last week. it meant a lot

To celebrate Shy's return, here's some bread pudding

http://img.sndimg.com/food/image/upload/w_614,h_461,c_fit/v1/img/recipes/46/35/3/picf0HKpF.jpg

 

[barefootgirl69]

Good morning littles and friends.

Just wanted to pop in and say thank you to all who reached out to me last week. it meant a lot

I'm SO glad to see you back here.

 

[cascadiabound]

Thank you all for the welcome. This is my favorite place on lit and I refuse to let anyone take that away from me. I just needed to get myself together.

It was a long and exhausting weekend and I haven’t been sleeping well, also trying to gear up for the sister in law’s shower Saturday and dealing with my mother in law at 9am *

So I need all the happy I can get and you guys make me happy...plus there’s always food in here and food is my love language

https://www.afarmgirlsdabbles.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/600_X_IMG_3309_fudgy_brownie_hearts_with_fresh_raspberry_buttercream.jpg
brownies?

 

[AbsintheFather]

brownies?

I'm gonna leave this here for Cassie.

Happy Birthday, Sweetheart

https://66.media.tumblr.com/96450cb8ab3ca1ae8d09ffbe2a9012df/tumblr_pdsxc4MkZb1xql2nto2_400.gif

 

[AbsintheFather]

Those look positively delightful!

Thank you sweet friend



Is it your birthday Cas??!!???


I should be getting YOU brownies

It is and I hope that you and all her friends wish her a very happy one

 

[barefootgirl69]

It is and I hope that you and all her friends wish her a very happy one

I hope that birthday thread I just started doesn't get me a spanking. Or is that your plan?

 

[barefootgirl69]

Woo hoo! I got a new stuffie. A bunny rabbit. I named him Jellybean.

 

[cascadiabound]

It is and I hope that you and all her friends wish her a very happy one

I hope that birthday thread I just started doesn't get me a spanking. Or is that your plan?

Is it your birthday Cas??!!???


I should be getting YOU brownies

yes and thank you all so much.
Very sweet of you to hunt me down here AF and out my birthday.
Thanks for the good wishes and for the lovely thread bfg.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Happy Friday Eve, everyone!

*goes to color and drink plenty of water*

I REALLY want carne asada and a coke.

 

[HeavyBalls]

Did you get your carne asada BFG?

I had some last week but with a margarita instead of coke



For a short time, I thought I’d share a pic of me and one of my stuffies (his name is Norman) because he was kind enough to soak up my tears today

Hope this day finds you all well

Adoreable, quite adorable.

 

[Moochienanu]

Did you get your carne asada BFG?

I had some last week but with a margarita instead of coke



For a short time, I thought I’d share a pic of me and one of my stuffies (his name is Norman) because he was kind enough to soak up my tears today

Hope this day finds you all well

Stuffies are the best. I love Norman’s jammies. Manni (my teddy) doesn’t really have any clothing items past a bow around his neck. Do you have many other main squeeze stuffies?

I’m really sorry to hear you needed comfort today, but glad you found some.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Did you get your carne asada BFG?

I had some last week but with a margarita instead of coke

For a short time, I thought I’d share a pic of me and one of my stuffies (his name is Norman) because he was kind enough to soak up my tears today

Hope this day finds you all well

No, we had sandwiches because it was so hot. Last night we had salad topped with chicken breasts and sweet peppers marinated in zesty Italian dressing and today I did japchae and Bulgogi. I've been cooking at my mom's and so glad I convinced her to get an air fryer!

I love Norman!

This is my teddy bear

https://www.***********/s/65w2s7gfq39p453/20170307_074743.jpg?dl=0

Stuffies are the best. I love Norman’s jammies. Manni (my teddy) doesn’t really have any clothing items past a bow around his neck. Do you have many other main squeeze stuffies?

I’m really sorry to hear you needed comfort today, but glad you found some.

Manni is cute!

 

[Nzerxx]

I LOVE stuffies

So cute Moochie & BFG but I missed Norman
















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[DarkSimian]

With the weather getting better, here's some strawberry pie to celebrate spring

https://www.pauladeenmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/strawberry-pie.jpg

 

[barefootgirl69]

With the weather getting better, here's some strawberry pie to celebrate spring

https://www.pauladeenmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/strawberry-pie.jpg

*eats a piece and licks the plate*

Thank you, DS.

Hi, littles and PYL/pyl! Didn't want to leave anyone out!

 

[cascadiabound]

pie

deep dish apple pie
nestled in green and white glazed dish
heirloom apples just picked
from the old tree on P Street
tartly sweet and firm
sliced thin and layered
brown sugar and cinnamon
a lovely slurry of fresh sweetness

Aunt Virginia’s pie crust recipe
don’t forget to use ice cold water
just five Tablespoons
cutting the dough by hand
until mixed and ready
gramma’s walnut rolling pin
shapes the crust
until it is lifted
onto the ceramic plate
filled with apples to overflowing
strips of dough applied
one by one
woven in and out
creating a lovely lattice

preheated oven awaits
the scent of baked apples
permeates the kitchen
as mouth waters
the too hot to touch plate
pulled out at the ding

filling bubbling
between the golden weave
too hot to eat
and yet…
generous slices cut
as the filling collapses
into a sweet sticky puddle
topped with Wisconsin cheddar
and french vanilla ice-cream
deep dish apple pie



enjoy

 

[barefootgirl69]

Now I want apple pie, cb!
Lovely