Fisting....

[Shi_One81]

I was fisted (partially) for the first time last night by my bf who has giant hands. I found no pleasure in it, it hurt so bad and I couldn’t cry out because his daughter was in the next room. He used a ton of lube, but yeah big ouch.

Anyone else have experience with this?

 

[LauraWilling]

Yep, but a lot of time was taken and a lot of lube. It wasn't comfortable but not painful and I am a small person.

 

[stretch351]

I have fisted several ladies over the years, one of them, is very experienced and once inside her (always gently with lots of lube) and she is comfortable, liked it quite rough. Have had a number of encounters with her and it is always fun.

Another playmate that I had fun with last Christmas, loved to be fisted and ass fucked at the same time. Very wild ;-)

It may help that my hands are average sized.

 

[hex2112]

I used to fist my wife back in the day. Took awhile to get all the way in. Once in I would keep my hand still and move my fingers around. Drove her crazy. She came more this way than any other way.

 

[magudi]

I have fisted a few women but I am lucky in that I have small hands.

My best female friend, who is very slim, was quite an achievement even though she'd given birth twice. I wasn't always successful and she would groan and cry out but a few times, with plenty of lube, got to that wonderful point where the hand is finally forced in and slips through to the wrist. However I couldn't open my hand once inside, she would find it uncomfortable and scream.

Another divorced woman, who'd had four children, was the easiest to fist-fuck I have ever met. Not difficult to get inside and once it could fist her very forcefully without complaint. Mind you, I used to fuck her my with decent sized cock and a large dildo both in her pussy at the same time.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I've been curious about this, but haven't done any research aside from spontaneous attempts with a lover.

I'm not at all sure that childbirth has anything to do with a woman's ability to be fisted... ? I've given birth easily to eight medium-to-large sized babies, and yet the most I've been able to take is three average-sized fingers. *shrug*

 

[Joeknoxville]

I've been curious about this, but haven't done any research aside from spontaneous attempts with a lover.

I'm not at all sure that childbirth has anything to do with a woman's ability to be fisted... ? I've given birth easily to eight medium-to-large sized babies, and yet the most I've been able to take is three average-sized fingers. *shrug*

I would totally agree with you. My first wife birthed our three children naturally and not only could I not fist her, but at times just my cock was very uncomfortable for her. My second wife had her two children via C Section and, after some patience and a lot of lube initially, I got inside her and now she wants me to fist her almost every night, the rougher the better. Physically the two ladies are of similar stature and I don’t think my hands have changed in size much.

 

[magudi]

Not scientific but most of the women who have given birth I have had sex with were definitely wider than the others. Stretching does occur at childbirth, that much is unarguable. Whether some women then return to their normal state whilst others don't is of course another matter.

 

[filt]

I’m 6’6, as a result, I have massive hands. I wouldn’t put a human being through it

 

[LauraWilling]

I've been curious about this, but haven't done any research aside from spontaneous attempts with a lover.

I'm not at all sure that childbirth has anything to do with a woman's ability to be fisted... ? I've given birth easily to eight medium-to-large sized babies, and yet the most I've been able to take is three average-sized fingers. *shrug*

You very well might have answered this. I have had men's hand in me, and even though not painful, it did some time and work getting it in me. I felt very stretched out and I have never given birth. Not even pregnant. Maybe you answered why this was my experience.

 

[Joeknoxville]

You very well might have answered this. I have had men's hand in me, and even though not painful, it did some time and work getting it in me. I felt very stretched out and I have never given birth. Not even pregnant. Maybe you answered why this was my experience.

There is a sense of accomplishment once ones whole hand is comfortably all the way inside a wanton pussy. No pain to get there, that’s great! I think the psychological aspect in that “he (or she) has their hand all the way inside me and it feels wonderful” is so exciting.

 

[hadruprider]

I hope you made it clear that you hated it?

 

[DrOliver]

Patience. Slowly build up to it over time. Plenty of lube. Having or not having a child has zero to do with your ability to do this activity.

It's all about the slow stretching exercises for many weeks. You will NOT lose 'tightness' for normal intercourse if you keep up with your pelvic floor exercises (Kegel's). They make dilators that you can purchase if you'd like to explore this. But it's much cheaper to by the kong toys in various sizes at your local pet store. Be sure to wash them before and after each use.

Good luck!

 

[live4thebj]

I was fisted (partially) for the first time last night by my bf who has giant hands. I found no pleasure in it, it hurt so bad and I couldn’t cry out because his daughter was in the next room. He used a ton of lube, but yeah big ouch.

Anyone else have experience with this?

Yes. I went on a date with this woman which due to a few things including something she said I wanted the date to end. But she showed interest in coming to my place but just couldn't get it up for her because I just was so not into it. So instead I fisted her but wasn't my intention. I tend to work a woman to feel her limits and find her triggers. But with this one I just wanted to get it over with. I started with one finger, 2, 3, 4 and then my thumb and the next thing I know my whole hand was up in there: been told many times I have large hands.

When the night was over and finally got rid of her went back to my bed to find a giant wet spot. Damn girl squirted so bad I had to change the sheets before going to bed.

 

[bristolbabcock]

Fisting

Fisting isn’t for everyone, some of us are old fashioned and just want. Little intamacy.

 

[magudi]

I've been curious about this, but haven't done any research aside from spontaneous attempts with a lover.

I'm not at all sure that childbirth has anything to do with a woman's ability to be fisted... ? I've given birth easily to eight medium-to-large sized babies, and yet the most I've been able to take is three average-sized fingers. *shrug*

It does. Your exception does not give the lie to the rule that some of the stretching that occurs during childbirth makes it easier for the stretching to be repeated. That does not mean you cannot in theory fist a virgin but in practice you would struggle with most of them.

 

[occasional_lovers]

I was fisted (partially) for the first time last night by my bf who has giant hands. I found no pleasure in it, it hurt so bad and I couldn’t cry out because his daughter was in the next room. He used a ton of lube, but yeah big ouch.

Anyone else have experience with this?

My experience has been similar. Three different partners have tried to fist me (two of them at my request), and despite the fact that they were all gentle, patient, caring etc. and they used a lot of lube, it was always painful. I think not every woman's anatomy down there is fitting.

 

[Joeknoxville]

My experience has been similar. Three different partners have tried to fist me (two of them at my request), and despite the fact that they were all gentle, patient, caring etc. and they used a lot of lube, it was always painful. I think not every woman's anatomy down there is fitting.

Pain is a relative thing. Not trying to speak for others, but I think that if you ask to be fisted you expect to feel it. If not pain then at least a high level of discomfort. For some just being inside there isn’t enough, and they want you to be rough and pound away. If it feels good to you then why not?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Pain is a relative thing. Not trying to speak for others, but I think that if you ask to be fisted you expect to feel it. If not pain then at least a high level of discomfort. For some just being inside there isn’t enough, and they want you to be rough and pound away. If it feels good to you then why not?

Hm... interesting observation. That at least some women want to be fisted bc they desire the pain/discomfort. I'm not much of a masochist, so that possibility hadn't occurred to me.

I like the idea of feeling 'full,' but i don't want to have to give birth in reverse to get it.

 

[Zach_lost_in_Aus]

For what it’s worth... my experience is that if she’s sufficiently aroused (that is, very, very) then she may enjoy it... otherwise inevitably painful.

 

[JackOffer]

I have never understood fisting. To me it wouldn't be enjoyable for either person involved. I love having a big cock, or a big strap-on or dildo up my ass, and I love having my ass fingered, but I don't see how a persons hand all the way up my ass would be enjoyable.

 

[Zach_lost_in_Aus]

I have never understood fisting. To me it wouldn't be enjoyable for either person involved. I love having a big cock, or a big strap-on or dildo up my ass, and I love having my ass fingered, but I don't see how a persons hand all the way up my ass would be enjoyable.

Arse fisting would indeed be a wholly different question!

 

[Joeknoxville]

Ass fisting? No interest whatsoever.

 

[JackOffer]

I have never understood fisting. To me it wouldn't be enjoyable for either person involved. I love having a big cock, or a big strap-on or dildo up my ass, and I love having my ass fingered, but I don't see how a persons hand all the way up my ass would be enjoyable.

This is the fisting I was referring to.

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[Wild_Honey_66]

This is the fisting I was referring to.

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