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[Bry1313]

It’s interesting to see who is out there.

 

[HighPlainsDrifter]

I enjoy doing a bit of homework. But I confess those introductory messages are just awkward as hell. So much easier over a drink, face to face. In my opinion. I like to see facial expression, body language. etc.

 

[Image13]

Agreed more like interview

 

[rlaflamme]

Face to face works in a real world contact, but what abut here, in the cyberland, where meeting face to face has little chance of happening?

 

[rlaflamme]

People are from all over the world on this site, and you never know who you may meet, but, if you do know their location, does that sway your decision to try and have a conversation with them or not?

 

[Utmale48]

People are from all over the world on this site, and you never know who you may meet, but, if you do know their location, does that sway your decision to try and have a conversation with them or not?

It doesn’t for me but it can be tough to chat with someone in a very different time zone.

 

[rlaflamme]

It doesn’t for me but it can be tough to chat with someone in a very different time zone.

Time zones can make things difficult, but a connection can be made from anywhere. I wonder how many great connections never happen because of this though.

 

[AlliaPotestas]

Are dick pics a myth or real? Apparently you got them and I believe it. I'm wondering how many posters have gotten dic pics. Just say me too. Guys included.

#metoo

The worst part is they are almost never accompanied by any interesting dialogue... it’s pretty much a dick pic and a variation on:

“Luv your tits”

“Hot body”

“Do want to roleplay my mother/sister/niece/etc?” Short answer: no, longer answer: fucking no...

“Do you mind if I cum while looking at your tits?”

The last one is frankly quite polite because if I wank to an internet image, I certainly don’t ask permission...

In return, such unimaginative blokes get a short polite reply because I am hardwired to be polite but they will never get beyond that... like most people, my brain is my biggest sex organ, unsolicited dick pics don’t quite cut it...

 

[rlaflamme]

#metoo

The worst part is they are almost never accompanied by any interesting dialogue... it’s pretty much a dick pic and a variation on:

“Luv your tits”

“Hot body”

“Do want to roleplay my mother/sister/niece/etc?” Short answer: no, longer answer: fucking no...

“Do you mind if I cum while looking at your tits?”

The last one is frankly quite polite because if I wank to an internet image, I certainly don’t ask permission...

In return, such unimaginative blokes get a short polite reply because I am hardwired to be polite but they will never get beyond that... like most people, my brain is my biggest sex organ, unsolicited dick pics don’t quite cut it...

I guess I was raised differently, not going to be sending a dick pic...

How nice that you send a reply though, you must be temped to be rather brash.

 

[AlliaPotestas]

I guess I was raised differently, not going to be sending a dick pic...

How nice that you send a reply though, you must be temped to be rather brash.

Not really - I do try to give people the benefit of the doubt, I assume their approach must occasionally work for others so I tend to not be hard on folk for a misdemeanour like a dick pic, it just holds no interest to me.

I can be brash, it takes a lot to piss me off generally but when I am rubbed up the wrong way it can be all fucking cylinders which can be a surprise to those that consider me meek and mild

It can also be fun - pull-up a chair next time...

 

[jmarx20102012]

it can be all fucking cylinders

Sorry I admit to lurking and loving this line. Fucking stellar.

 

[rlaflamme]

Not really - I do try to give people the benefit of the doubt, I assume their approach must occasionally work for others so I tend to not be hard on folk for a misdemeanour like a dick pic, it just holds no interest to me.

I can be brash, it takes a lot to piss me off generally but when I am rubbed up the wrong way it can be all fucking cylinders which can be a surprise to those that consider me meek and mild

It can also be fun - pull-up a chair next time...

I think it is great that you are open about giving people a chance, you never know right?

I will have to grab a chair to sit with you

 

[rlaflamme]

Sorry I admit to lurking and loving this line. Fucking stellar.

Lurk away And it is a great line

 

[AlliaPotestas]

Sorry I admit to lurking and loving this line. Fucking stellar.

We’ve all been a lurker... xx

I think it is great that you are open about giving people a chance, you never know right?

I will have to grab a chair to sit with you

I didn’t say I give them a chance... I said I give them the benefit of the doubt and don’t tear them a new arsehole... they still get the polite acknowledgement, because life’s short you know, xx

 

[rlaflamme]

We’ve all been a lurker... xx



I didn’t say I give them a chance... I said I give them the benefit of the doubt and don’t tear them a new arsehole... they still get the polite acknowledgement, because life’s short you know, xx

True, my apologies, to many words in my head

 

[Libidneous1]

No Dick Pic from me!

Since this is my first post EVER, I was going to start off with a Bang and put up a picture of Richard Nixon but, unfortunately could not get the Dick pic to post.

I still have a lot learn!

 

[rlaflamme]

Since this is my first post EVER, I was going to start off with a Bang and put up a picture of Richard Nixon but, unfortunately could not get the Dick pic to post.

I still have a lot learn!

Well welcome to the boards! And sorry your couldn't post the pic you wanted to. I learn more every day though

 

[DDBustyBrit]

A lot of guys on this site only want photos or experiences to go into their wank banks (IME).
Once they have them, the messages decline and they move on to the next

Completely agree, I’ve been a story reader for years but only just made a profile and I am inundated daily with pm’s. Sorry but the ones that are just sexual and come without even a “hello and I’m” get deleted. Most of the others I always check the profile and look at their posts. The ones that I can tell have numerous chat buddies get deleted as I have no desire to just be another notch. But I reply to most of only say I’m not available out of respect for them reaching out initially.

If they interest me enough to go to Kik, I generally take the time to chat and try to get to know them. Sometimes when we swap pics there just isn’t a physical attraction and I know there won’t be, I need that as well. But if they start pressuring for pics in the first few days we’re done. If I am developing something with someone else I think may work out, I’m upfront with any others and try to nicely let them down, I do not chat to more than a couple of guys at a time. They don’t always take it well!

I appreciate it’s tough for all of those of us looking for something more and longer lasting in here. But I truly think it’s even tougher for women due to how we’re outnumbered. Plus there many guys here giving all of you a bad rap and I know that’s unfair, but we can’t be too careful as women.

Personally I value myself a little higher and so I’m going to be picky. But like the others of you here I hope to find someone genuine I sync with in every way one day!

 

[rlaflamme]

Completely agree, I’ve been a story reader for years but only just made a profile and I am inundated daily with pm’s. Sorry but the ones that are just sexual and come without even a “hello and I’m” get deleted. Most of the others I always check the profile and look at their posts. The ones that I can tell have numerous chat buddies get deleted as I have no desire to just be another notch. But I reply to most of only say I’m not available out of respect for them reaching out initially.

If they interest me enough to go to Kik, I generally take the time to chat and try to get to know them. Sometimes when we swap pics there just isn’t a physical attraction and I know there won’t be, I need that as well. But if they start pressuring for pics in the first few days we’re done. If I am developing something with someone else I think may work out, I’m upfront with any others and try to nicely let them down, I do not chat to more than a couple of guys at a time. They don’t always take it well!

I appreciate it’s tough for all of those of us looking for something more and longer lasting in here. But I truly think it’s even tougher for women due to how we’re outnumbered. Plus there many guys here giving all of you a bad rap and I know that’s unfair, but we can’t be too careful as women.

Personally I value myself a little higher and so I’m going to be picky. But like the others of you here I hope to find someone genuine I sync with in every way one day!

And I think all that makes a lot of sense. There is no question that men outnumber women here by a significant amount. And I do believe that many want to add a notch to their spank bank belt. That does make it difficult, for both genders.

Finding a connection is difficult. People that are unreal in requests or rude in their requests make it even more so. It closes the ones off it was done to and it makes those that want one less likely to gain one.

Thank you for your insight.

 

[Libidneous1]

Thank You Sir

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Allia! Jay! Josie!

Josie, i love this line:

You are responsible for those you tame.

I'd like to add my own bitter little addendum:
Karma is going to hold you accountable for the carnage left in your wake, and you will be going DOWN.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I didn't make that one, Honey...its in that book. I read that book at 16. It has followed me everywhere. Unfortunately, I'm often the Fox ...wanting to be tamed, but to often left behind. People don't realise often the impact they have on others.

So, Im accepting that I am a port. Boats may dock for a while, others in passage but in the end the boats all leave. So, Im looking for a grounds keeper. That one and only person that take cares of the port.

Remind me which book?

I could use some docking right about now...

 

[rlaflamme]

I love the insight and attention this thread has received. Such wonderful people coming to visit and give their thoughts, it is a wonderful thing.

Thank you all!

 

[boo56]

I endorse Mr. La Flamme's conclusion.

 

[rlaflamme]

I endorse Mr. La Flamme's conclusion.

Thank you