A Journey In Vulnerability

[dchockeyman]

Good call. But trees are my favorites in general, so I’m sticking with them.

Really, you can’t go wrong with a nice, fragrant pine.

 

[EndlessNameless]

Good morning! It's another bright, sunny day, although it is a bit cooler. I'm getting ready for work, hoping today will not be as crazy as Monday was, lol!

Just a couple random thoughts this morning. 1. Is it bad that I just want to be comfortable and don't care if that means I look like a hag? lol
And 2. How many days do you give someone before you just assume you've been ghosted and give up waiting to hear from them?

Anyway, gotta dash. but here is what I wish I was going to be wearing all day, instead of work clothes.

If that's your "comfortable" then what does your "sexy" look like? Because you are smokin, girl. I almost tackled my monitor out of reflex.

Hard to say without knowing circumstances. If think if there was daily contact or every other day and the contact dropped off all of a sudden, maybe something's up. I don't like jumping to conclusions though. Wait to hear back and if nothing is heard, might be best to just move on.

 

[Elgirldani]

If that's your "comfortable" then what does your "sexy" look like? Because you are smokin, girl. I almost tackled my monitor out of reflex.

Hard to say without knowing circumstances. If think if there was daily contact or every other day and the contact dropped off all of a sudden, maybe something's up. I don't like jumping to conclusions though. Wait to hear back and if nothing is heard, might be best to just move on.

Lol, thanks. I meant more along the lines of not wanting to do my hair and make up this morning, but I am definitely more of a t-shirt and sweats kind of girl irl.

There was consistent enough contact that I got genuinely worried when it abruptly stopped. But I'm like you, I don't like to assume I know what's going on in someone else's life.

 

[Elgirldani]

Really, you can’t go wrong with a nice, fragrant pine.

True

 

[Youneverknow81]

Good morning! It's another bright, sunny day, although it is a bit cooler. I'm getting ready for work, hoping today will not be as crazy as Monday was, lol!

Just a couple random thoughts this morning. 1. Is it bad that I just want to be comfortable and don't care if that means I look like a hag? lol
And 2. How many days do you give someone before you just assume you've been ghosted and give up waiting to hear from them?

Anyway, gotta dash. but here is what I wish I was going to be wearing all day, instead of work clothes.

Gorgeous!

 

[Elgirldani]

Gorgeous!

Thank you

 

[Werdthbarbarian]

Good morning! It's another bright, sunny day, although it is a bit cooler. I'm getting ready for work, hoping today will not be as crazy as Monday was, lol!

Just a couple random thoughts this morning. 1. Is it bad that I just want to be comfortable and don't care if that means I look like a hag? lol
And 2. How many days do you give someone before you just assume you've been ghosted and give up waiting to hear from them?

Anyway, gotta dash. but here is what I wish I was going to be wearing all day, instead of work clothes.

To answer you, if someone has lasted longer that 48 hours before replying to you, they are a flat out fool. However they also might be playing a game to see how much you care.

And your "hag" outfit is nothing but the opposite when paired with that body of yours. Simple can be sexy. That picture is pure sexy

 

[Elgirldani]

To answer you, if someone has lasted longer that 48 hours before replying to you, they are a flat out fool. However they also might be playing a game to see how much you care.

And your "hag" outfit is nothing but the opposite when paired with that body of yours. Simple can be sexy. That picture is pure sexy

Well thank you. I don’t think he’s a fool, but if he’s playing games that’s an automatic loss for him. I can care too much, but you’ll never find that out by trying to play me.

As for the picture, thank you again. Although I’m beginning to think the post was confusing people. That isn’t an example of “hag” me, lol. But oh well, at least everyone seems to have liked it.

 

[dchockeyman]

He’s a fool.

 

[Elgirldani]

He’s a fool.

 

[Youneverknow81]

Good morning! It's another bright, sunny day, although it is a bit cooler. I'm getting ready for work, hoping today will not be as crazy as Monday was, lol!

Just a couple random thoughts this morning. 1. Is it bad that I just want to be comfortable and don't care if that means I look like a hag? lol
And 2. How many days do you give someone before you just assume you've been ghosted and give up waiting to hear from them?

Anyway, gotta dash. but here is what I wish I was going to be wearing all day, instead of work clothes.

Circumstances being unknown it’s difficult for anyone to say they just couldn’t get to a method of communicating with you. For sanity’s sake it’s probably best to assume any number of things may have happened, something often overlooked when thinking about being ghosted is the mental state of the person who disappears instead of worrying about the flaws or reasons why they would stop talking to you. All the same reasons they spoke to you in the first place and engaged with you are still there but something changed in them.

Sort of a different approach To thinking about it I hope

 

[Elgirldani]

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Morning! I don't really have much to say this morning. Been sitting here trying to think of something witty or sassy, or anything really, to post and I'm coming up blank, lol.

I can't figure out if its because my mind really is blank, or because there are too many thoughts at once to focus on any one... hmmm. Oh well.

 

[Elgirldani]

Circumstances being unknown it’s difficult for anyone to say they just couldn’t get to a method of communicating with you. For sanity’s sake it’s probably best to assume any number of things may have happened, something often overlooked when thinking about being ghosted is the mental state of the person who disappears instead of worrying about the flaws or reasons why they would stop talking to you. All the same reasons they spoke to you in the first place and engaged with you are still there but something changed in them.

Sort of a different approach To thinking about it I hope

Yeah, I always try to give the benefit of the doubt, because I know something could easily happen in my own life to cause me to not be able to deal with people on the same level as I am now. It has happened too many times in the past for me to ignore that possibility. I'm more concerned than anything, because I have too big a heart and just want people to be happy.

 

[Youneverknow81]

Yeah, I always try to give the benefit of the doubt, because I know something could easily happen in my own life to cause me to not be able to deal with people on the same level as I am now. It has happened too many times in the past for me to ignore that possibility. I'm more concerned than anything, because I have too big a heart and just want people to be happy.

Absolutely, life happens and we all need to look out for ourselves and each other

 

[Youneverknow81]

Morning! I don't really have much to say this morning. Been sitting here trying to think of something witty or sassy, or anything really, to post and I'm coming up blank, lol.

I can't figure out if its because my mind really is blank, or because there are too many thoughts at once to focus on any one... hmmm. Oh well.

Geeze, what a woman!

 

[Elgirldani]

Geeze, what a woman!

 

[gentold]

Morning! I don't really have much to say this morning. Been sitting here trying to think of something witty or sassy, or anything really, to post and I'm coming up blank, lol.

I can't figure out if its because my mind really is blank, or because there are too many thoughts at once to focus on any one... hmmm. Oh well.

when you have legs as awesome as these
you never have to think witty or sassy


they think
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listens

 

[dchockeyman]

Close your eyes—if your mind is blank, you’ll know. If it’s the clutter of thoughts creating the noise, you’ll be able to start organizing and removing them.

(Also, nice legs...)

 

[Elgirldani]

Close your eyes—if your mind is blank, you’ll know. If it’s the clutter of thoughts creating the noise, you’ll be able to start organizing and removing them.

(Also, nice legs...)

Huh. I'm having one very specific thought when I close my eyes... But it's time to go to work, so it'll have to wait, lol.

 

[dchockeyman]

Huh. I'm having one very specific thought when I close my eyes... But it's time to go to work, so it'll have to wait, lol.

If that thought is, “did I turn the stove off?”, you probably should check before leaving.

 

[Elgirldani]

If that thought is, “did I turn the stove off?”, you probably should check before leaving.

No, it wasn’t that. Lol, I’d have to have used the stove first, and I’m not much of a cook.

 

[dchockeyman]

No, it wasn’t that. Lol, I’d have to have used the stove first, and I’m not much of a cook.

Surely you can make grilled cheese. Even I can make grilled cheese.

 

[simpledude]

Thank you, and welcome aboard!

Thank you. Am I right though? Are you similar in real life? Like, I get a very serene vibe from you, like someone who is in control of her surroundings and deals with situations calmly, instead of huffing and puffing at the last moment.

 

[Todger65]

Morning! I don't really have much to say this morning. Been sitting here trying to think of something witty or sassy, or anything really, to post and I'm coming up blank, lol.

I can't figure out if its because my mind really is blank, or because there are too many thoughts at once to focus on any one... hmmm. Oh well.

Still gorgeous even if your mind is blank.

 

[Elgirldani]

Surely you can make grilled cheese. Even I can make grilled cheese.

Grilled cheese, pancakes, eggs. That’s about it. Lol