Justa Redux. Still nothing to see, is a redux ever better than the original
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So what do we think my nails are saying about me now
They are saying I have beautiful hands and pick the most fabulous rich colors ..
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"Oh, this isn't casual wear?" wouldn't work you think?
Freaky contacts are cool!
Here there is a debate on the internet that's not healthy, but at work it's nothing like what you describe. It's almost business as usual. There is a policy now that says that sexual harassment will be reported to who it may be, depending on the harassment.
But there is a big difference between our countries. I USA as I understand it, you can sue someone for almost anything, and here you can't. We have laws and responsibilities, but it's not easy to sue someone.
Lol.
And yeah, I like freaky contacts.
Imo, Most large corporations seem to take complaints very seriously now. Not saying there still aren't problems, but also admitting there are completely frivolous claims and both women and men may be getting screwed on both sides.
Yes you can sue for pretty much anything, and even frivolous cases are very expensive to defend against. And God forbid you lose, payouts can be ridiculous, like in some cases millions more than the person would have ever made. But worse than that is public reputation now. As for suits, most big businesses have a nuisance amount they will pay out when the word sue is used. Ok, I never worked with harrassment, but I did work with personal injury. Anything under $10k I was to automatically pay, if they were just seeking medical bills and sent bills or receipts. Almost every single one they misused the product. Think wife throws frying pan at hubby, hubby gets front teeth knocked out, calls frying pan manufacturer and threatens to sue. Defending a case costs tens of thousands of dollars, he only wants a grand for the fake teeth, pay it.
Why we were like that.... Well we bought a company out of bankruptcy, why they went bankrupt, well ok, an apt analogy. They made saw blades. Two kids find their dads battery operated saw with our blade. They duct tape the saw to a big bouncy ball, turn it on, and bounce it into a tree over and over. Eventually, it hits a squirrel and a mutilated dead squirrel is now hanging off the ball saw. Kid bounces again, but because the weight balance changed, it hits the other kid in the neck and he is paralyzed for life. The parents want $500,000 from all 4 companies. The ball manufacturer, the saw manufacturer, the tape manufacturer, and the blade manufacturer. The ball, tape, and saw manufacturer settle, the blade company says come on, it did what it was supposed to. They lost, 14million, sold off everything, went bankrupt, we bought the name.
We have seen similar in sexual harassment. Minimum wage employees winning millions because they don't like the way someone looks at them and no one took it seriously. Maybe they should have. Maybe he was looking creepy. Not my place, jury decided he was and awarded more than they'd make in their crap job in a lifetime.
And now with the internet, people can write fake notes on their receipts and practically bankrupt a company simply by sharing their fake shit and creating a boycott because they were bored and wanted attention.
Thus I really do believe the majority of large employers take any report very seriously. Not saying bad dudes don't slip through, probably a lot do, but it would be naive to say that frivolous threats and fake reports aren't acted on too.
Now me, yes I get teased a lot at work with women jokes, the old guys get teased with old jokes, short guys short jokes, etc etc. We joke a lot at work, usually go for the easy tease, it is how we blow off steam, and we are friends. Yes I am sort of treated differently as the jokes are different, but really I am treated just the same, just woman is the easy way. The difference is if another woman hears this and complains she could have a real case. An outsider short guy isn't a "protected class".
It is tough for me to understand that if some woman in another department overheard that she could be so traumatized that she could cost him his job. That isn't trauma to me.
Almost everyone I know meets their spouse at work. Yet I have heard women say that if a coworker asked them out on a date, they would have to quit, even if he accepted no, and never said anything else, because they would feel just so awkward. She is traumatized over a date invite. To me that is nothing. You answer it with yes or no. I have said yes or no to many many date requests. It isn't a thing. I just don't get it.
Maybe I am the one that is wrong and screwed up, but I just wanted to be treated like an equal. If a guy walked in in a suit, we would all tell him it looks nice. They shouldn't be afraid to treat me the same. I don't want people protecting me from nothing, I don't want HR checking in on me to make sure I feel ok, I don't want invites to a special women's only tasks force. I don't want people afraid to look me in the eyes. I don't want to be special. So yeah, in my corporate life, I am more offended by policy than people, as the policies seem to imply I am special and need extra support.
But I can't deny that some places it is true, somewhere a woman could be traumatized by an overheard joke, or a man's calendar on his desk, or someone thinking she looks pretty. I just don't get it. Then there are actual real cases with women fired for not sleeping with their boss, or true relentless singling out and teasing of just her. I just have never seen those in real corporate life, just in crappy small places. All I see now is men by default trying to treat me differently until I break that delusion that I am special and need to be treated with kid gloves.
Such a confusing grey area. I would never want to be HR and I am glad I don't feel the need to think heavily about where I look or the words I use. Yeah, i dont know the correct answer, but for me, it is harder now than it was a decade ago. People are nervous about working with me because i am a woman and that might give me special power. In criminal cases, the defendant is presumed innocent until proven guilty. In public opinion, it isn't that way. So I can't even say I blame them for being nervous. Not that I think there are a ton of false allegations, but more that I think some women might be more sensitive. I mean really, being advised to not look at women, or actual contracts with a few second time limits of how long to look at women when you talk. I struggle to comprehend that that is needed, but it is coming out more and more.
I just don't know. Change is for sure needed in many places, no doubt, but I can also see the construct of public opinion judgements and a lack of hierchary of "sexual offenses" where harrassment is assault and a person being uncomfortable is harassment which is now assault is breaking things. It started shortly before #metoo, #metoo just shows it more. While fixing what is broken, things that were not broken are being damaged and it is making it harder for me because I am now distrusted because I am special. I see it because i am just one of the guys. I am forced to attend the same seminars that are all men. The guys who do trust me dont think twice about sharing their fear, because i am not the unknown. But when I am the unknown it is hard to collaborate with a team that is afraid to speak or look at you. And they are actually being taught that that is needed. It is a whole new meaning to 3 second rule.
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Mmm. They would, wouldn't they
Your face is gorgeous , your body is hot, your nails are nice!
Well thank you. I will still own my unpredictablity though
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They are saying I have beautiful hands and pick the most fabulous rich colors ..
Well thank you. I wonder what they will say next.
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I think you have great taste and am sure taste magically delightful. Like Lays potato chips. One is never enough...
Justadesperatewifeandmom
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So what do my finger nails say about me now?
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What? You mean it isn't obvious? They're you need me inside you. That's my story and I'm sticking to it.
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Hadn't really noticed.
Well they are saying some very meaningful things.
What? You mean it isn't obvious? They're you need me inside you. That's my story and I'm sticking to it.
Yeah that is pretty much what they are saying.. Ended up going with a larger dildo though.
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That you’re a dirty girl and are using the cheap method of removing nail varnish.
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They say you are horny and badly need my tongue to replace those nails and fingers
Oh, and I would LOVE to replace those fingers with my tongue SO very much
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Interesting reading your comments about workplace dynamics... no one should ever be harassed, sexually or otherwise in the workplace.. the bar changes so often that both men and women are never sure what is or isn't acceptable in conversations...
As to your nails.. they are beautiful as is the rest of you... Thanks for sharing the pics today... a real treat...
As to your nails.. they are beautiful as is the rest of you... Thanks for sharing the pics today... a real treat...
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Damn, I lost out to a dildo. *hangs head in shame* But this is how this thread makes me feel...
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Justadesperatewifeandmom
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Pretty much.
That you’re a dirty girl and are using the cheap method of removing nail varnish.
Well dirty girl, sure, but otherwise you stopped listening
They say you are horny and badly need my tongue to replace those nails and fingers
Oh, and I would LOVE to replace those fingers with my tongue SO very much
Yes, that is for sure one of the things that they are requesting.
Interesting reading your comments about workplace dynamics... no one should ever be harassed, sexually or otherwise in the workplace.. the bar changes so often that both men and women are never sure what is or isn't acceptable in conversations...
As to your nails.. they are beautiful as is the rest of you... Thanks for sharing the pics today... a real treat...
Yeah, I agree. But I never felt it was remotely an issue except for when I worked crap jobs and it was customers that were the worst. Now there are eye contact rules and training on it, anti physical contact policies, dictation on not requesting contact numbers, and it is completely one sided. Like maybe not the handbook (like I read it) but like the seminars. They are addressing men and the rules are for how to interact with women.
Now again, I only have to break in new teams, so it isn't that bad, but they have created an environment where outside women will be semi shunned if not completely shunned, And these aren't bad guys. Ok one is kind of a dick, but I even like him, once you get used to his 0 social skills and bluntness. The rest are good to great. They are just afraid they will fuck up. They seem to honestly believe like if they don't constantly check over their shoulder they might get fired for conversations between them, or their language, or their music, or some silly sign one prints and hangs on another's cube.
Like they seem to believe most women are overly sensitive and I am the exception. That can't be true, can it? Some of the women in the other departments, well there are two who are brutal. (We have 7 women total) I gave up on having temps because they always complained about how my temps interacted. I even told my last temp specifically never to talk to them and should they approach, stop and get me, but I lost my last temp anyway because one liked to eat lunch in the smoking area, and he was a smoker. So he went and talked to her. She reported every time she went to lunch he would show up at the only smoking area and was obviously following her. So he was termed. Ass kicker was, She was not a smoker. He could go no where else, she had 5 other areas she could take lunch in.
But for the most part I think women aren't insanely sensitive, but even I am getting confused. I will be honest, any of my temps that didn't suck, did have a creepy vibe sort of. I'd lay money that the guy who looked too long was on the autism spectrum. None were socially well adjusted, like still lived at home, socially immature, geeks. That happens when you hire geeks, you get geeks, and the poor social skills that often come with.
Well next time be in my bed.
And is that a good feeling or not lol?
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I'm working on a teleporter to your bed.
Sure, it's a good feeling until your large boner knocks your head off. I saw a funny meme with Skeletor with the insanely overused live, laugh, love phrase. Now that's the proper way to use it.
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Aren’t you beautiful?
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Hurry up on that please.
Skeletor. Damn haven't thought about him in years. My first pretend play arch nemesis.
And lol on the meme.
Well if I am, make sure to factor in the points deduction for my pain in the ass personality. And the non stop talking. Yeah, I have lots of issues
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Damn it Justa, I'm just another moron with a computer and hard on, not a scientist!
Yes. Very lol. Live. Laugh. Love. Now I got the He-Man version of What's Going On stuck in my head.
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The nails are impressive but I genuinely don’t know how you do stuff with them - it’s a talent I’ve not mastered (one of many... like walking in heels... doing smokey eyes... and eating soup without spilling any on my tits... basically shit at all the usual feminine stuff)
Will this play in the states? A skeletor / he man ad for an insurance comparison website...
https://youtu.be/-PgTjhx1VLw
Will this play in the states? A skeletor / he man ad for an insurance comparison website...
https://youtu.be/-PgTjhx1VLw
Yes it does. Interesting commercial
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Lol. Sorry about your lack of teleportation then.
So now I listened to hemans what's up, and that was traumatizing so I had to go listen to 4 non blondes. Yeah you know 14 year old me was with her girls, our MD2020, and our joints belting that out in the streets too.
It is harder for me to function without. They are strong and don't break until much longer so yeah, like Edward scissorhands, built in tools.
But I am with you with heels and always spilling things on my tits. That is why all my tops are patterned....to hide spills.
And ok, now that was traumatizing
Sure interesting
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Thank you for helping to inspire my first cum of the day
Well I am glad my shiny finger nails (on my fingers, playing with my pussy) were inspirational. Thank you
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Haha if only they knew what was going on in your cube before you were moved to their tame-basic-ass area!
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