Genuine question: what's the deal with breeding kinks?

[Akpervert]

Hi everyone, still new here, still getting used to the place so I hope it's OK to post this here

I've noticed more breeding-kink stuff lately (not sure if it's on the rise or if I'm just paying more attention). Seeing it featured in more porn, stories, artwork etc. Had a one-night-stand recently mention it in dirty-talk.

I'd love to hear from anyone who has this specific kink & if they know why they find it hot? Is there anything that triggered the kink for you personally? Is there a specific feeling it gives you (such as feeling more virile or proud? Or the idea of screwing a pregnant person? Anything?) Is it predominantly men who are turned on by the idea? Or are there women who have fantasies about it too? Do people with this kink have children already? Do they want children? Or is it more abstract?

Just... fascinated, no shade or judgement. Thanks in advance to anyone who feels comfortable sharing. x

"Breeding", a term used frequently, is most frequently used very wrongly.
Many use it in place of 'fucking' - the plain and simple act of fucking. But that's wrong!
Breeding is strictly the act of a virile male ejaculating into an unprotected, fertile, in-season female. At or noear the time of highest potential fertility, specifically with the intention of making her pregnant.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Yes, indeed. I often think when my girl is filling me with her cum, that my asshole is serving as a pussy for her cock. We both fantasize that she is making me pregnant.

I've begged my previous Dom/mes to breed me and now my neighbors to make me pregnant. I really fantasize about having a huge belly from one of the guys fucking and cumming in me. I want both of them to take turns to make my sissy belly swell. We don't know who the daddy is but they both get lucky and I give birth to one half black and half white baby, and half brown.

Obviously my MILF neighbor can't impregnate me even in our normal imagination, but I want her to try. We might try using fake cum that I've heard about. I want her to use her huge black and white dildos on me and make my little belly swell. I'm their sissy breeding bitch and I love it.

I'm honestly getting so excited and wet thinking of all of them breeding me. When my belly is big and swollen with their babies, perhaps triplets, I have to go around the house barefoot, pregnant and naked. I know it sounds backwards but I don't care. I love being their pregnant slave who does the dishes and still cooks for all of them.

I'd let them bend my naked body over and fuck me in the kitchen and bedroom even if I'm pregnant. It's not like I can get more pregnant. I wish they'd use me and not care too much about if I want it.

 

[grinchy99]

When my wife and I were trying for kids, the idea of "breeding" was a turn on for us both. Was part of our pillow-talk before, during, and after we had sex. Years later it is still hot, to imagine she could be bred by another guy. Not that we would want that IRL, our kids are older now, but the idea is still hot.

 

[UtilityCurve]

Well, you asked

Hi everyone, still new here, still getting used to the place so I hope it's OK to post this here

I've noticed more breeding-kink stuff lately (not sure if it's on the rise or if I'm just paying more attention). Seeing it featured in more porn, stories, artwork etc. Had a one-night-stand recently mention it in dirty-talk.

I'd love to hear from anyone who has this specific kink & if they know why they find it hot? Is there anything that triggered the kink for you personally? Is there a specific feeling it gives you (such as feeling more virile or proud? Or the idea of screwing a pregnant person? Anything?) Is it predominantly men who are turned on by the idea? Or are there women who have fantasies about it too? Do people with this kink have children already? Do they want children? Or is it more abstract?

Just... fascinated, no shade or judgement. Thanks in advance to anyone who feels comfortable sharing.

Well, you asked.

Let's start by equating "breeding" with "any kind of male-emitted fluid being released being D-A-N-G-E-R-O-U-S" (me in Catholic boys' HS, her in a girls') and there is a natural attraction to whatever you can't have (MUCH stronger than any attraction to what you DO have). Yeah, seriously, I fantasized about her getting pregnant.

But I suspect the more general urge comes (no pun intended) from a desire to dominate (look, "your body, my choice" is foul ... and hot) and to be godlike.

Let me explain.

The average ejaculation lasts a few wonderful seconds. Ideally, both he and she are pleased by it (but I have been assured that the trope of "and it triggered MY orgasm instantly" is a bigger load of BS than any field could bear"), but I'm 99% sure that on some absolute scale, the male enjoys it more.

And those few seconds can (and let's be honest, often do) change a woman's life almost completely. That kind of raw power is irresistible to someone predisposed to enjoying power, which (surprise!) is kinda a guy thing anyway.

You add pleasure and dominance into a single act and it's almost a wonder that the desire to impregnate is not BOTH constant and universal. Garnish with ANY element of female submissiveness (even just "come inside me!") and it's literally fantasy territory.

Maybe it's different for other guys, but that's my story and I'm sticking to it. Whether in porn or IRL, seeing a pussy leaking cum is center-of-a-star hot. When we did it with intention, hearing her say, "you want to make me a mommy, don't you?" was pretty much all the trigger I needed, though I welcomed additional moments about how her breasts would swell and fill with milk (see "change her").

It's not about the kid(s) in the moment. It's about being able to make all those female parts do their thing and her mixture of trepidation and confidence that you will care for her forever once you have (this sounds waaaaay uglier than it feels) used her.

 

[Supersammy]

yes

 

[CajunFisherman]

Mon mariee" (Cajun for wife) can not get enough when I told her about the thread, we have been married over 35 years and married very young as is the case in Cajun country!! Dear Mother in Law thought it best to hitch us, no use to have DD in a Wedding Dress Pregnant So we got married and Mother in Law instructed us in the Use of Le Capots or Condom. When we thought it was safe, we dispensed with them and wifey was a cum virgin no longer, after a couple of years we started breeding like rabbits as wifey's Tante (aunt) called it, Mother in Law thought we were still using the Condoms (she was a public health nurse) which were not in short supply, however wife still likes to use them even after Menopause to contain the mess I still leave, but I digress. We had our First then second kids right away and then took a break then filled out the family (Cajuns have large families!!! Our breeding activities were the best when we knew that fucking would cause the family to enlarge, wife would purposely make me wait for three days and then after the kids were asleep, she would announce the mare was in heat and needed to be fertilized and spermed!!! She would orgasm at my orgasm and would be egging me on to fertilize her with our love child! On Months we failed, we would have me wait even longer and some of my loads would ooze out for days according to my wife. Mother in Law and Father in Law called us "LE Eleveurs" (The Breeders), my wife shared alot of stuff with Mother in Law since wife followed her in to the Nursing field in between Pregnancies. FIL told me not gain weight on the Milk feedstock!!! We discovered MIL and FIL had a ANR!

Even now, in our fifties, wifey will ask me to fertilize her eggs and give her life, egging me on while she is the supine missionary position holding her legs and telling me to spray her eggs. She always orgasms when I start spraying the load deep which sets her off, we dream back to those days when we were "Breeding" and play them out! Oh, yeah, she also likes to occasionally use a condom like when dating and role play on date night! Role play with a busted rubber will get her hot when she declares, "Oh, well you have done it now"!!!! Seconds are the best!!! She loves Role Play and is very inventive on using condoms! She can suck start a B-52 bomber but only with rubber, as I get near finish, she sabotages the condom with finger nails or teeth cutting the reservoir and impaling her self on it and then getting upset about having sperm in her and how will look her preggers on her wedding day! We have a Wedding dress for our 25th Anniversary and Knocking up the bride is a Favorite. The Breeding Cajuns.

 

[calmlikeabomb]

I can only speak for myself here. In real life, I don't have a breeding kink, but I prefer sex raw. It just feels better and the sight of cum dripping out of her cunt is unbelievably powerful and erotic. The sex itself is also much more pleasurable, raw and intimate without rubber (show me a man who likes using a condom and I'll show you a liar).

I have however met people a couple of times who had a breeding kink. A couple to whom I was the bull, and a maid with whom I had an affair. In case of the woman, she was on pills, and she and her husband used to really get off on the pillow talk of how I had bred her. The maid had an IUD and got on pills too, and for her, it was about rebelling against her husband.

In fantasies and role play, breeding to me is about power and duty. The man has the power to breed the woman, whether willing or not, and therefore mark her forever and change her. For duty, in certain stories or scenes, the women is bred out of a sense of duty and familial obligation (woman bred by men of the family, for instance) either provide a heir, or as a fuck you to society (upper class mistress bred by servant, for example). In case of incest, there is the extra taboo of being bred by a child or parent.

In those stories, I don't conflate fucking and breeding. Both are entirely separate acts and emotions.

Just my two cents.