Ever Wondered What an Orgasm Feels like for the Opposite Sex?

[Erodicus]

I recall a woman who once wrote that she would like to experience what a man feels when he ejaculates. Got me thinking what an orgasm (or 10 in a row) feels like for a woman. Has anyone talked about this to their partners? Any surprises?

 

[FL30]

I recall a woman who once wrote that she would like to experience what a man feels when he ejaculates. Got me thinking what an orgasm (or 10 in a row) feels like for a woman. Has anyone talked about this to their partners? Any surprises?

I think at one point or another we've all wondered, after all the human is a curious creature.

 

[AlexGosford]

Oh my god yes. Never more so than when I'm writing a sex scene. My ex wasn't ever particularly forthcoming with an explanation or description.

 

[Jada59]

I've never really wondered, For me, orgasms can be different. I am easily orgasmic, multi-orgasmic and sometimes I squirt. They can be as mild as... Oh yeah. That felt good. Or as mild blowing as to take me off to some other realm where I have trouble catching my breath and coming back to this earth. And all manner of things in between. Depends on a variety of things.

 

[occasional_lovers]

The truth is I used to wonder, but not any more. I have discussed it with a lot of men and have come to the conclusion that the male orgasm is one-dimensional, centered around the genitals, compared to the female one which motivates the whole body. However, if there was a way, I would like to experience once what men call "emptying" during their ejaculation.

 

[Ade_]

Beyond the obvious delights of experience an orgasm, it would certainly be an informative experience to see how it differs from one gender to other, or in fact how similar they may be.

 

[SolarRay]

I asked a related question here: http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=90013848&postcount=741 but never got a reply.

I really would love to have a proper, in-depth description from a woman detailing the difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasms.

 

[SolarRay]

The truth is I used to wonder, but not any more. I have discussed it with a lot of men and have come to the conclusion that the male orgasm is one-dimensional, centered around the genitals, compared to the female one which motivates the whole body. However, if there was a way, I would like to experience once what men call "emptying" during their ejaculation.

This has been my impression too. Although, I would say that men may at least have sensations elsewhere in the body, like a shower of pleasure down from the head through the body, but nothing to the degree that women mention regarding whole-body involvement.

Somewhat related— I would add, and I'm sure this applies in varying ways to both genders, that although we mainly talk about the physical act of an orgasm, its impact is not purely a physical phenomenon. There is, of course, an interplay of physical and psychological factors. For example, in the case of a man, I think the ejaculation-factor mentioned in the OP is critical to the complete experience. Even before orgasm, the very build-up and presence of semen has a profound psychological and chemical effect which can increase aggression, anxiety, insuppressible desire, etc., potentially causing a significant change in the individual's thoughts and emotions. Therefore, it may come as no surprise that there is a corresponding psychological purgative effect involved in the release.

I would go so far as to say that it's not always the case that a man desires an orgasm purely for the physical reward at the precise moment of climax itself, especially for a man who does not manage his own cycle of arousal and release well. Perhaps the emerging psychological crisis is the body's way of sending a signal to the brain that the sperm in question is still viable and must be utilized before it begins to degrade in quality? Perhaps the body is indicating that it's time for the prostate to clear out irritating or harmful substances? At any rate, in some cases, the need to orgasm can be as much about the psychological relief that results afterward and the effects of the reduction of the aforementioned stressors. Ironically: a need to return to a neutral and restorative state before the body begins producing again, desire increases, and the cycle repeats.

 

[Erodicus]

The truth is I used to wonder, but not any more. I have discussed it with a lot of men and have come to the conclusion that the male orgasm is one-dimensional, centered around the genitals, compared to the female one which motivates the whole body. However, if there was a way, I would like to experience once what men call "emptying" during their ejaculation.

Just as many men would like to experience multiple orgasms on a regular basis.

 

[Osveta]

I tell the partner on a regular basis I would like to trade equipment just for a day.

 

[Erodicus]

This has been my impression too. Although, I would say that men may at least have sensations elsewhere in the body, like a shower of pleasure down from the head through the body, but nothing to the degree that women mention regarding whole-body involvement.

Somewhat related— I would add, and I'm sure this applies in varying ways to both genders, that although we mainly talk about the physical act of an orgasm, its impact is not purely a physical phenomenon. There is, of course, an interplay of physical and psychological factors. For example, in the case of a man, I think the ejaculation-factor mentioned in the OP is critical to the complete experience. Even before orgasm, the very build-up and presence of semen has a profound psychological and chemical effect which can increase aggression, anxiety, insuppressible desire, etc., potentially causing a significant change in the individual's thoughts and emotions. Therefore, it may come as no surprise that there is a corresponding psychological purgative effect involved in the release.

I would go so far as to say that it's not always the case that a man desires an orgasm purely for the physical reward at the precise moment of climax itself, especially for a man who does not manage his own cycle of arousal and release well. Perhaps the emerging psychological crisis is the body's way of sending a signal to the brain that the sperm in question is still viable and must be utilized before it begins to degrade in quality? Perhaps the body is indicating that it's time for the prostate to clear out irritating or harmful substances? At any rate, in some cases, the need to orgasm can be as much about the psychological relief that results afterward and the effects of the reduction of the aforementioned stressors. Ironically: a need to return to a neutral and restorative state before the body begins producing again, desire increases, and the cycle repeats.

There is also the dimension of emotional connection. It varies for individuals of both sexes, though, in my experiece, it usually seems to be a bigger factor for women than men.

 

[Erodicus]

I tell the partner on a regular basis I would like to trade equipment just for a day.

I wonder how many people have that fantasy. I certainly do.

 

[Evercuriousone]

I envy the rolling, continuous orgasms my wife is able to experience. Once she goes over the edge, she cums for almost a full minute, peak after peak. It is amazing to watch and I would love to experience that.

 

[EctoJohn]

Any women out there wanna swap bodies with me for an hour and experience an orgasm from the other side?

Also curious how it feels to be penetrated like that.
I know I could do anal, and I probably will at some point if I'm lucky,
but I'm willing to bet anal penetration is not the same sensations as vaginal.

 

[missswannie]

Depends, there are different ones. Some are short and sharp, others build up and then roll on forever, some are blockbusters and your brain gives in.
I tried to describe it to guys before and the best one that I got relation to was kind of when you have to sneeze but can't. The tingles build up and up and then eventually you sneeze. Singularly, multiple times, or massively. Sometimes that sneeze is it, sometimes there is another one coming and you know you are not finished yet.
Different as well depending on area. Clit direct, or clit through your hood. Flat hand pressure to the whole area, or a fellow just running along your lips. Urethra area, G-spot interior wall (my favourite), A-Spot (anterior fornix) way up deep inside. Anal ones from the opening or just inside and sensation of in and out. Anal when he or what ever you are using is rubbing deep on your a-spot or g-spot. Having something inside your vagina so that when he is in your anus it crams the vagina and pushes it into your g-spot and a-spot. Touch your clit then or nipples and you will get overwhelmed and lose it.
Hence we like all sorts of different positions to get what we are looking for.

I think men have a difference between ejaculating and truly orgasming at the same time. I've seen his eyes roll back and know that he is going big time, and I've also seen him just smile and give me a mouthful.

 

[sensualhub]

Depends, there are different ones. Some are short and sharp, others build up and then roll on forever, some are blockbusters and your brain gives in.
I tried to describe it to guys before and the best one that I got relation to was kind of when you have to sneeze but can't. The tingles build up and up and then eventually you sneeze. Singularly, multiple times, or massively. Sometimes that sneeze is it, sometimes there is another one coming and you know you are not finished yet.
Different as well depending on area. Clit direct, or clit through your hood. Flat hand pressure to the whole area, or a fellow just running along your lips. Urethra area, G-spot interior wall (my favourite), A-Spot (anterior fornix) way up deep inside. Anal ones from the opening or just inside and sensation of in and out. Anal when he or what ever you are using is rubbing deep on your a-spot or g-spot. Having something inside your vagina so that when he is in your anus it crams the vagina and pushes it into your g-spot and a-spot. Touch your clit then or nipples and you will get overwhelmed and lose it.
Hence we like all sorts of different positions to get what we are looking for.

I think men have a difference between ejaculating and truly orgasming at the same time. I've seen his eyes roll back and know that he is going big time, and I've also seen him just smile and give me a mouthful.

Misssawnnie reading ur comments do make me wish i could experience the different ways a woman can orgasm and especially multiple orgasms. But you are right about men having different kinds of orgasms too. To me my orhasm differs in intensity and location depending on numerous factors. When i ejaculate heavily it is very intense feeling mostly just in my cock bit that can also differ depending on the level of arousal too. If its just a quick masturbation it still feels great but not as good as if it was a slow build up of lust n desire. Then if im edging for a ling time my orgasm is still intense but the feeling spreads around my body and lssts longer and i can cum again relatively quicker than if it was a blasting orgasm. Petsonally for.me the journey is bettwr than the destination in the majority of cases

 

[lovekirra25]

Any women out there wanna swap bodies with me for an hour and experience an orgasm from the other side?

Also curious how it feels to be penetrated like that.
I know I could do anal, and I probably will at some point if I'm lucky,
but I'm willing to bet anal penetration is not the same sensations as vaginal.

I volunteer!

 

[EctoJohn]

I volunteer!

Good, meet me at the mad scientist's lab where we can stand in opposing transportation machines.

Hopefully it just swaps our minds and doesn't turn us into some strange horrible male/female combo mutation ala The Fly.

 

[HoldYouDown]

The truth is I used to wonder, but not any more. I have discussed it with a lot of men and have come to the conclusion that the male orgasm is one-dimensional, centered around the genitals, compared to the female one which motivates the whole body. However, if there was a way, I would like to experience once what men call "emptying" during their ejaculation.

Not true for me at all. I definitely feel it in my whole body, head to toes. It's a fantastic, euphoric feeling. The better the orgasm, the less I feel it in the genitals.

As for the female orgasm, I've never really been curious. There's no way to know what it feels like so I guess that's why.

 

[Porkwarrior]

The main difference that women don't/can't understand is that men are cum factories. 24 /7 making cum, and needing to evacuate that cum.

One way or the other.

 

[gregor2001us]

The truth is I used to wonder, but not any more. I have discussed it with a lot of men and have come to the conclusion that the male orgasm is one-dimensional, centered around the genitals, compared to the female one which motivates the whole body. However, if there was a way, I would like to experience once what men call "emptying" during their ejaculation.

That is the way my wife and I thought it was as well, indeed, it was true for me. That was when I was circumcised.

Then I restored my foreskin. As I did that, my orgasms started seeming more and more like the way my wife's orgasms were, they changed to what you might call "whole body" orgasms. At this point, we have both concluded that male and female orgasms are very similar, at least form the outside, unless the foreskin has been amputated. At least that is how it has worked for me.

 

[Nidan]

Most people have covered it. From a male perspective, orgasms are MOSTLY "one dimensional". Sure, edging or not having cum for a while or similar can have an effect. But generally that is that.

I've got tried coming from my prostate being stimulated and zi expect that is different.

But women seem to get the good end of the deal on orgasms. Clitoral, vagjnal, g-spot, multiple.... Etc... Etc.

I'd LOVE to try it.

 

[Earthly1]

I have often wondered what sex feels like from a woman's perspective, I often watch porn in a womans frame of mind and perspective. My "Taboo question" thread kind of explores this subject in a way.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

I tried to describe it to guys before and the best one that I got relation to was kind of when you have to sneeze but can't. The tingles build up and up and then eventually you sneeze. Singularly, multiple times, or massively. Sometimes that sneeze is it, sometimes there is another one coming and you know you are not finished yet.

The best way I can describe is that its like I'm filling up with a warm, gooey liquid, like hot caramel. It's like it's spreading out from my center--not my pussy per se, but somewhere deep in the bowl of my pelvis. It's a full body tingle running from the roots of my hair to the tips of my fingers and down to my toes, but as I get fuller and fuller the liquid starts to spill out and each time it sloshes out I get a little full-body jolt of pleasure. And the closer I get to having a full orgasm the less stimulation it takes for the liquid to overflow, until finally something pushes me completely over the edge and it spills everywhere and my whole body is engulfed in this convulsion of shimmering warmth. But its not like I'm "emptying" when this happens (its interesting that that's how guys experience cumming). I'm OVERFLOWING which means afterwards I'm still mostly full of hot caramel and the little sloshes/spikes of pleasure can keep coming. And when I'm in the almost-overflowing state, a lot of things can potentially tip me over. It's not just a genital thing. It can be a touch on my wrist or even my partner saying just the right words. And different triggers shape how the overflowing unfolds, whether its bright and sharp and convulsive, or low rolling waves of pleasure, or little dancing sparks running up and down my arms and legs ... .

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I wonder all the time. I am not sure if I get the female feeling but my Partner says I sound like a young female having multiple organism when she rubes me in the same manner as girls rub for a climax. She can make me cum over and over and yet I do not ejaculate. until she actually takes my thing in hand and rubes it like a mans cock. I am addicted to girl climaxes.