So here is the situation, I have been happily married for almost 39 years now and have always been happy with everything about her including sex. In my past life I had thought I may have been gay as I was only with guys until I was almost 22 when I started dating girls finding I was in fact bi, then I met my wife 2 years later and we married a little over a year later. I never did tell my wife about my past trysts and didn't want to know anything about hers, I have always been true to her and she to me.
Fast forward to few months ago and guy I was with for about a year when I like 19 sends me a friend request on social media after I passed on condolences on his parent's passing to his family on the funeral home website, his family was friends of my family and I found out about the passing about a year after it happened but passed my condolences online when I found out. The friend request came about a week after I posted the note.
I accepted his request after thinking about it for a few days and he sent me a message thanking me for the posting. We messaged a few times about him asking about my life and told me about his. In those 1st few messages he did talk about remembering some things, times we were together and without saying what those things were. To be honest if anyone else read those messages I doubt they could think anything about what I think he meant but I know he was revisiting those hookups. Now the question I don't think I would ever act on anything, although to be totally transparent I did find myself revisiting those memories as I read them, should I continue messaging with him?
Fast forward to few months ago and guy I was with for about a year when I like 19 sends me a friend request on social media after I passed on condolences on his parent's passing to his family on the funeral home website, his family was friends of my family and I found out about the passing about a year after it happened but passed my condolences online when I found out. The friend request came about a week after I posted the note.
I accepted his request after thinking about it for a few days and he sent me a message thanking me for the posting. We messaged a few times about him asking about my life and told me about his. In those 1st few messages he did talk about remembering some things, times we were together and without saying what those things were. To be honest if anyone else read those messages I doubt they could think anything about what I think he meant but I know he was revisiting those hookups. Now the question I don't think I would ever act on anything, although to be totally transparent I did find myself revisiting those memories as I read them, should I continue messaging with him?