The sexually insatiable club

[Eisranac]

where do you think the inability to get enough is rooted?

There are too many possible answers to that question, joe_doe907; but in my opinion, they may include but are not limited to:

• The libido of a partner has waned considerably, leaving a person sexually frustrated and wanting for more
• The bombardment of images, text and audio of a sexual nature which could lead to constant arousal
• The need for attention, but that could be the result of underlying psychological conditions which are deeply rooted
• Physical attributes which can fuel the hunger for sex, such as higher testosterone levels or menstruation
• Genetics
• Addiction to sex, which can be a serious problem

The problem with sex is that it is one of the most highly personal activities in which one can be involved and requires the invasion of personal space, and initially engaging in it can cause hesitation, as it may be outside of the comfort zone of someone depending on the circumstance and due to a number of factors, which have been addressed earlier in this thread:

I will be the first to claim that I am not experienced with Literotica and its members; but this is the way I look at it: I tend to temporarily remove the complications and get to the core basics of an issue. Men want sex. Women want sex. They claim in this thread to be insatiable. Then do something about it: get together and arrange to have sex.

Of course, many people would agree that that is overly simple. Introduce such factors as geography, compatibility, ethics, fear, religion, politics, health, reputation, and negative past experiences; and now satisfying this carnal need suddenly becomes substantially more complicated...

...but is simply announcing in this thread that one is sexually insatiable the answer — or is it merely a temporary catharsis?

I certainly do not have the absolute answers to your question.

 

[txgent101]

where do you think the inability to get enough is rooted?

Too many previous years in the sexual wilderness....

 

[LizVegas79]

I think I fall into this category as well. No, make that I know I belong to the club.

 

[13Fantasies]

I feel this way often.

Until I remember that I rarely get any.

Then I feel sexually depressed.

 

[AnhedonicDementic]

where do you think the inability to get enough is rooted?

I feel this way often.

Until I remember that I rarely get any.

Then I feel sexually depressed.

See, this proves my theory, repressed and unsatisfied libido.
And Mister, and are you sure it isn't guilt but sexual depression?

Well, I have to do some readings, I might be wrong

 

[CuriousGuy62]

That is me! I have so many kinks and fantasies that people deem as "weird" so I cant really talk to anyone about them

I'd be happy to hear of a few of them...

 

[stephanieb1196]

I just can't seem to get enough, on mind 24/7, and I know, most people will be like that is easy on a woman, just grab any man and fulfill but it's not like that

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

I just can't seem to get enough, on mind 24/7, and I know, most people will be like that is easy on a woman, just grab any man and fulfill but it's not like that

I can agree with that.

 

[hotcpu]

I just can't seem to get enough, on mind 24/7, and I know, most people will be like that is easy on a woman, just grab any man and fulfill but it's not like that

I can agree with that.

If I walk by, you have my permission to grab

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

If I walk by, you have my permission to grab

Don't think I won't

 

[cjcurious]

It's probably not the permission they are worried about... it's the connection

 

[stephanieb1196]

It's probably not the permission they are worried about... it's the connection

correct just cant go out and have sex with anyone (or can I)?

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

correct just cant go out and have sex with anyone (or can I)?

Why not? I do

 

[AnhedonicDementic]

Why not? I do

Really? Good for you. How did you find it, getting what you want so easy?

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

Really? Good for you. How did you find it, getting what you want so easy?

Actually I think it is just casting a wide net and hoping fir the best. Not a good method.but is all I have

 

[stephanieb1196]

Actually I think it is just casting a wide net and hoping fir the best. Not a good method.but is all I have

I guess some of the inhibitions of just grabbing any random person. every once in awhile it's ok but every day?

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

I guess some of the inhibitions of just grabbing any random person. every once in awhile it's ok but every day?

Well...not everyday... But more frequently than I should

 

[cjcurious]

Not trying to speak for anyone, but in my experience the orgasms for everyone are just so much better when there is some level of trust... and that element is missing when you just grab someone.

Obviously different strokes for different folks...

 

[AnhedonicDementic]

Not trying to speak for anyone, but in my experience the orgasms for everyone are just so much better when there is some level of trust... and that element is missing when you just grab someone.

Obviously different strokes for different folks...

You don't have to speak for all, we are individuals and we are different. I like knowing how things work for others.

In this light of having that level of trust with someone, does it mean you are or have to be emotionally involved with them too?

 

[stephanieb1196]

Not trying to speak for anyone, but in my experience the orgasms for everyone are just so much better when there is some level of trust... and that element is missing when you just grab someone.

Obviously different strokes for different folks...

This is true for me a bit

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

Not trying to speak for anyone, but in my experience the orgasms for everyone are just so much better when there is some level of trust... and that element is missing when you just grab someone.

Obviously different strokes for different folks...

I get what you're saying. Just I'm stuck in a behavioral pattern I guess.

 

[AnhedonicDementic]

I get what you're saying. Just I'm stuck in a behavioral pattern I guess.

And that pattern doesn't hurt you?

 

[cjcurious]

You don't have to speak for all, we are individuals and we are different. I like knowing how things work for others.

In this light of having that level of trust with someone, does it mean you are or have to be emotionally involved with them too?

Not in the traditional sense, not by any means. But I tend to care about people by default, and want the best for them as long as they aren't assholes. So in that sense I guess I am emotionally involved in their happiness. Pair that with a basic level of trust, and it makes for a much hotter experience (for me anyway).

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

And that pattern doesn't hurt you?

I guess I dont come to lit to psychoanalyze myself...lol

 

[hotcpu]

I guess I dont come to lit to psychoanalyze myself...lol

Grab away sweetheart and good for you!!