Bi Guys - Have You Ever Taken the Chance?

[Samsacks]

I've had quite a few hook-ups over the web, but never taken the chance in real life.

So, I was at a hotel in Ocean City last weekend. Outside smoking with a hot silverdaddy-looking type. We're talking and joking and he's emphasizing that he's there alone. I ask if he'd like some "company." He goes, "No, I'm married. Very happily married." I crossed paths with him over the next two days, but we never made eye contact.

At least he was cool about it.

But I'd love to think that he jacked off thinking about what could have been.

 

[spawnofdavey]

Not yet, but I would love to.

 

[suckonsimon]

Not yet, but I would love to.

Emphasis on the 'yet' eh? I like your new av pal.

 

[IWonderWhy]

Did it once and glad I did

 

[Sunnyade]

I was in London overnight and got chatting to a guy. He was younger and obviously gay, we had a couple of drinks in the bar and I took the chance when he invited me to his room "for a drink". I wasn't totally sure that it was an offer of more than a drink but was hoping for a surreptitious blow job. We spent the night together but I never did get that drink.

 

[FullSpectrum405]

I've had quite a few hook-ups over the web, but never taken the chance in real life.

So, I was at a hotel in Ocean City last weekend. Outside smoking with a hot silverdaddy-looking type. We're talking and joking and he's emphasizing that he's there alone. I ask if he'd like some "company." He goes, "No, I'm married. Very happily married." I crossed paths with him over the next two days, but we never made eye contact.

At least he was cool about it.

But I'd love to think that he jacked off thinking about what could have been.

Ballsy move man! Sorry it didn’t work out for you.

 

[FullSpectrum405]

I was in London overnight and got chatting to a guy. He was younger and obviously gay, we had a couple of drinks in the bar and I took the chance when he invited me to his room "for a drink". I wasn't totally sure that it was an offer of more than a drink but was hoping for a surreptitious blow job. We spent the night together but I never did get that drink.

But were you both still thirsty?

 

[Sclovers]

Keys reached over and started stroking him while we sat in the hot tub. Unfortunately he wasn’t into it so I had to stop. But it was fun while it ladted

 

[Hitchiker69]

Several times. I used to live in a very gay neighborhood. If I wanted cock I could cruise the park or go into one of several gay bars, all within 2 blocks. I got hit on at bus stops, I got followed home. When ever I was horny enough and comfortable with the guy and the situation we'd go to his place, get naked and do some serious sex.
It helped that I was living overseas, alone, and no-one else knew me.

 

[bicurnow]

Keys reached over and started stroking him while we sat in the hot tub. Unfortunately he wasn’t into it so I had to stop. But it was fun while it ladted

You should have had your wife show him her tits while you played

 

[LanaBehave]

I don't smoke anymore, but that's kind of hot. When he mentions more than once that he's alone, it seems like silverdaddy is hinting at something, no wonder you took the 'bait.'

And him not making eye contact-- I keep thinking about that. Yes I also would be still wondering why he wouldn't look at me...crossing the parking lot, in the lobby...

Being alone at the shore seems to feed the fantasies in my head, I know most people probably aren't thinking like we do...

I've had quite a few hook-ups over the web, but never taken the chance in real life.

So, I was at a hotel in Ocean City last weekend. Outside smoking with a hot silverdaddy-looking type. We're talking and joking and he's emphasizing that he's there alone. I ask if he'd like some "company." He goes, "No, I'm married. Very happily married." I crossed paths with him over the next two days, but we never made eye contact.

At least he was cool about it.

But I'd love to think that he jacked off thinking about what could have been.

 

[sweettalk4u]

I've had quite a few hook-ups over the web, but never taken the chance in real life.

So, I was at a hotel in Ocean City last weekend. Outside smoking with a hot silverdaddy-looking type. We're talking and joking and he's emphasizing that he's there alone. I ask if he'd like some "company." He goes, "No, I'm married. Very happily married." I crossed paths with him over the next two days, but we never made eye contact.

At least he was cool about it.

But I'd love to think that he jacked off thinking about what could have been.

The ones online can be great too but they work differently as you know. All in building relationships

 

[sweettalk4u]

Did it once and glad I did

everyone remembers their first time and it is often different from the rest. Most of the others I got to know a little first and was able to make it more passionate and erotic

 

[sweettalk4u]

Ballsy move man! Sorry it didn’t work out for you.

as sensitive as he is to others he will have his share of fun. I don't think I could do that either

 

[sweettalk4u]

You should have had your wife show him her tits while you played

wouldn't it be great if our wives supported us. of course had they known from the outset they might not be our wives

 

[UnderMyKilt]

Bi Guys - Have You Ever Taken the Chance?

I've had quite a few hook-ups over the web, but never taken the chance in real life.

So, I was at a hotel in Ocean City last weekend. Outside smoking with a hot silverdaddy-looking type. We're talking and joking and he's emphasizing that he's there alone. I ask if he'd like some "company." He goes, "No, I'm married. Very happily married." I crossed paths with him over the next two days, but we never made eye contact.

At least he was cool about it.

But I'd love to think that he jacked off thinking about what could have been.

In a word, YES. Most recently near the end of August and with a much better outcome than the OP describes.

While taking a two night rest (and fun) stop while traveling home from Colorado, I had a wonderful weekend with a guy 30 years my junior in Las Vegas.

I had posted a message on a hookup site and had responses from quite a few potential dance partners, gay and bi, of all ages. Unfortunately, it seems that I was there on the wrong weekend as most of them went to a big group sex event called, "CumUnion" at Hawk's Gym and Spa. I considered going but I was bit exhausted and just didn't feel like that kind of scene. BTW, it was a big international deal, and apparently a regular event that goes on in multiple cities at once. I think I'l try to make it there at sometime in the future.

Having almost given up on male companionship for the weekend, I headed down to the fitness center at my hotel for a run on the treadmills (it was 108* outside) with the thought in the back of my mind that I might meet someone.

Who'd a thunk? I met my weekend companion on the elevator from the pool, spa and fitness center back to my room. It wasn't anyone from any of my social media sites....just another horny traveler hoping to meet someone.

So, still high as a kite on 420 even after an hour on the treadmill, and taking a brief walk around the pool deck, I got in the elevator and noticed him approaching as the door began to close. So I held it. Just out of courtesy and not thinking any beyond that, till I saw his broad disarming grin. ("Down Simba," I thought as I felt a surge in my groin. "This cutey is probably 30 years younger than you"...and I was right.)

The door closed, leaving just the two of us and I immediately felt kind of giddy in his presence. I was a little too high to feel real confident and conversational so, after a brief grin of acknowledgement, I just kind of kept my eyes downcast till he asked,

"Did you just come from the pool?"

Looking up, in kind of a "are you talking to me?" moment, I responded,

"Yeah. For a little while but mostly the fitness center."

"WHO were you looking for?" he inexplicably asked.

"Who" I thought, and still processing what he'd said without really thinking of the implications, I responded,

"Uhh. No one in particular, I'm pretty versatile. What about you?"

When I saw him raise his eyebrows, and seemingly look me up and down, I immediately realized what I'd said and became a bit flustered, hot, and I'm sure beet red.

I could see him contemplating it but was still surprised as hell when he said,

"I think I might be looking for you."

Just then, as the elevator reached his floor and the door opened, I took a big gulp and said,

"Would you like to come up to my room?"

"I've got straight traveling companions.....so that sounds good to me. I won't be missed." he responded.

The elevator door closed and, after very few more words, by the time we reached my floor we were kissing and groping each other.

Thus...began two days of PNP and giddy, erotic bliss with this fit and trim 61 year old bi man showing that I could more than keep up with a 30 year old gay lover.

"Oh bliss! Bliss and heaven! Oh, it was gorgeousness and gorgeousity made flesh. It was like a bird of rarest-spun heaven metal or like silvery wine flowing in a spaceship, gravity all nonsense now. As WE slooshied, I knew such lovely pictures!" - Alex DeLarge, A Clockwork Orange

 

[UnderMyKilt]

Hey gang....anything going on out there? Anyone got anything to share? I do but...I don't want to be talking to myself.

 

[georgejessin]

I have responded to some CL lists in the past and for the most part, met fun people. I am usually super nervous until I am naked, and then I calm down... I am not sure why that is, I guess if we are both naked I feel like the person is for real with their needs and willing to be a little vulnerable.

Now that CL is gone, I have not done as much, but I still think about it.

 

[OpenMouth]

Yes, but I want to take another chance: being fucked by a complete stranger and spunked in, unprotected. I find the idea intoxicating but I know it's a risk.

 

[coati]

I've taken social chances with other bi men, and it has always been enjoyable. However, I don't take chances with my health. If it goes beyond stroking, I use a condom.

By the way, more men are doing the same these days, especially in Oregon and California where they have had a strong public health campaign. There are still lots of men who regularly take health risks, but I don't go that route. There are plenty of guys around who actually prefer the safe practices.

 

[KeithD]

I don't think I was ever the one taking the chance. Men took the risk by asking me except when the hookup was set up by a third party.

 

[OpenMouth]

I always, always suck and swallow cum unprotected with strangers (albeit verified on a hookups site).

I wouldn't be interested otherwise!

 

[oneblueye]

hey

I've had quite a few hook-ups over the web, but never taken the chance in real life.

So, I was at a hotel in Ocean City last weekend. Outside smoking with a hot silverdaddy-looking type. We're talking and joking and he's emphasizing that he's there alone. I ask if he'd like some "company." He goes, "No, I'm married. Very happily married." I crossed paths with him over the next two days, but we never made eye contact.

At least he was cool about it.

But I'd love to think that he jacked off thinking about what could have been.

I have taken a couple chances on CL before they closed up, almost all were bitter disappointments, except one... that wasn't so much disappointing as it was frustrating.
But I'm still in the mix, taking a chance where it looks worthwhile.

 

[bicurnow]

wouldn't it be great if our wives supported us. of course had they known from the outset they might not be our wives

MMMM thinking many if not most still would be. Depends on what they were/are looking for

 

[bc_smash]

I guess it just never pans out for me.