Cuckolds and Hotwife Hubbies - How quickly did she do it?

[screwher]

When I first started dating my now wife she had just gotten out of a terrible relationship. She was younger and inexperienced so she was understandably apprehensive about our relationship early on. So it took us a month before we finally had sex. Throughout our marriage, my sexy hotwifey has had sex with four other men. Both in cheating and hotwife lifestyle situations. With all four it took less than that after meeting them before she spread her legs for them.

So I'm curious now. For all the guys here in hotwife or open relationships, I'd love to hear some examples of how much time had past between your wife meeting another man and when she got naked with him. For the husbands that were cheated on, it might be more difficult so to the best of your knowledge.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Mine wanted and needed sex with other men quicker than she let me have sex with her. Women seem to know who they really want to fuck and do it much quicker than some men.

 

[Justfantasies]

In the case of both my wives it was a few years before they strayed — at least as far as I know

But when they finally strayed, they strayed a lot

 

[screwher]

Guy #1

Allow me to contribute here now. The first guy that fucked my wife during our marriage she only knew him for a few weeks (plus a few days, maybe). She started working in a coffee shop. He was a regular customer. An attraction between them quickly built. He was married too. So he took my wife to a hotel to fuck her!

 

[Samsacks]

I would love a totally open relationship. I'd be thrilled to hear about her adventures. We could play together or separately with either sex. I'd want to see pics and videos.

The only thing is that it would all be "sport" sex. The love part would be reserved for us.

 

[SissySalina]

When I first started dating my now wife she had just gotten out of a terrible relationship. She was younger and inexperienced so she was understandably apprehensive about our relationship early on. So it took us a month before we finally had sex. Throughout our marriage, my sexy hotwifey has had sex with four other men. Both in cheating and hotwife lifestyle situations. With all four it took less than that after meeting them before she spread her legs for them.

So I'm curious now. For all the guys here in hotwife or open relationships, I'd love to hear some examples of how much time had past between your wife meeting another man and when she got naked with him. For the husbands that were cheated on, it might be more difficult so to the best of your knowledge.

sissy knows of 13 men She has been with and the time from meeting to having sex varies from 30 minutes to 3 weeks. Six of the men She has shared or given sissy to them.
After 5 years of marriage sissy gave Her approval to see men but She did not act on it at that time. It was not until sissy became an "official" sissy that She took men.
Will also state that She has been with at least 8 women during That time.

 

[SlutAddicted]

quickly

I would say that my wife has always ben very decisive. If she knows she wants a guy she acts on it almost immediately or at least as soon as she sees clear signals that he is receptive and that there are no obvious danger signs. When I first met her people thought she was easy. That isn't quite true in the sense that she if she didn't find a guy appealing she wouldn't fuck him. But it is true in the sense that she didn't really attach anymore conditions than her own desire - she didn't care what others thought and there was no standard waiting period.

When I first met her she was dating a couple guys I knew and fucking them both. The first time we went out she gave me a BJ and the second time we fucked. Nevertheless her otters does got more and more raunchy sex - that was just the way she saw them versus me.

When she first stepped out on me it was cheating. She knew the guy already but she fucked him on their first real intimate encounter. Since then it has varied from first time to within two weeks. If she hasn't fucked guy by then it probably means she isn't interested.

So I guess you could say she has always been a slut.

 

[ReadyOne]

Slowly, Slowly, and Probably both.

The general pattern for my SOs was to first talk about a guy that caught her attention, perhaps she's had her eye on him for years. She wasn't willing to act because (most often) they were married or in a relationship.

Then we'd pillow talk about what made them attractive, what she'd like to do, what she would have done if they had been previously available, would they be willing, etc.

Finally they accepted they had permission. In one case I even said, "You've talked about him so much, I'll pay for the hotel room!"

Several times after approaching a lover, I'd have to take the guy out for a drink and let them know all would be well on our side. One guy I even gave a sample pack of Cialis plus a sample pack of Viagra!

Most often it was an affair lasting several months. One was once every 3 or 4 months over a couple of years. One was "same time next year".

They could go away for a weekend. Longer distance, she'd travel an hour or two the where he lived.

Local people would have me gone for the evening. Or if I was traveling, she would have him over a couple of nights (for the whole night). Sometimes times they get a hotel room. A couple just used his apartment.

Occasionally, I'd join in. I'd leave the house for some event and she'd have him over. Knowing when I was expected back, they'd be waiting for me.

One in particular was a good acquaintance. They'd get a room and meet in the late afternoon. Fuck, dinner, fuck, then I'd join them in the room for another round, he'd be home before midnight, and I'd stay with her until checkout.


Just one of my SO's was "don't ask, don't tell". She was the one who told me she'd picked up a STD and needed treatment. I'm also not 100% sure she didn't have an abortion without telling me.

I felt she was too stingy sharing information, and we broke up a couple of time at her request, only to get back together. Sometimes when we traveled, she'd openly look up former lovers. Stayed with one and his wife; I was awake while did him in the living room at 1AM.

OTOH she also organized a couple of 3-ways with/for me, telling me when and where to be.

 

[magicalmoments]

My ex wife met all her lovers through one of the old swingers contact magazines. She would place an advert, she'd get heaps of letters in response she'd pick the ones that appealed to her, which was maybe 5% of them. She'd expect to exchange maybe 3 letters with a guy before agreeing to meet. The first meeting was platonic, over a meal or a drink, and then if they met her standard a second meeting was set up where she'd fuck them.

Her first encounter was a MFM with me and took several months to set up, he was married and it took a while for him to work an opportunity to see us on his own.

This was her pattern through some 18 years that we were together.

 

[switchersm]

cucked

It took 14 and a half years. And I watched from the first fuck and ate her out afterwards. We are married 15 years, me kept chaste 24/7 with cock cage nearly eight years.

 

[screwher]

I would say that my wife has always ben very decisive. If she knows she wants a guy she acts on it almost immediately or at least as soon as she sees clear signals that he is receptive and that there are no obvious danger signs. When I first met her people thought she was easy. That isn't quite true in the sense that she if she didn't find a guy appealing she wouldn't fuck him. But it is true in the sense that she didn't really attach anymore conditions than her own desire - she didn't care what others thought and there was no standard waiting period.

When I first met her she was dating a couple guys I knew and fucking them both. The first time we went out she gave me a BJ and the second time we fucked. Nevertheless her otters does got more and more raunchy sex - that was just the way she saw them versus me.

When she first stepped out on me it was cheating. She knew the guy already but she fucked him on their first real intimate encounter. Since then it has varied from first time to within two weeks. If she hasn't fucked guy by then it probably means she isn't interested.

So I guess you could say she has always been a slut.

That's fantastic! She knows what she wants and she goes after it. Why wait and deny yourself.

 

[screwher]

The general pattern for my SOs was to first talk about a guy that caught her attention, perhaps she's had her eye on him for years. She wasn't willing to act because (most often) they were married or in a relationship.

Then we'd pillow talk about what made them attractive, what she'd like to do, what she would have done if they had be previously available, would they be willing, etc.

Finally they accepted they had permission. In one case I even said, "You've talked about him so much, I'll pay for the hotel room!"

Several times after approaching a lover, I'd have to take the guy out for a drink and let them know all would be well on our side. One guy I even gave a sample pack of Cialis plus a sample pack of Viagra!

Most often it was an affair lasting several months. One was once every 3 or 4 months over a couple of years. One was "same time next year".

They could go away for a weekend. Longer distance, she'd travel an hour or two the where he lived.

Local people would have me gone for the evening. Or if I was traveling, she would have him over a couple of nights (for the whole night). Sometimes times they get a hotel room. A couple just used his apartment.

Occasionally, I'd join in. I'd leave the house for some event and she'd have him over. Knowing when I was expected back, they'd be waiting for me.

One in particular was a good acquaintance. They'd get a room and meet in the late after noon. Fuck, dinner, fuck, then I'd join them in the room for another round, he'd be home before midnight, and I'd stay with her until checkout.


Just one of my SO's was "don't ask, don't tell". She was the one who told me she'd picked up a STD and needed treatment. I'm also not 100% sure she didn't have an abortion without telling me.

I felt she was too stingy sharing information, and we broke up a couple of time at her request, only to get back together. Sometimes when we traveled, she'd openly look up former lovers. Stayed with one and his wife; I was awake while did him in the living room at 1AM.

OTOH she also organized a couple of 3-ways with/for me, telling me when and where to be.

Wow! This is quite the hotwife life fe you've got going. I'm so green.

Once we start having men over to our place, I'm sure we'd have a similar set up. After socializing a bit, I'd step out. Or find a reason to adjourn downstairs. That would be the cue for them to up to the bedroom. Of course, hotel sex is always amazing. And I think it would be kind of hot if I actually paid for the room!!

 

[screwher]

My wife's second tryst with another man happen while she was on vacation visiting family on the east coast. There she met Jeff, a friend of her sisters husband. Within 48 hours of meeting , Jeff had my wife naked in his bed. On her subsequent visits she hooked back up with him. And with each it was less and less time between meeting up and getting his cock in her pussy!

 

[Erotic69er]

We stared sharing very early on.

I met my wife who is a good few years younger than me towards the end of my university course.
I was staying in digs with an older couple who I slept with and who often hosted wife swapping parties. They always encouraged me to bring girlfriends back in the hope that they could get her to join us for a foursome.
We fucked in the car park and she stayed the night. We fucked most of the night and Sheila made us breakfast. Although still in her late teens my wife to be was very experienced sexually and Sheila and her hit it off right away.
Within a week they had started a lesbian relationship and soon we were enjoying 3sum and 4sum fun.
Sex and sharing one another really turned us on. We join Sheila and Andrews parties and she often enjoyed all the guys (usually there were between 5 and 7 couple there). Being younger we were both very popular.
Throughout our marriage we had sex with whoever we took a fancy too. She would often bring guys back for the night. We were never jealous. It greaty enhanced our libido and sex life.

 

[mikendel]

From the time I brought up the fantasy of wanting to watch her with another man until it happened was about 2 years. So role-play and her dressing sexy in front of friends in between.

 

[gtnlynn]

I don't know the exact time frame, but the men had been flirting with her for weeks as they called on her office as sales reps. In both cases, she agreed to meet them at a convention in another city and had sex with them there. It was a one-time event with both men.

 

[screwher]

I don't know the exact time frame, but the men had been flirting with her for weeks as they called on her office as sales reps. In both cases, she agreed to meet them at a convention in another city and had sex with them there. It was a one-time event with both men.

I got to say that's fuckin hot! I love the idea of fun on business trips. Wether it's your wife's scenario, travelling co workers, or, the most exciting one, a strange man in the hotel lounge. I wish my wife's career took her out of town from tim to time. I know that would give her plenty of opportunity for some hotel fun.

 

[screwher]

Guy #3

The third guy that fucked my wife was her first lover in our new hotwife lifestyle. She mentioned this newish guy at work in a different dept. It was soon obvious that she was getting hot for him. I want to say it was around two weeks from her first mentioning Roger that she spent the night at his place. It was the start of their sexual relationship.

 

[screwher]

The third guy that fucked my wife was her first lover in our new hotwife lifestyle. She mentioned this newish guy at work in a different dept. It was soon obvious that she was getting hot for him. I want to say it was around two weeks from her first mentioning Roger that she spent the night at his place. It was the start of their sexual relationship.

My wife recently reconnected with this guy. After speaking with him for the first time in too long a time, it took only about six days before he had her back naked in his bed!

 

[Justfantasies]

My wife recently reconnected with this guy. After speaking with him for the first time in too long a time, it took only about six days before he had her back naked in his bed!

With my first wife, we were exclusive for about five years (at least I think we were). But after that my wife wanted to see other men and I had no real objection. She fucked a lot of guys after that.

 

[screwher]

With my first wife, we were exclusive for about five years (at least I think we were). But after that my wife wanted to see other men and I had no real objection. She fucked a lot of guys after that.

Mrs.Screwher and I were together much longer before she started showing signs she was getting sexually restless and starting to desire other men. She hasn't fucked a lot of guys since then. But I'm hoping the numbers go up soon.

 

[Justfantasies]

Mrs.Screwher and I were together much longer before she started showing signs she was getting sexually restless and starting to desire other men. She hasn't fucked a lot of guys since then. But I'm hoping the numbers go up soon.

My first wife was always sexually adventurous although she didn't let me in on that secret when we married. I think she simply couldn't stand being monogamous anymore. Or perhaps I was a bad lover.

 

[betamale30]

The first time I know for sure girlfriend cheated was 4 years into our relationship.. there were times before that I was suspicious but never had proof. With the guy I know she cheated with she hooked up rather quickly with him.. She had met him while out at bar with her cousin on a saturday night.. they exchanged #s and over following week spoke through text, the following Friday was their first date.. they went out for drinks & eventually took her back to his apartment.. She sucked his dick on that very first date (I suspect they prob fucked that night too but she swears only oral). So for my gf It took 6 days from meeting this complete stranger to when she was taking his cock, conpared to the month & 1/2 It took me of dating her to get her to hook up.

 

[michael40]

Until she tried

It took her a few months of chatting with him and sharing texts and daily emails. She told me that the conversations had turned sexual and if it bothered me that another guy found her attractive. Of course I loved hearing that, so I asked her if she found him attractive (which she did)— so a few months later they got together.

 

[screwher]

The first time I know for sure girlfriend cheated was 4 years into our relationship.. there were times before that I was suspicious but never had proof. With the guy I know she cheated with she hooked up rather quickly with him.. She had met him while out at bar with her cousin on a saturday night.. they exchanged #s and over following week spoke through text, the following Friday was their first date.. they went out for drinks & eventually took her back to his apartment.. She sucked his dick on that very first date (I suspect they prob fucked that night too but she swears only oral). So for my gf It took 6 days from meeting this complete stranger to when she was taking his cock, conpared to the month & 1/2 It took me of dating her to get her to hook up.

Your situation is very similiar to mine the first time my wife stepped out on me. It had only been a handful of years into our relationship too. Mrs. Screwher had only known him a few weeks. Our wives were X years older with more life experience. A better idea of what they want. And more confidence. So it's no surprise these guys got into their panties much quicker.