MEN audio/video please

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I'm a long time lurker, but I now have something useful...I suppose.

I've only been with my husband. Shocking, isn't it? I've never talked to other men about what they want and need. I'm curious, what do men want? What would they say if asked and they could be honest without fear?

I thought if there was any place on the planet that could help, it would be Lit. I did a bunch of Googley searches and found Cosmo crap and other stupid stuff. I've also read mountains of info here. It's not the same as hearing the human voice and sensing the passion or honesty.

Does anyone know of audio or video links to men talking candidly about their sexual desires and experiences?

I appreciate your help.

EDIT: ...if anyone would be interested in recording their own desires and sending, I'd love that too!! But, I know that is a huge ask! It is by no means a central focus.

 

[ChibiFangirl]

There is literally a section on Literotica called text with audio. You can even find by tags. (i.e: male audio)

 

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There is literally a section on Literotica called text with audio. You can even find by tags. (i.e: male audio)

Thank you for the input. That section is literally listed this way:
"Audio Stories - Erotic audio fiction you have to hear..."

I'm sorry I wasn't clear before. I'm not interested in erotic fiction (well...I am...but not in this sense). I was trying to describe 'candid audio'...conversational audio (or video) of men talking about what they want. It is quite different from erotic fantasy.

Erotic fiction usually/easily gets blown out of proportion and can be radically different from a person's actual desires. There is nothing wrong with it (I love it really!). That said, it can be very much like looking at magazine covers at the supermarket and assuming every woman should look that way (and think that way).

I hope you find that more helpful! Thanks!

 

[CLE4fun]

what men want

Does it have to be audio/video? You could probably find more responses with direct chat, question/answer sessions with individuals or post a specific question to the group and let as many answer as wish to weigh in. Ie the post about what do men want in a bj.

Feel free to pm me if you want to ask specific questions, happy to answer

 

[Entralled]

Does it have to be audio/video? You could probably find more responses with direct chat, question/answer sessions with individuals or post a specific question to the group and let as many answer as wish to weigh in. Ie the post about what do men want in a bj.

Feel free to pm me if you want to ask specific questions, happy to answer

Thank you very much for the input! Your offer is very kind!! I read what people write here, it definitely leads me down the rabbit hole, and I enjoy it! But, that is very different from the appeal of listening to someone talk about what they want. It is also different from getting a tiny sliver of a cross-section of someone's mind (i.e. 'how do you want me to suck your cock?').

I suppose most ladies go through this with their boyfriends/partners as they grow up. I didn't have that experience. I didn't get to hear people fumble through describing their wants and needs, nor did I get to be the recipient of sophomoric gropping or get to be a backseat practice doll.

My husband and I have a wickedly wonderful sex life. He could walk me naked through a state park on a leash, if I thought that would blow his mind. I'm certain I could walk him through a park on a leash, but I like my man strong and dominant, so I won't (I'm not saying other people have to be strong and dominant! I just like that mine is...). Our time together is frequent and amazing!

But, fortunately or unfortunately, I'm like a cat with an insatiable curiosity! Put another way, if an anonymous stranger were to press against me every morning on the train to work, lift my skirt, fuck me in rhythm to the bumps and shifts of the crowd then leave me with cum running down my leg, I don't think I could say: "no, please don't!"

With certainty, unfortunately, this would NOT be the best course of action I could take. So, as a small conciliation, I'm looking for the anonymous intimacy of hearing someone speak honestly about their needs and wants. I don't care about prose or imagination, the stories here are full of that (and it's lovely in its place). I want to hear the passion or frustration, the need or longing, the bragging or insecurity...all in a raw, unvarnished form.

Does anyone else find this compelling?
Does anyone else love to hear what's in the mind of someone else?

 

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anyone?

 

[Imperfect_Guy]

Candid conversation

I think you'd do better by talking directly with different guys on Skype or some other platform. You can remain anonymous while at the same time have a candid conversation with guys about needs, wants, desires. Feel free to pm me if you like.

 

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I think you'd do better by talking directly with different guys on Skype or some other platform. You can remain anonymous while at the same time have a candid conversation with guys about needs, wants, desires. Feel free to pm me if you like.

I appreciate your suggestion! Unfortunately, there are too many reasons why this isn't appropriate for me. But thank you!

 

[Entralled]

Thank you, you wonderful few who have contacted me! You're too kind!

Would anyone else be interested in helping?

 

[Experimemt626q]

Thank you, you wonderful few who have contacted me! You're too kind!

Would anyone else be interested in helping?

There is a documentary on HBO called "In The Bedroom" or something like that. It interviews couples of all ages getting some details on their individual sexual preferences. It may have some of what you are looking for.. it is still on my to watch list.

 

[Entralled]

There is a documentary on HBO called "In The Bedroom" or something like that. It interviews couples of all ages getting some details on their individual sexual preferences. It may have some of what you are looking for.. it is still on my to watch list.

Great! Thank you. I'll look for it.

 

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Is anyone interested in helping?

 

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anyone up to try?

 

[YoYoMa1]

I’m up to try. It’s different and out of my norm but I’d do it if I got a response.

 

[just4friends]

I’m up to try. It’s different and out of my norm but I’d do it if I got a response.

You will always get a response at Lit!

Ask away!i will answer candidly

 

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Anyone willing to help?

 

[Entralled]

If I've sent you a file and you like what you received, please post a kind response!

 

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hello!

 

[longhornfan]

Hi sweety! I have been married to the same woman for 38 years and we have a good sex life. We have tried many things and over time we have found things we enjoy and things we don't. But overall, what is most important is just being able to communicate.

 

[longhornfan]

However, we all have our sexual fantasies. Some we talk about and others remain hidden. My unspoken fantasy is a mmf three way where he gets both of us and my wife enjoys watching him screw me.

 

[longhornfan]

We have played with dildos and pegging some, but my wife doesn't like to peg me. Dang shame, that...

 

[Entralled]

Hi sweety! I have been married to the same woman for 38 years and we have a good sex life. We have tried many things and over time we have found things we enjoy and things we don't. But overall, what is most important is just being able to communicate.

Absolutely! There is nothing like having someone you can talk to...it surpasses most things.

 

[Entralled]

We have played with dildos and pegging some, but my wife doesn't like to peg me. Dang shame, that...

That sucks! Give her a reason: waste some money or get too drunk on her birthday. Then, tell her she should punish your ass to teach you to do better next time!

 

[Entralled]

However, we all have our sexual fantasies. Some we talk about and others remain hidden. My unspoken fantasy is a mmf three way where he gets both of us and my wife enjoys watching him screw me.

Want to record some of your hidden stuff and send it to me?