Girlfriend went away with her boss for weekend

[betamale30]

My girlfriend went away this weekend to Atlantic City to see kid rock concert with her boss.. I think its probably very likely they ended up hooking up, how do you think i can get her to open up about It more? I dont want her to shut down and keep secrets from me.

 

[WerdNerd]

My girlfriend went away this weekend to Atlantic City to see kid rock concert with her boss.. I think its probably very likely they ended up hooking up, how do you think i can get her to open up about It more? I dont want her to shut down and keep secrets from me.

The shame of know your girlfriend went to a Kid Rock concert is too great. Best to keep that to yourself.

 

[betamale30]

It go cancelled anyway, and she doesnt even know any of his songs.. She's not a fan

 

[fl350]

I bet something happened. do you know the boss? Im assuming its a guy.

wish my gf would do something like this

 

[betamale30]

I bet something happened. do you know the boss? Im assuming its a guy.

wish my gf would do something like this

Yes It is a guy, his name is George he's in his early 50's.. I dont know him personally where i could ask him what happened, but i have met him before.

 

[GTG123]

My girlfriend went away this weekend to Atlantic City to see kid rock concert with her boss.. I think its probably very likely they ended up hooking up, how do you think i can get her to open up about It more? I dont want her to shut down and keep secrets from me.

I take it from you're final sentence that you're not upset, rather want her to be open/share with you?

 

[betamale30]

I take it from you're final sentence that you're not upset, rather want her to be open/share with you?

Yea i know its probably not realistic but id definitely rather he be brutally honest with me about everything.

 

[GTG123]

Yea i know its probably not realistic but id definitely rather he be brutally honest with me about everything.

Would it upset her if you asked; would she think you were accusing?

Or simply defensive because she thinks she's done wrong?

 

[WerdNerd]

Would it turn you on for her to tell you how good her boss fucked her?

 

[betamale30]

Would it upset her if you asked; would she think you were accusing?

Or simply defensive because she thinks she's done wrong?

I feel like she would get defensive or maybe not want me to know because maybe shes ashamed of It because he's and older man etc.

 

[GTG123]

I feel like she would get defensive or maybe not want me to know because maybe shes ashamed of It because he's and older man etc.

It's so easy to give advice when it's not actually yourself who has to go through with it.

I'm getting the impression you want her to know it's okay with you - but maybe this isn't the right time to just blurt it out.

How about being patient this time, and moving forward; letting slip some subtle/casual hints that it "wouldn't bother you" if she had a "more open approach" to such opportunities.

 

[Justfantasies]

Most likely she would love to open up if she felt it wouldn't hurt you or that it might even excite you.

I've been in your situation myself

 

[runsilent]

Maybe you could broach it gently. Maybe a porn that shows a cuckold and see how she acts. Just guessing here.

 

[Justfantasies]

Maybe you could broach it gently. Maybe a porn that shows a cuckold and see how she acts. Just guessing here.

Not sure if a porn would really be that subtle lol

 

[runsilent]

Not sure if a porn would really be that subtle lol

True that but maybe if she likes to watch porn. So many unknowns.

 

[screwher]

I remember going down this very road with my wife. So my experience is telling me that your girlfriend had sex with this George guy. She's now afraid that a confession will ruin your relationship.

 

[SissySalina]

Maybe if you just talk to her. Tell her honestly how you feel about the relationship. Tell her that you would like to have an open relationship of trust and mutual respect. Most important tell her you are friends first.

 

[Justfantasies]

Maybe just accept the situation and soon your wife will start to bring you little gifts -- wet pussy and stained, sweaty clothes from the office

 

[Ramone45]

She fucked George, but so what? She pretty much had to, and she probably wanted to. The important thing is that she comes back to you.She was probably in the mood for a little adventure. Maybe a chance to be a little dirty; a bad girl for a couple of days. She probably has no feelings for George. Don't make too big a deal out of it. It will potentially make your relationship with her better, especially if you avoid acting like a jealous pussy.

 

[Bigspurt]

My girlfriend went away this weekend to Atlantic City to see kid rock concert with her boss.. I think its probably very likely they ended up hooking up, how do you think i can get her to open up about It more? I dont want her to shut down and keep secrets from me.

Ideally, check her panties if you can get to her laundry hamper. Not always a sure sign if their sex was the night before she put them on, but a quickie before their dinner date would result in some residual evidence!

 

[screwher]

I say wait awhile until she's reassured your relationship is still strong. Then tell her you suspect something happened with him but that you're good with it. And I get the feeling you want her to continue getting physical with other men. At the same time tell her that to. But more than likely she'll be suspicious of that thinking you want to use it to see other women.

In the meantime, run with this. Honestly I think this whole scenario is very hot! I'd want details too. Separate hotel rooms, one unused? Same room, separate beds? One unused? And of course details of the act itself.

 

[hotwifejill2015]

Ideally, check her panties if you can get to her laundry hamper. Not always a sure sign if their sex was the night before she put them on, but a quickie before their dinner date would result in some residual evidence!

I agree with you bigspurt, the panties tell no lies

 

[jaF0]

Maybe BossDude knows how to spell and type and she's attracted to that.

 

[Jerseyboy52]

My wife

Wife brought me her bosses load home just yesterday. Delicious!

 

[hpycpl]

normal conversation

Why not just have a normal conversation with her?

Ask her how was the room? would she like to go there again with you? was his room near yours? where did you go when you found out the concert was canceled? etc

I think you can see where I'm going with this.

She will probably trip herself up if there is something going on and give some conflicting answers. or.....

She may get real defensive and protest about being questioned.

If she does go defensive, that's your opportunity to let her know you really didn't think anything went on between them but if it did, you would be ok with it maybe even encourage it.

Let us know how this plays out, I know I would be interested!