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i have fantasized about watching a guy fuck my wife for years. started talking to her about it about 2 years ago and she suprised me. i asked her if she ever thought about trying a different dick and she said yes. turned me on even more knowing she thinks about it too. she has never fucked anyone but me so first time will be so hot. If anyone has any tips about becomming a cuckold husband please contact me.
 
Hotbwbf said:
i have fantasized about watching a guy fuck my wife for years. started talking to her about it about 2 years ago and she suprised me. i asked her if she ever thought about trying a different dick and she said yes. turned me on even more knowing she thinks about it too. she has never fucked anyone but me so first time will be so hot. If anyone has any tips about becomming a cuckold husband please contact me.
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Yes, describe her for us
 
 
In my opinion there are two fetishes here, related but entirely different.
First, being a cuckold husband: to me being a cuckold involves an element of humiliation with either the wife or the bull mocking the husbands inability to keep his wife satisfied, with the sexual thrill for the husband coming from the humiliation rather than from the act of watching his wife being fucked by a stranger.
The second fetish doesn't have a name as far as I know but is different from a cuckold in that humiliation of the husband is not a part of it. The husband may have any number of reasons for encouraging his wife to take lovers and allowing him to watch but the thrill is in watching, not humiliation.
I fit this second category. Love watching my wife fuck other guys but if there is any hint of either her or the other guy mocking or humiliating me then the deal is off.
 
magicalmoments said:
In my opinion there are two fetishes here, related but entirely different.
First, being a cuckold husband: to me being a cuckold involves an element of humiliation with either the wife or the bull mocking the husbands inability to keep his wife satisfied, with the sexual thrill for the husband coming from the humiliation rather than from the act of watching his wife being fucked by a stranger.
The second fetish doesn't have a name as far as I know but is different from a cuckold in that humiliation of the husband is not a part of it. The husband may have any number of reasons for encouraging his wife to take lovers and allowing him to watch but the thrill is in watching, not humiliation.
I fit this second category. Love watching my wife fuck other guys but if there is any hint of either her or the other guy mocking or humiliating me then the deal is off.
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Total agreement! I totally live with your second point...lol. It will never happen in my situation, but it sure is fun to envision. The cuckold aspect is a big zero, or less than zero, for me.
 
the whole cuckold thing, jesus. theres only one way to sum it up.


Get a life dumb fuck. Chop your tiny little balls off because you evidently don't have any fucking self respect. Probably voted for Hillary too.
 
I would say it's a fetish. But I don't think of it as one. If that makes sense.
 
magicalmoments said:
In my opinion there are two fetishes here, related but entirely different.
First, being a cuckold husband: to me being a cuckold involves an element of humiliation with either the wife or the bull mocking the husbands inability to keep his wife satisfied, with the sexual thrill for the husband coming from the humiliation rather than from the act of watching his wife being fucked by a stranger.
The second fetish doesn't have a name as far as I know but is different from a cuckold in that humiliation of the husband is not a part of it. The husband may have any number of reasons for encouraging his wife to take lovers and allowing him to watch but the thrill is in watching, not humiliation.
I fit this second category. Love watching my wife fuck other guys but if there is any hint of either her or the other guy mocking or humiliating me then the deal is off.
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Wanting to share without any element of humiliation is usually referred to as "hot wifing" or a "hot wife fetish" UD has it as one word hotwife, but I've more commonly seen two words
 
Hotbwbf said:
i have fantasized about watching a guy fuck my wife for years. started talking to her about it about 2 years ago and she suprised me. i asked her if she ever thought about trying a different dick and she said yes. turned me on even more knowing she thinks about it too. she has never fucked anyone but me so first time will be so hot. If anyone has any tips about becomming a cuckold husband please contact me.
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My advise - If she starts showing signs of taking an interest in another man, encourage her talk about it. Show her you're interested as well. If she does take the plunge without you (basically cheats) forgive her right away. Then take it from there.
 
Hotbwbf said:
i have fantasized about watching a guy fuck my wife for years. started talking to her about it about 2 years ago and she suprised me. i asked her if she ever thought about trying a different dick and she said yes. turned me on even more knowing she thinks about it too. she has never fucked anyone but me so first time will be so hot. If anyone has any tips about becomming a cuckold husband please contact me.
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No! But watching her actually do it is a lot of fun!
 
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Pocketshaver said:
Get a life dumb fuck. Chop your tiny little balls off because you evidently don't have any fucking self respect. Probably voted for Hillary too.
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What's really dumb is someone with your viewpoint perusing cuckold threads.
 
magicalmoments said:
In my opinion there are two fetishes here, related but entirely different.
First, being a cuckold husband: to me being a cuckold involves an element of humiliation with either the wife or the bull mocking the husbands inability to keep his wife satisfied, with the sexual thrill for the husband coming from the humiliation rather than from the act of watching his wife being fucked by a stranger.
The second fetish doesn't have a name as far as I know but is different from a cuckold in that humiliation of the husband is not a part of it. The husband may have any number of reasons for encouraging his wife to take lovers and allowing him to watch but the thrill is in watching, not humiliation.
I fit this second category. Love watching my wife fuck other guys but if there is any hint of either her or the other guy mocking or humiliating me then the deal is off.
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I am in the first category. As I watch my wife gets fucked I want the guy to talk nasty and humiliate me for him taking my wife’s pussy. All of this started years ago when we had a rapest break into our house
 
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PFWilly said:
Total agreement! I totally live with your second point...lol. It will never happen in my situation, but it sure is fun to envision. The cuckold aspect is a big zero, or less than zero, for me.
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I agree here too. Would love to watch as my wife gets fucked good. The excitement comes in seeing her being pleasured to orgasm by someone else. I have no interest in humiliation for or from anyone.
 
magicalmoments said:
In my opinion there are two fetishes here, related but entirely different.
First, being a cuckold husband: to me being a cuckold involves an element of humiliation with either the wife or the bull mocking the husbands inability to keep his wife satisfied, with the sexual thrill for the husband coming from the humiliation rather than from the act of watching his wife being fucked by a stranger.
The second fetish doesn't have a name as far as I know but is different from a cuckold in that humiliation of the husband is not a part of it. The husband may have any number of reasons for encouraging his wife to take lovers and allowing him to watch but the thrill is in watching, not humiliation.
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Hmmm, I'm different from a lot of the posters here. I love the idea of watching other men fuck my wife, either solo or in a gang-bang situation. And a lot of what turns me on about this is the idea of seeing her in a state of sexual ecstasy - of watching her lose control in a way I've never seen her before. But I also like the humiliation implicit in that - of being in a sub position compared to her proud alpha-female status.
 
Hubby likes me to play but never wants to watch or even be close by....mainly stick to business trips etc
 
magicalmoments said:
In my opinion there are two fetishes here, related but entirely different.
First, being a cuckold husband: to me being a cuckold involves an element of humiliation with either the wife or the bull mocking the husbands inability to keep his wife satisfied, with the sexual thrill for the husband coming from the humiliation rather than from the act of watching his wife being fucked by a stranger.
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There's a lot of linguistic confusion (or linguistic sloppiness) around these two fetishes. You're correct in believing humiliation is (traditionally) an essential element of cuckoldry. This is because the term is a venerable one dating back to the Middle Ages (the practice itself goes back surely into the beginning of time). In Medieval times, If a woman cuckolded her husband, and others found out (and then, as today in small towns everywhere, everyone was into everyone's business—so they would find out) the husband was publicly humiliated and often paraded through town, "wearing the horns of the cuckold." To them, being cuckolded called into question the man's masculinity, his virility, his ability to satisfy a woman. In the fetish, the humiliation aspect has become cathected, i.e., it has become inextricably embedded in the man's sexuality with regard to one specific woman, or to women in general.

The second fetish doesn't have a name as far as I know but is different from a cuckold in that humiliation of the husband is not a part of it. The husband may have any number of reasons for encouraging his wife to take lovers and allowing him to watch but the thrill is in watching, not humiliation..
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There is an excellent account of this practice in Medieval time in the book Sarum—not the watching, but agreeing to and encouraging it. In this case, the behavior is for (ostensibly) purely economic reasons, not for kinky ones—although the wife certainly has no complaints. Men who did this, for whatever reasons, were called "wittols." Some in the modern kink world have resurrected this term to distinguish themselves from cuckolds, but more commonly, the woman is called a "hot wife," and the practice, "hotwifing," or similar.

I believe the reason the two terms are now becoming so badly conflated is because the word "cuckold," itself, has become very trendy. A lot of people who want to engage in wife-sharing want to apply this popular label to themselves—but they want nothing to do with the humiliation and implicit emasculation that go with it. So rather than use one of the terms that traditionally apply, they call themselves by the trendier "cuckold" and then deny that humiliation has anything to do with the word.
 
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Hotbwbf said:
i have fantasized about watching a guy fuck my wife for years. started talking to her about it about 2 years ago and she suprised me. i asked her if she ever thought about trying a different dick and she said yes. turned me on even more knowing she thinks about it too. she has never fucked anyone but me so first time will be so hot. If anyone has any tips about becomming a cuckold husband please contact me.
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Continue the support and communication. Hopefully, for your sake, she does include you on any 'new dick' excursions she makes.

Pillow talk of scenes for her to take in. Amazing how cooperative we can be while hot and excited to the point of cumming. One of the best orgasms of my life was when hubby was licking my clit and I was alllllllmmoooossstttt there, he raised his head and asked, "Don't you wish this was him?" That DID it... lol. :kiss:
 
LuciousLadyMary said:
Continue the support and communication. Hopefully, for your sake, she does include you on any 'new dick' excursions she makes.

Pillow talk of scenes for her to take in. Amazing how cooperative we can be while hot and excited to the point of cumming. One of the best orgasms of my life was when hubby was licking my clit and I was alllllllmmoooossstttt there, he raised his head and asked, "Don't you wish this was him?" That DID it... lol. :kiss:
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Did the lucky “him” ever get really lucky?
 
Dreamer110 said:
Lucky hubby!
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Yes indeed. But lucky wives to! All of the wives and girlfriends discussed here should thank their lucky stars that they have men in their lives like you guys.

For those that are still fantasizing or just hoping, never stop. You never know when your next hint or question will be the one to make her really stop and think.

Great thread!
 
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