Justa Redux. Still nothing to see, is a redux ever better than the original

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Haha if only they knew what was going on in your cube before you were moved to their tame-basic-ass area!

Well maybe they do. Hence taking away our hiding spot. I know a neighbor heard me on a phone call like 2 weeks ago, but he was talking about his anaconda on a call, and he doesn't do snakes, and has a new baby so probably not his wife either.

 

[Shadow701]

That red bra is indeed stunning!

 

[Cogan]

Lol.

And yeah, I like freaky contacts.

Imo, Most large corporations seem to take complaints very seriously now. Not saying there still aren't problems, but also admitting there are completely frivolous claims and both women and men may be getting screwed on both sides.

Yes you can sue for pretty much anything, and even frivolous cases are very expensive to defend against. And God forbid you lose, payouts can be ridiculous, like in some cases millions more than the person would have ever made. But worse than that is public reputation now. As for suits, most big businesses have a nuisance amount they will pay out when the word sue is used. Ok, I never worked with harrassment, but I did work with personal injury. Anything under $10k I was to automatically pay, if they were just seeking medical bills and sent bills or receipts. Almost every single one they misused the product. Think wife throws frying pan at hubby, hubby gets front teeth knocked out, calls frying pan manufacturer and threatens to sue. Defending a case costs tens of thousands of dollars, he only wants a grand for the fake teeth, pay it.

Why we were like that.... Well we bought a company out of bankruptcy, why they went bankrupt, well ok, an apt analogy. They made saw blades. Two kids find their dads battery operated saw with our blade. They duct tape the saw to a big bouncy ball, turn it on, and bounce it into a tree over and over. Eventually, it hits a squirrel and a mutilated dead squirrel is now hanging off the ball saw. Kid bounces again, but because the weight balance changed, it hits the other kid in the neck and he is paralyzed for life. The parents want $500,000 from all 4 companies. The ball manufacturer, the saw manufacturer, the tape manufacturer, and the blade manufacturer. The ball, tape, and saw manufacturer settle, the blade company says come on, it did what it was supposed to. They lost, 14million, sold off everything, went bankrupt, we bought the name.

We have seen similar in sexual harassment. Minimum wage employees winning millions because they don't like the way someone looks at them and no one took it seriously. Maybe they should have. Maybe he was looking creepy. Not my place, jury decided he was and awarded more than they'd make in their crap job in a lifetime.

And now with the internet, people can write fake notes on their receipts and practically bankrupt a company simply by sharing their fake shit and creating a boycott because they were bored and wanted attention.

Thus I really do believe the majority of large employers take any report very seriously. Not saying bad dudes don't slip through, probably a lot do, but it would be naive to say that frivolous threats and fake reports aren't acted on too.

Now me, yes I get teased a lot at work with women jokes, the old guys get teased with old jokes, short guys short jokes, etc etc. We joke a lot at work, usually go for the easy tease, it is how we blow off steam, and we are friends. Yes I am sort of treated differently as the jokes are different, but really I am treated just the same, just woman is the easy way. The difference is if another woman hears this and complains she could have a real case. An outsider short guy isn't a "protected class".

It is tough for me to understand that if some woman in another department overheard that she could be so traumatized that she could cost him his job. That isn't trauma to me.

Almost everyone I know meets their spouse at work. Yet I have heard women say that if a coworker asked them out on a date, they would have to quit, even if he accepted no, and never said anything else, because they would feel just so awkward. She is traumatized over a date invite. To me that is nothing. You answer it with yes or no. I have said yes or no to many many date requests. It isn't a thing. I just don't get it.

Maybe I am the one that is wrong and screwed up, but I just wanted to be treated like an equal. If a guy walked in in a suit, we would all tell him it looks nice. They shouldn't be afraid to treat me the same. I don't want people protecting me from nothing, I don't want HR checking in on me to make sure I feel ok, I don't want invites to a special women's only tasks force. I don't want people afraid to look me in the eyes. I don't want to be special. So yeah, in my corporate life, I am more offended by policy than people, as the policies seem to imply I am special and need extra support.

But I can't deny that some places it is true, somewhere a woman could be traumatized by an overheard joke, or a man's calendar on his desk, or someone thinking she looks pretty. I just don't get it. Then there are actual real cases with women fired for not sleeping with their boss, or true relentless singling out and teasing of just her. I just have never seen those in real corporate life, just in crappy small places. All I see now is men by default trying to treat me differently until I break that delusion that I am special and need to be treated with kid gloves.

Such a confusing grey area. I would never want to be HR and I am glad I don't feel the need to think heavily about where I look or the words I use. Yeah, i dont know the correct answer, but for me, it is harder now than it was a decade ago. People are nervous about working with me because i am a woman and that might give me special power. In criminal cases, the defendant is presumed innocent until proven guilty. In public opinion, it isn't that way. So I can't even say I blame them for being nervous. Not that I think there are a ton of false allegations, but more that I think some women might be more sensitive. I mean really, being advised to not look at women, or actual contracts with a few second time limits of how long to look at women when you talk. I struggle to comprehend that that is needed, but it is coming out more and more.

I just don't know. Change is for sure needed in many places, no doubt, but I can also see the construct of public opinion judgements and a lack of hierchary of "sexual offenses" where harrassment is assault and a person being uncomfortable is harassment which is now assault is breaking things. It started shortly before #metoo, #metoo just shows it more. While fixing what is broken, things that were not broken are being damaged and it is making it harder for me because I am now distrusted because I am special. I see it because i am just one of the guys. I am forced to attend the same seminars that are all men. The guys who do trust me dont think twice about sharing their fear, because i am not the unknown. But when I am the unknown it is hard to collaborate with a team that is afraid to speak or look at you. And they are actually being taught that that is needed. It is a whole new meaning to 3 second rule.

I always say that life is like a pendulum. It can't stop in the middle and and have the problem solved. It has to move over to the other end and go to the extreme opinion or like this case going from not care about harassment to be so afraid that they threatens with discharge and the staff is afraid to even look at woman anymore.

So what do my finger nails say about me now?

http://i.imgur.com/kXnKkltm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/NiNuu2gm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/OgitcBAm.jpg

That you are horny and is trying to do something about it?
You sure made me horny!

 

[Blueeyesrenee]

Just wanted to stop by and say love your thread and you are pretty amazing. Thank you.

 

[Ginmill72]

So what do my finger nails say about me now?

http://i.imgur.com/kXnKkltm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/NiNuu2gm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/OgitcBAm.jpg

They appear to be indicating where a tongue should go.

 

[ohverbatum7]

anti physical contact policies,

I can understand that, but eye contact? do you mean I couldn't sidle up to them, dreamily look into their eyes and say to them, "You are looking particularly lovely today, can I meet you later and we could go eye ball to eye ball?"

 

[ohverbatum7]

So what do my finger nails say about me now?

They say, think of the damage I could inflict on your balls if you cross me.

 

[ohverbatum7]

What am I thinking of exposing a nice innocent girl like you to such crudity?

 

[ohverbatum7]

my pain in the ass personality.

I think you would be fun to be around.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

That red bra is indeed stunning!

thank you. Curvy Kate

I always say that life is like a pendulum. It can't stop in the middle and and have the problem solved. It has to move over to the other end and go to the extreme opinion or like this case going from not care about harassment to be so afraid that they threatens with discharge and the staff is afraid to even look at woman anymore.



That you are horny and is trying to do something about it?
You sure made me horny!

yeah, guess I am not the only person who is not great at moderation. That is why we need workplace hugging rules I guess lol. I actually have a HR webinar in like 8 minutes, lets see what this amazing piece of entertainment shall be

and yeah, that is what my fingers were saying

Just wanted to stop by and say love your thread and you are pretty amazing. Thank you.

well thank you

They appear to be indicating where a tongue should go.

indeed.

anti physical contact policies,

I can understand that, but eye contact? do you mean I couldn't sidle up to them, dreamily look into their eyes and say to them, "You are looking particularly lovely today, can I meet you later and we could go eye ball to eye ball?"

eye contact, hugs, anything that might be misconstrued as flirting. so yeah you for sure can't do that lol

So what do my finger nails say about me now?

They say, think of the damage I could inflict on your balls if you cross me.

lol. they were not thinking that but maybe they should.

What am I thinking of exposing a nice innocent girl like you to such crudity?

haha. I think I likely would expose you to more crudity than you would expose me too

my pain in the ass personality.

I think you would be fun to be around.

I think so too, but I am weird.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

well happy monday. since I am stuck on an HR webinar, I thought I'd come on lit.

So here is a movie of me, late at night, half lit, in a closet, accepting my lit boob award.

and yeah, I clearly put in no planning or effort, as i am awesome like that.

have fun

https://www.***********/s/kjker243hn2h0z7/V_20190303_0356382.mp4?dl=0

 

[NomDePlay]

well happy monday. since I am stuck on an HR webinar, I thought I'd come on lit.

So here is a movie of me, late at night, half lit, in a closet, accepting my lit boob award.

and yeah, I clearly put in no planning or effort, as i am awesome like that.

have fun

https://www.***********/s/kjker243hn2h0z7/V_20190303_0356382.mp4?dl=0

SO .. fate lends a hand, and I happen to be home sick (Fate, sometimes, of course, sucks) and I'm on Justa's thread when she posts her acceptance speech.

Being sick is now less of an inconvenience than it was ..

As for the speech .. well, i particularly enjoyed the "y'all" at the end .. but I must confess I kind of lost track of the words once her boobs appeared. But I certainly think we've found a new standard for award acceptance speeches ..

 

[thomasthehorny765]

well happy monday. since I am stuck on an HR webinar, I thought I'd come on lit.

So here is a movie of me, late at night, half lit, in a closet, accepting my lit boob award.

and yeah, I clearly put in no planning or effort, as i am awesome like that.

have fun

https://www.***********/s/kjker243hn2h0z7/V_20190303_0356382.mp4?dl=0

God... those are some nice boobs

 

[o2baPrince]

well happy monday. since I am stuck on an HR webinar, I thought I'd come on lit.

So here is a movie of me, late at night, half lit, in a closet, accepting my lit boob award.

and yeah, I clearly put in no planning or effort, as i am awesome like that.

have fun

https://www.***********/s/kjker243hn2h0z7/V_20190303_0356382.mp4?dl=0

Better than the Oscars!

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

SO .. fate lends a hand, and I happen to be home sick (Fate, sometimes, of course, sucks) and I'm on Justa's thread when she posts her acceptance speech.

Being sick is now less of an inconvenience than it was ..

As for the speech .. well, i particularly enjoyed the "y'all" at the end .. but I must confess I kind of lost track of the words once her boobs appeared. But I certainly think we've found a new standard for award acceptance speeches ..

well if you are home in bed, might as well be surfing lit and porn, right.

lol. maybe someday I will bust out all y'all too. I must confess I lost track of my words while rambling, so that is fine

God... those are some nice boobs

thanks

Better than the Oscars!

we laughed, we cried, we got to enjoy y'all

 

[scotluvsoral]

You make Mondays brighter and more enjoyable! I love catching up! You are so hot and sexy and funny!

 

[Shadow701]

Who knew closets could be the place of great speeches?

 

[Todger65]

well happy monday. since I am stuck on an HR webinar, I thought I'd come on lit.

So here is a movie of me, late at night, half lit, in a closet, accepting my lit boob award.

and yeah, I clearly put in no planning or effort, as i am awesome like that.

have fun

https://www.***********/s/kjker243hn2h0z7/V_20190303_0356382.mp4?dl=0

Interesting video, pity my hearing is crap so I could get it all, but your jiggling tits helped me through it.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

You make Mondays brighter and more enjoyable! I love catching up! You are so hot and sexy and funny!

well thank you. hope you found something interesting in your catch up reading

Who knew closets could be the place of great speeches?

lots of fun things can happen in closets.

Interesting video, pity my hearing is crap so I could get it all, but your jiggling tits helped me through it.

well I didn't really say anything of value anyway, I even considered just gifing it lol, so yeah you didn't miss much besides way to many "ums" and a closing "y'all"

 

[tnman03]

Hmm??? Would that video be considered a closeted response???

 

[Willingtoshare]

well happy monday. since I am stuck on an HR webinar, I thought I'd come on lit.

So here is a movie of me, late at night, half lit, in a closet, accepting my lit boob award.

and yeah, I clearly put in no planning or effort, as i am awesome like that.

have fun

https://www.***********/s/kjker243hn2h0z7/V_20190303_0356382.mp4?dl=0

Love it!! Thank you for making me smile, awesome lady.

 

[whistler1]

well happy monday. since I am stuck on an HR webinar, I thought I'd come on lit.

So here is a movie of me, late at night, half lit, in a closet, accepting my lit boob award.

and yeah, I clearly put in no planning or effort, as i am awesome like that.

have fun

https://www.***********/s/kjker243hn2h0z7/V_20190303_0356382.mp4?dl=0

You mentioned that people tolerate your ramblings because of your boobs. Do you think that would still be the case if you had "normal" size boobs?

You also mentioned that your boobs aren't what they were. What were they like?

I'm only asking for comparative scientific purposes of course...

 

[sjpsoccer14]

Loved your speech. You definitely got better with age

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Hmm??? Would that video be considered a closeted response???

well I guess it literally would be.

Love it!! Thank you for making me smile, awesome lady.

well thanks.

Gorgeous video I love it and you have an incredibly sexy voice.

Well thanks. I actually hate my voice, but I always got elected to do IVR recordings before text to speech became decent. I have a voice that doesn't, by default, piss people off. It did really badly on collections dialer campaigns though. I always thought it was funny. Me reading a script, no one calls back. a coworker reading the same script, people call back to complain about hostile collections calls, and while bitching, might actually pay their bill.

You mentioned that people tolerate your ramblings because of your boobs. Do you think that would still be the case if you had "normal" size boobs?

You also mentioned that your boobs aren't what they were. What were they like?

I'm only asking for comparative scientific purposes of course...

I find that horny men will tolerate pointless rambling from naked chicks, near naked chicks, or chicks they think are likely to be naked soon. I don't think breast size has anything to do with it. Really it is just that boobs are like welcome signs for the magical vagina.

Well as time as gone by they have grown increasingly larger and lower. They were never small by any normal standards, but like 32DDD in high school, then Gs, and Hs, and Is, Js, Ks...you get the idea. but I spent a large number of years with tits that strippers pay top dollar for. and that is according to the strippers paying for them. so yeah, it was said it was such a shame that I had the natural perfect stripper body but the coordination of a drunken nearsighted squirrel. but again, they are always increasing in cup size while decreasing in vertical positioning so it is not an easy answer. 30ish though they really started showing their age.

Loved your speech. You definitely got better with age

Well thank you. I will keep reminding myself of that when I am flashing truckers at 80 lol

 

[MadScot26]

Wow, you always look so sexy