Daddy's Little Girl: Second Edition

[HeavyBalls]

"There's a difference between being a daddy and wanting to be called daddy."


true dat

By leaps and bounds...

 

[DappleDoxie]

"There's a difference between being a daddy and wanting to be called daddy."

Oh ... hugely!!
RFB thought himself a Dom. Daddy. But something just never let me say the words.
And this girl was RIGHT!!!

 

[HeavyBalls]

*makes a cookie and brownie and ice cream delivery*

 

[cascadiabound]

*makes a cookie and brownie and ice cream delivery*

*you have any mint chocolate chip icecream there, HB?*

 

[HeavyBalls]

Of course I do. What kind of spoiler would I be without...?

 

[cascadiabound]

Of course I do. What kind of spoiler would I be without...?

I am serving your brownies and icecream up like this for anyone who wants some....

https://66.media.tumblr.com/675f164324bebfc3873d42a4315eb7f7/tumblr_plc8kruxNY1vhc88co1_500.jpg

 

[cascadiabound]

https://66.media.tumblr.com/4692bd5a20c3b10b490afa4e6cc6b2e5/tumblr_pgsry2YFIG1s3ibvu_540.jpg

 

[DappleDoxie]

I am serving your brownies and icecream up like this for anyone who wants some....

Oh, yes!! Pecan brownie with butter brickle, please Or coffee with espresso chips
Thank you, cb!!!!

 

[cascadiabound]

Oh, yes!! Pecan brownie with butter brickle, please Or coffee with espresso chips
Thank you, cb!!!!

you are welcome....

turning back a page or two there have been a number of posts about labels and whether they fit and whether they are useful or not.
I came across the following quote today that may speak to this issue for us:

Labels…..Ugh!

Master/Slave, Dom/Sub, Daddy/Little, Top/Bottom are all labels suggesting that you are just one of these. Whereas, in reality, you might be a mix of them, or not. Who cares? You are what you are. And you are what you’re into. Every person, therefore, every dynamic, is different. The only stable criteria through the whole of this is that one person leads and one person follows. And even that, (as in the level and areas of control given and accepted), is subject to the needs and wants of the people involved in the dynamic.

 

[Moochienanu]

"There's a difference between being a daddy and wanting to be called daddy."


true dat

So much truth. I’ve always lived by the “actions speak louder than words” credo... and this feels like it fits there.

 

[barefootgirl69]

you are welcome....

turning back a page or two there have been a number of posts about labels and whether they fit and whether they are useful or not.
I came across the following quote today that may speak to this issue for us:

Labels…..Ugh!

Master/Slave, Dom/Sub, Daddy/Little, Top/Bottom are all labels suggesting that you are just one of these. Whereas, in reality, you might be a mix of them, or not. Who cares? You are what you are. And you are what you’re into. Every person, therefore, every dynamic, is different. The only stable criteria through the whole of this is that one person leads and one person follows. And even that, (as in the level and areas of control given and accepted), is subject to the needs and wants of the people involved in the dynamic.

I love this, cb! I'm definitely a mix...I like to say I'm a little when I can be, but submissive all the time. But. I also think I'm little all the time inside. Crazy, huh? Oh, well...

I've got to be meeeeee, just gotta be meeeee

Oh! I got a new coloring book. From Crayola website, but it's also at amazon. "City Escapes"...check it out, I'm so excited!!

 

[elizabeth191]

*peeking my head in* Hi everyone...I think this is where I belong.

I’ve been reading through this thread and I love all the support in it. I’m brand new to all of this, so I’m still learning about it (and myself). But this seems like a great (and safe) place to be

 

[barefootgirl69]

*peeking my head in* Hi everyone...I think this is where I belong.

I’ve been reading through this thread and I love all the support in it. I’m brand new to all of this, so I’m still learning about it (and myself). But this seems like a great (and safe) place to be

Hi, Elizabeth, welcome to our little thread!

 

[cascadiabound]

*peeking my head in* Hi everyone...I think this is where I belong.

I’ve been reading through this thread and I love all the support in it. I’m brand new to all of this, so I’m still learning about it (and myself). But this seems like a great (and safe) place to be

Welcome elizabeth.
glad you are getting comfortable. Please feel free to just jump in, ask questions and ask for help. there are lots of great resources here.

cascadia

 

[elizabeth191]

Hi, Elizabeth, welcome to our little thread!

Welcome elizabeth.
glad you are getting comfortable. Please feel free to just jump in, ask questions and ask for help. there are lots of great resources here.

cascadia

Thank you so much for the warm welcome!

I saw there were brownies and ice cream around earlier, I might have a little snack, poke around a little more, and get to know everyone.

 

[LostGirlTink]

https://66.media.tumblr.com/2b1e876e783692bda5580167ef66c7fa/tumblr_plfsu2VgMW1s1zwyj_540.jpg

new book... seems like this belongs here

I would just like to say that within an hour of being here Tolyk had glitter on him from me.

 

[cascadiabound]

Thank you so much for the warm welcome!

I saw there were brownies and ice cream around earlier, I might have a little snack, poke around a little more, and get to know everyone.

absolutely. There are usually snacks around here (HB is pretty good about dropping off sweets ) and bfg and I are usually lurking pretty close to see what is happening here.

feel free to poke around - if there is an old post that catches your eye and you want to talk about it feel free to repost it and say what you want to say about it.

all of us are smarter than any of us alone.

 

[Shi_One81]

Thank you everyone for your responses to my question, it definitely helped put some things into perspective.

Right now I’m feeling very vulnerable and can feel that “little” side that I try to bury down coming up. I just want my guy to be home, put me in his arms and rub my head.

 

[cascadiabound]

Thank you everyone for your responses to my question, it definitely helped put some things into perspective.

Right now I’m feeling very vulnerable and can feel that “little” side that I try to bury down coming up. I just want my guy to be home, put me in his arms and rub my head.

nods. love that. need that. waiting for that too.

 

[Shi_One81]

nods. love that. need that. waiting for that too.

He travels during the week for work and won’t be home until tomorrow night, weather pending. He’s the first really “big” guy I’ve dated (well we’re engaged), and I love our size difference. He’s tall with big arms and big hands and I just like being wrapped up in him because those arms protect me from everything.

 

[cascadiabound]

He travels during the week for work and won’t be home until tomorrow night, weather pending. He’s the first really “big” guy I’ve dated (well we’re engaged), and I love our size difference. He’s tall with big arms and big hands and I just like being wrapped up in him because those arms protect me from everything.

it is a lovely feeling, isn't it?
I am smiling that you will be with him (hopefully) tomorrow night.

 

[cascadiabound]

Three Types of Rules For Littles

Here are three types of rules for Caregivers who are struggling to develop lists for their new little:


1. Rules That Establish Dominance:

These are the fun rules, and the ones that reinforce who is boss. Asking for permission to cum and letting Daddy pick out your panties each day are good examples.

2. Rules That Guide Health:

These help with physical and mental health. Eating breakfast each day, a required walk, journal writing, and required self play (good for burning calories and raising endorphins) are good examples.

3. Rules That Help With Goals:

These help make her that very best version of herself that she wants to be. Keeping her room tidy, working toward healthy eating habits, putting away money in the bank each week, and required time for studying are good examples.

**Rules may overlap into multiple areas. Required self play can help with mental health, weight loss, stress relief, sleeping habits, as well as establishing dominance. Looking at other’s rules can help you come up with your own, but by and large, rules should be tailored to serve specific littles and their unique needs. Happy rule making.


~ thought I would put this here as a resource and for discussion.

do these seem right to you from either side of the slash?

as your PYL/CG provides structure and rules for you, how do you provide service and care for him?

and always... simple reminder... it is still just a relationship. meals, laundry, laughs, teasing, good days and bad days are all part of life.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Three Types of Rules For Littles


~ thought I would put this here as a resource and for discussion.

do these seem right to you from either side of the slash?

as your PYL/CG provides structure and rules for you, how do you provide service and care for him?

and always... simple reminder... it is still just a relationship. meals, laundry, laughs, teasing, good days and bad days are all part of life.

How have I missed this all week?

I love simple rules and, because I want to please him, I do them without hesitation. I don't want him to worry about me.

A few of mine are

• to set my clock for 8am. I don't sleep well, so when I DO fall asleep about 6.30, I want to sleep late. It ruins my day.

• remember to eat breakfast

• try to be asleep by 12.30

 

[Moochienanu]

How have I missed this all week?

I love simple rules and, because I want to please him, I do them without hesitation. I don't want him to worry about me.

A few of mine are

• to set my clock for 8am. I don't sleep well, so when I DO fall asleep about 6.30, I want to sleep late. It ruins my day.

• remember to eat breakfast

• try to be asleep by 12.30

Simple rules and rules about health are nice to have to decrease worry. I think your rule examples about sleep are good ones. It made me think about all rules.

I know I have a very hard time with language like “must” or “never,” but I do better with “try your best to” or “I will be upset if/when you,” type language. Basically what I’m trying to say is absolutes in rules make me feel confined and unhappy, but if there’s just a little wiggle room (*trying not to giggle because wiggling makes me think about His lap*) I feel like I have enough of His hand on me to feel comfortable and be able to follow all the rules.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

*peeks*

hi