Hetero, Homo, Bi,.........

[CottonForMe]

After many years of trying to work out where I fit sexually, with 3 kids, 11 grandkids I have decided I am whatever sexuality I am, whenever I feel and want to be.
Sometimes I feel really male, sissy, gay, fem, bi, and whatever other categories us humans need to pigeon hole others into, I say FUCK IT - I am me. I am as I fell at any given time. I am me. This is the way I am at any given time. So there we have it. I am male, I like pussy, I like cock, I like oral, I like anal, I want them all.
But fuck it gets lonely.

 

[smoothinsatin]

I identify as a bisexual male because society wants us to pigeonhole people.

The reality is that I feel exactly as you do. I am what I am, and enjoy my sexuality, no matter what it's called. In fact I think my preferred label would be "slut" as I seem to fit that label fairly well.

As for being lonely... it is difficult to find others who are in the same mental space, a space where acceptance is the norm rather than the exception.

I wish you great success in enjoying who you are.

 

[ConradBird]

Yes, I am a grandfather, too. I am married, have children and have been bisexual as long as I can remember. I struggled greatly when I was a teen and thought I might be gay, but I was strongly attracted to women as well. There was no "bisexuality" back then—you were either gay or straight. I chose to be straight. That doesn't mean the other side of me has gone away.I guess I have a cock fetish. I fantasize about sucking cock a great deal. It comes and goes, however. Sometimes the urge is mild; other times it is so strong I can hardly stand it. I've come to terms with it over the years. I don't condemn myself for the urge. So, I stay married, don't cheat and live out fantasies in my own head which satisfy the craving. I would love to have someone else like myself to share with. Yes, it is a lonely and somewhat unfilled life.

 

[J1biboi]

Yes, I am a grandfather, too. I am married, have children and have been bisexual as long as I can remember. I struggled greatly when I was a teen and thought I might be gay, but I was strongly attracted to women as well. There was no "bisexuality" back then—you were either gay or straight. I chose to be straight. That doesn't mean the other side of me has gone away.I guess I have a cock fetish. I fantasize about sucking cock a great deal. It comes and goes, however. Sometimes the urge is mild; other times it is so strong I can hardly stand it. I've come to terms with it over the years. I don't condemn myself for the urge. So, I stay married, don't cheat and live out fantasies in my own head which satisfy the craving. I would love to have someone else like myself to share with. Yes, it is a lonely and somewhat unfilled life.

I can certainly relate to your story because I have been in pretty much the same boat my whole life. However I did satisfy my curiosity for cock once when I was in my mid twenties, when a friend let me suck his cock. I can't say that it was everything that I thought it would be but it was a very good feeling having a cock in my mouth. I have always wanted to do it again but the opportunity has never presented it's self.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

well hell fellas,

you am what you am and you just don't give a damn(?)

I understand, as I am in the same situation and have been this way ALL my life.

whatchagonnado?

As far as the lonliness, hey--, you either deal or you don't...

Me,? I will more than likely do-, What I can, When and Where--, I won't or at least the least likely 'to be caught'.

 

[mtsnowrider]

Yes, I am a grandfather, too. I am married, have children and have been bisexual as long as I can remember. I struggled greatly when I was a teen and thought I might be gay, but I was strongly attracted to women as well. There was no "bisexuality" back then—you were either gay or straight. I chose to be straight. That doesn't mean the other side of me has gone away.I guess I have a cock fetish. I fantasize about sucking cock a great deal. It comes and goes, however. Sometimes the urge is mild; other times it is so strong I can hardly stand it. I've come to terms with it over the years. I don't condemn myself for the urge. So, I stay married, don't cheat and live out fantasies in my own head which satisfy the craving. I would love to have someone else like myself to share with. Yes, it is a lonely and somewhat unfilled life.

Could have written that myself! Things are complicated

 

[CottonForMe]

I identify as a bisexual male because society wants us to pigeonhole people.

The reality is that I feel exactly as you do. I am what I am, and enjoy my sexuality, no matter what it's called. In fact I think my preferred label would be "slut" as I seem to fit that label fairly well.

As for being lonely... it is difficult to find others who are in the same mental space, a space where acceptance is the norm rather than the exception.

I wish you great success in enjoying who you are.

Thank you for your message of support. I reciprocate.

 

[klippert]

You got that off your chest...now, move on and enjoy. don't get caught up in all the CNN Pop-psychology of it all.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

You got that off your chest...now, move on and enjoy. don't get caught up in all the CNN Pop-psychology of it all.

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[CottonForMe]

You got that off your chest...now, move on and enjoy. don't get caught up in all the CNN Pop-psychology of it all.

It is so nice to see you are so supportive. Thank you.

 

[simpledude]

After many years of trying to work out where I fit sexually, with 3 kids, 11 grandkids I have decided I am whatever sexuality I am, whenever I feel and want to be.
Sometimes I feel really male, sissy, gay, fem, bi, and whatever other categories us humans need to pigeon hole others into, I say FUCK IT - I am me. I am as I fell at any given time. I am me. This is the way I am at any given time. So there we have it. I am male, I like pussy, I like cock, I like oral, I like anal, I want them all.
But fuck it gets lonely.

I feel you. Hugs and kisses.

 

[CottonForMe]

I feel you. Hugs and kisses.

Thank you. Hope you get yours too

 

[goodsonformom]

After many years of trying to work out where I fit sexually, with 3 kids, 11 grandkids I have decided I am whatever sexuality I am, whenever I feel and want to be.
Sometimes I feel really male, sissy, gay, fem, bi, and whatever other categories us humans need to pigeon hole others into, I say FUCK IT - I am me. I am as I fell at any given time. I am me. This is the way I am at any given time. So there we have it. I am male, I like pussy, I like cock, I like oral, I like anal, I want them all.
But fuck it gets lonely.

I'm with you CottonForMe......I get it. I've been Bi for as long as I can remember. I played sexually with best friend growing up and I was seduced later in life (18+) by older males, many in fact.....I loved that part of my life....it made me who I am today. I love pussy and mature women.....but I had a sexual relationship with my mother which played a role in it I'm sure.....she made all my sexual choices okay and encouraged me to masturbate and explore my desires.....so....I'm confused at 65 years old....whatever!...I cum everyday one way or another..... and I hunger for more........Oh I have 4 kids who are now adults and 5 grand kids......So that makes me almost an senior and for sure an adult......

 

[klippert]

It is so nice to see you are so supportive. Thank you.

Actually I am...I don't know what you want. sympathy, a parade. you've have made your choice. Good on you. Now live your life. Look man, I lived exclusively gay in college. I have Never found it necessary to have my choices in life affirmed...If I were an addict, I wouldn't expect people to get all teddy cuddle with me, shoot I wouldn't expect sympathy. If this sexuality shit has been making a mess of things and cumming out is all that...just remember, this is about you...don't expect everyone to change course and just pile on the praises

Are you know telling your entire family and friends"
Sometimes I feel really male, sissy, gay, fem, bi, and whatever other categories us humans need to pigeon hole others into, I say FUCK IT - I am me. I am as I fell at any given time. I am me. This is the way I am at any given time. So there we have it. I am male, I like pussy, I like cock, I like oral, I like anal, I want them all.

 

[muycurioso]

good post

I identify as a bisexual male because society wants us to pigeonhole people.

The reality is that I feel exactly as you do. I am what I am, and enjoy my sexuality, no matter what it's called. In fact I think my preferred label would be "slut" as I seem to fit that label fairly well.

As for being lonely... it is difficult to find others who are in the same mental space, a space where acceptance is the norm rather than the exception.

I wish you great success in enjoying who you are.

"As for being lonely... it is difficult to find others who are in the same mental space, a space where acceptance is the norm rather than the exception." and to get people in your life to understand.

 

[bobbyinhouston]

I am a very lucky guy. I am married and my wife knows I like men and indulges my m2m fun but does not join. I wish more men would be open to their m2m desires but most are afraid if they do they become full out gay. Does that make sense.?