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No judgements, just questions and answers.
Let's hear 'em!
Let's hear 'em!
What's something you've always wanted to ask the opposite gender?
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Those numbers sound about right
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AlwaysFara
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I just usually ask stuff when questions arise.
Tedfkats
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Ladies,
Ok.
This is a question based on a recent experience with a coworker. (doesn't involved me at all!!)
When a guy asks you for your number, does it ever occur to you, or is it front and center in your mind as a real fear, that the guy might be a total freak or psycho?
What determines whether you give it to him? Gut feeling?
Ok.
This is a question based on a recent experience with a coworker. (doesn't involved me at all!!)
When a guy asks you for your number, does it ever occur to you, or is it front and center in your mind as a real fear, that the guy might be a total freak or psycho?
What determines whether you give it to him? Gut feeling?
GiggLeGasm
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I assume that most of the general public has at least one psychological diagnosis. I'm just hoping it's one that I'm trained to navigate. As far as the number thing, it's pretty rare that I'd give my number to anyone based on a few moments. I tend to know someone enough to judge general demeanor.
insert international symbol for 'call me' here
cowslinger64
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mnbreastluver
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Ummm yeah, I don’t think a woman would answer my question out in an open forum. My questions would be quite personal.
Gracie13
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ABSOLUTELY a real fear. And I honestly don’t give it to them, regardless.
Wild_Honey_66
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I don't give my number out.
I take theirs, have my people do a little research first, then decide if i want to call.
KamaKamaSutra
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I'm big on experience so I've always wondered what sex feels like to the opposite gender.
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I have so many questions....probably based on recent scenarios.
Scenario: Guy in office stares at me everytime I walk through the door. With serious intensity. Even though we joke in the office all the time, I lightly puck on him and he seems to like it. Anyway, he feels the need to stare at me. Last week I finally said, why are you staring? He just kept doing it, not smiling seriously looked like he wanted to hurt me. Then I say to him, I guess you just enjoy looking at me. And then he laughed and we walked down to the cafeteria to grab a drink.
But he started doing this a week ago, and I'm a little concerned. Lol.
Scenario: Guy in office stares at me everytime I walk through the door. With serious intensity. Even though we joke in the office all the time, I lightly puck on him and he seems to like it. Anyway, he feels the need to stare at me. Last week I finally said, why are you staring? He just kept doing it, not smiling seriously looked like he wanted to hurt me. Then I say to him, I guess you just enjoy looking at me. And then he laughed and we walked down to the cafeteria to grab a drink.
But he started doing this a week ago, and I'm a little concerned. Lol.
KamaKamaSutra
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Probably harmless, is he the shy or off socially type? Or he thinks it's a sexy trick and you like it.
Wild_Honey_66
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I've wondered what receiving oral feels like for a man.
Tedfkats
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Sounds like he likes you, but has either 1) a lack of social skills 2) An over-exaggerated 'play it as a badass' syndrome or 3) Thoughts you probably don't want to know.
I would trust your instincts. Really trust them.
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That's....odd. Worth keeping an eye on, no pun intended....
I've had female friends my whole life. I've asked damned near everything under the sun.
KamaKamaSutra
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It's hard to explain, it's warm and cold simultaneously and can have alot of pressure from suction or none. It varies so wildly it's hard to pin down.
KamaKamaSutra
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I think it depends on their intentions. Some people want sexual asap some want to get to know you and tease a bit, then some just want friends.
I have the same question tho, had lots of unanswered PM's through the years.
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lurkingguy1978
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Completely indescribable. Similar to how explaining it in reverse would be, I would imagine. The words couldn't fully explain it in any meaningful way.
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Interested_Girl
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Not socially awkward at all. Really well liked. Attractive. Dating multiple women. I'd like to mention he is also an intern and I'm probably 6 to 7 years older than him.
I don't think he's attracted to me per se, he has his pick where we are and as mentioned above I'm older. But the staring thing has totally caught me off guard. Even when I have tried to make light of it, he doesn't stop. But I'm pretty straight forward, so if this week it continues, the young man and I will have a chat.
Yeah. I will
Thanks yall!
Wild_Honey_66
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Lit is like The Voice. Competition is fierce!
You gotta make a good impression and do it fast. Otherwise, you're out on your ass.
Figure out what you're good at, refine your approach, and give it all you've got.
Marketing, baby!
KamaKamaSutra
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He's probably trying to flirt, but definitely something to trust your gut on. I'm sure I've came off as a creep once or twice by accident.
KamaKamaSutra
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That was helpful, thanks.
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