What's something you've always wanted to ask the opposite gender?

[Wild_Honey_66]

Don't forget the cutoffs and Docs. Hikers or work boots are acceptable substitutes.

Cutoffs and boots are not a flattering look on me. I'm more about the sundresses and sandals.

 

[lurkingguy1978]

What does a one night stand mean for you? Just a night to let go and release, you may find something particularly about that person that you you may like to develop later or more than random but not too close for comfort?

At what point does it stop being a one night stand?

For me, in my limited experience with that topic, a one-night stand is a release. A momentary connection, two people finding a short spark to let go of the world.

If it evolves into continued communication or a second (or first!) date....then you're out of that territory for me.

In my life, it's been more the finding of something less than random as the exception rather than the rule.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Cutoffs and boots are not a flattering look on me. I'm more about the sundresses and sandals.

...and THAT is playing up your assets.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

...and THAT is playing up your assets.

Thanks!

I think it's about what fits my sense of style, too. Cutoffs don't appeal to me for some reason. But i would totally do a cargo short, hikers, and a strappy tank.

Or a scooter! That was an inspired design.

 

[LostGirlTink]

Next time i get the urge to go on a dating site, I'm going to put that as my profile and see what happens.

'I can drive a stick.'

I can drive a stick.

LOL! Two of the women I have loved the most in this world drove pickups. One changed her own oil, and the other could replace a starter. Sexy as hell!

I can... I don’t. That’s what my mechanic is for. Or my brother. I can change a tire and spark plugs too but I pay for AAA so I don’t have to. Some things are worth it.

At what point does it stop being a one night stand?

When the take you to brunch or stay the weekend?

 

[Sexybritches69]

Why so you have to flip the tv channels so quickly when looking for something to watch? You’re gonna cause me to have a seizure. Hmmm...maybe I just answered my own question...;-)

 

[thefishfryer]

What does a one night stand mean for you? Just a night to let go and release, you may find something particularly about that person that you you may like to develop later or more than random but not too close for comfort?

At what point does it stop being a one night stand?

I have yet to experience one. I imagine it stops being a one night stand after the second night?

 

[tolyk]

I can drive a stick.

Yeah you can

 

[Interested_Girl]

At my age, I have concluded that the physical takes a back seat to personality. Yes, a woman must be attractive to get attention in the first place. But "attractive" is a fluid term. It's mostly about a woman taking advantage of what she has, play up her great legs, round butt, pretty face or nice boobs. Women in my circle of acquaintances who I find attractive at the moment include a petite Asian woman 30 years younger than me, a woman my age who could best be described as "ample" or perhaps "zaftig" with flaming red hair, a slightly younger brunette fitness enthusiast with a hard body, great legs and a love of four inch heels, and a younger blonde lesbian friend and co-worker who I could best describe as "outdoorsy".

What's more important is confidence, a sense of humour, intellegence and the ability to drive a stick (don't judge me; it's just one of those things, like cutoffs and Docs)

You have started a good conversation about "driving stick" in this thread.

Do you think that men really do change as they get older? That attraction does truly evolve? Because based on the comments I read on LIT ever day, I suspect not. That most (not all) do have some form of standard beauty or that this beauty takes precedence over a lot of other things.

I agree with this. Me and a girlfriend from my distant past have recently renewed an enjoyable conversation; we were talking last night. After that, I reflected on what I admire and enjoy about women.

Woke up this morning, read this post, and suddenly remembered, “Hey! I taught that girl to drive a stick!” It was sweet. Often, it’s just little details and shared experience that endear us to each other. Thanks!

So, what do you admire and enjoy about women?

 

[Interested_Girl]

What does a one night stand mean for you? Just a night to let go and release, you may find something particularly about that person that you you may like to develop later or more than random but not too close for comfort?

At what point does it stop being a one night stand?

Great Q. I have also wondered this myself. I had a one night stand for the first time a couple years ago. It was with someone younger. No regrets, but I think he just really needed to feel like a man. His girlfriend dumped him for a woman. And while he said he didn't care, he did. And I was in a weird place and it was one of those perfect storm situations. Never saw him again, never will. So, all in all, no question - one night stand

On the other hand, I met someone this summer (mentioned this in a couple threads now) and he was passing through...And we spent a week together on and off. And some nights we didn't have sex. Just went with the flow, but in all honesty, not that I have to categorize it, but I was like...Was that a one night stand that just happened to be a week long? I don't know. We met on a dating site. We met at a Spanish Meetup class for the date. Later that week we went to the art gallery. Then spent evenings cooking with each other, reading books and watching documentaries.

So, honestly? I don't know. Maybe it was, maybe it wasn't. Thoughts my lovely Lit People?

What are YOUR thoughts, BCC?

 

[AlwaysFara]

A one night stand is 2 night nights or more.
I did well at maths.

I’ve never had one.

 

[thefishfryer]

A one night stand is 2 night nights or more.
I did well at maths.

I’ve never had one.

I think you might be counting in binary?

 

[AlwaysFara]

I think you might be counting in binary?

I see what you did there.

 

[thefishfryer]

Great Q. I have also wondered this myself. I had a one night stand for the first time a couple years ago. It was with someone younger. No regrets, but I think he just really needed to feel like a man. His girlfriend dumped him for a woman. And while he said he didn't care, he did. And I was in a weird place and it was one of those perfect storm situations. Never saw him again, never will. So, all in all, no question - one night stand

On the other hand, I met someone this summer (mentioned this in a couple threads now) and he was passing through...And we spent a week together on and off. And some nights we didn't have sex. Just went with the flow, but in all honesty, not that I have to categorize it, but I was like...Was that a one night stand that just happened to be a week long? I don't know. We met on a dating site. We met at a Spanish Meetup class for the date. Later that week we went to the art gallery. Then spent evenings cooking with each other, reading books and watching documentaries.

So, honestly? I don't know. Maybe it was, maybe it wasn't. Thoughts my lovely Lit People?

What are YOUR thoughts, BCC?

I think I would describe it as a "fling" rather than a one night stand.

 

[thefishfryer]

I see what you did there.

It must have been deeper than I thought.

But have you seen my banana?

 

[AlwaysFara]

It must have been deeper than I thought.

But have you seen my banana?

As a matter of fact YES!!!
Thank you for posting that.

 

[Interested_Girl]

It must have been deeper than I thought.

But have you seen my banana?

Mmmm. Maybe. He still sends letters and post cards.

 

[thefishfryer]

As a matter of fact YES!!!
Thank you for posting that.

Lol Your link led me there.

 

[thefishfryer]

Mmmm. Maybe. He still sends letters and post cards.

There's a compliment in there somewhere. I hope?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Guys... Are you really that clueless?

 

[thefishfryer]

Guys... Are you really that clueless?

I am.

 

[base10]

Guys... Are you really that clueless?

Sometimes, sometimes we're not as interested as you are, and sometimes you ladies are just really hard to read.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Guys... Are you really that clueless?

They are. They look at the shiny things.
Look for Men, not Guys.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Sometimes, sometimes we're not as interested as you are, and sometimes you ladies are just really hard to read.

Ouch but fair.

 

[thefishfryer]

They are. They look at the shiny things.
Look for Men, not Guys.

I'm a men.