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[itsnotacombover]

Im an almost 60 yr old widower. And have been celebite for almost twenty years. Now that its out there! Here in lies my dilemma. I thought porn and a good supply of petroleum jelly would get me to the ..I quit zone. It seems the older I get the hornier I get. So heres the rub ..ba dump bump.. Where can a man my age find companionship? Ive worked hard my whole life and yet Im not within the sugar daddy zone.( Besides that. Is it really the best forum to compliment a family member? ) The whole Daddy gig! No I just want someone who understands that I need companionship not a casting interview.Oh well its out there lets see what happens next.

 

[Jada59]

Im an almost 60 yr old widower. And have been celebite for almost twenty years. Now that its out there! Here in lies my dilemma. I thought porn and a good supply of petroleum jelly would get me to the ..I quit zone. It seems the older I get the hornier I get. So heres the rub ..ba dump bump.. Where can a man my age find companionship? Ive worked hard my whole life and yet Im not within the sugar daddy zone.( Besides that. Is it really the best forum to compliment a family member? ) The whole Daddy gig! No I just want someone who understands that I need companionship not a casting interview.Oh well its out there lets see what happens next.

I'm about your age, but I'm a female. I find guys in all sorts of places but the ones who are interested in me are generally younger, as in much younger. I also get hornier as I get older. Weird, huh?

Do you have any hobbies? If so you could try joining a club or going to community events. or volunteering your time. You might even try looking into your local senior center. I realize you're not technically a senior but some places are 55 or 60 and older. My mom moved to a 55 and up apartment complex and found a BF right away.

Or you could check here to see if there are any women in your area!

 

[nfrrdscnnr1]

kids!

Just a note for your two kids from an OLD timer. LOL The need doesn't go away so get after it. Don't have much advice except to socialize wherever you are.

 

[Bottomlover]

I'm about your age, but I'm a female. I find guys in all sorts of places but the ones who are interested in me are generally younger, as in much younger. I also get hornier as I get older. Weird, huh?

Do you have any hobbies? If so you could try joining a club or going to community events. or volunteering your time. You might even try looking into your local senior center. I realize you're not technically a senior but some places are 55 or 60 and older. My mom moved to a 55 and up apartment complex and found a BF right away.

Or you could check here to see if there are any women in your area!

I'm just a tad older, and hobbies have worked out for me for a long time. I've also met some great people taking inexpensive adult night classes in cooking, sailing, or whatever interests you. Many years ago, I met my SO scuba diving and we've been together for 18 years. Before I met her, I met several high quality people with whom I am still good friends at adult night classes in things I am interested in.

Get out and meet real people in real life.

 

[yukonnights]

Just to add to the suggestions for getting out and having a chance to meet someone; Depending on where you live (metro, rural, etc), you might look up MeetUp. If you don't already know, it's place where people of similar interests, hobbies and such can find local groups who get together to talk about, study or otherwise pursue their interests.

 

[DrOliver]

Im an almost 60 yr old widower. And have been celebite for almost twenty years. Now that its out there! Here in lies my dilemma. I thought porn and a good supply of petroleum jelly would get me to the ..I quit zone. It seems the older I get the hornier I get. So heres the rub ..ba dump bump.. Where can a man my age find companionship? Ive worked hard my whole life and yet Im not within the sugar daddy zone.( Besides that. Is it really the best forum to compliment a family member? ) The whole Daddy gig! No I just want someone who understands that I need companionship not a casting interview.Oh well its out there lets see what happens next.

I've read all the responses (thus far) and I agree with every person who has posted.

On a side note - please do yourself a favor and drop the petroleum jelly. It's very hard to fully clean-off and if not properly removed may become a parking spot for some nasty things. Look for a water based lube.

Stay healthy and I hope you find that special person very soon!

 

[CuriousDemo]

I really wish you luck.

 

[whistler1]

I can relate. I'm 60, alone and also find my thoughts turning to sex more and more.

I am very introverted, which keeps me from socializing. Because of that, I don't have the greatest social skills.

I have read the suggestions people have left you and find them potentially helpful. If I can conjure up the nerve, I may try some of them.

As another commenter noted, stay away from the petroleum jelly. It is incredibly messy and sticky. I have found that mineral oil (baby oil) works much better - and you can buy a bottle at the dollar store...