amante93
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Oral Servitude
Otherwise known as "cock worship", or "oral with humble and downcast eye".
It is a leading obsession of mine--to be distinguished from other BDSM oral styles such as mouth-rape, throat-fucking, etc. which are primarily about the symbolic and humiliating aspects of oral and not male sexual pleasure in my opinion.
In this thread we celebrate not oral but the only oral truly worthy of the name: ORAL SERVITUDE.
I'll kick it off with a quote from the Story Of O; which had me wanking this day:
The three men, who were smoking, commented on her gestures, on the movement of her mouth closed and locked on the sex she had seized, as it worked its way up and down, on the way tears streamed down her ravaged face each time the swollen member struck the back of her throat and made her gag, depressing her tongue and causing her to feel nauseous. O...strained to hear her lover's moans, caressing him slowly, and with infinite respect, the way she knew pleased him. O felt that her mouth was beautiful since her lover condescended to thrust himself into it, since he deigned publicly to offer caresses to it, since, finally, deigned to discharge in it. She received it as a god is received
Good point, cookie.
So many of these threads do tend to digress from their intended point.
But I can't.....look away.
haha! super true, TC!!
I think it's ok to wander around different topics. What's servitude to me is different than it is to you or even the original poster from 2005.
It's hard, too, to pinpoint what oral servitude really is. None of us really want to discuss it these days since images are way more available and - frankly - more fun to look at.
What makes an image about "service" vs giving a blow job? Is it a look? The way someone places his/her hands? Is it being pushed to an extreme because the PYL requires it?
Is oral service = worship?
haha! super true, TC!!
I think it's ok to wander around different topics. What's servitude to me is different than it is to you or even the original poster from 2005.
It's hard, too, to pinpoint what oral servitude really is. None of us really want to discuss it these days since images are way more available and - frankly - more fun to look at.
What makes an image about "service" vs giving a blow job? Is it a look? The way someone places his/her hands? Is it being pushed to an extreme because the PYL requires it?
Is oral service = worship?
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NO - gagging is a good thing because it means he knows he's as far down my throat as he can possibly get.
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What makes an image about "service" vs giving a blow job? Is it a look? The way someone places his/her hands? Is it being pushed to an extreme because the PYL requires it?
Is oral service = worship?
Gagging also means that you have surrendered everything up to and including part of your own personal safety to his pleasure. It's a huge part of the power exchange... and a serious adrenaline rush. But like all things BDSM, there has to be trust, respect, and control so that it doesn't go too far.
Your thread, your standards. Sorry to intrude. *backing away respectfully*
Funnily enough, I've been thinking about things along these lines a bit the last few days. I've just spent a couple of days with my in-charge guy, which is both longer than we usually get together, and also the first time we've seen each other in four months. And we do a lot of oral ... well, we do a lot of everything really. But this time there was probably more oral than usual, and all different sorts. At one extreme, the him grabbing my hair and forcing me onto his cock, holding me there, fucking my throat - and for the first time making me gag, which doesn't usually happen. At the other extreme, slow, sensual, running my tongue across the head of his cock while maintaining eye contact the whole time, so all he can feel is my mouth on him. I love both of them, and all the variations in between and around them. I guess the first version fits into 'servitude' more, but the second version is just as much about me pleasing him, giving myself to him, focusing everything on him ... while the first version is really a lot about control of ME, and being controlled is something I derive a lot of pleasure from - obviously in the interests of his pleasure, but it feels a lot more focused on me.
As a side note ... I was kind of worried about the gagging thing, because I thought it might put him off, but apparently NO - gagging is a good thing because it means he knows he's as far down my throat as he can possibly get.
Gagging also means that you have surrendered everything up to and including part of your own personal safety to his pleasure. It's a huge part of the power exchange... and a serious adrenaline rush. But like all things BDSM, there has to be trust, respect, and control so that it doesn't go too far.
Yes, to me oral service is worship. The earliest images I posted here were ones in which adoration was evident in the woman's eyes or expression or actions, in which she was somehow very obviously really "into" the act, intent on pleasing him.
But it's a feeling more than it is any specific act. Whatever gives you that feeling counts as servitude. For me, throat-fucking and other rough variants do not feel like servitude. It is offering myself for him to use - it is submission - it is not the same as worship or adoration. That's my personal distinction.
As a newcomer to the thread, it did come off to me as being a little more judgey here than I expected from a BDSM thread, but I apologise for the misunderstanding and if you're good, it's all good. No harm, no foul.omg! NO NO NO --- that is NOT where I was coming from at all. I have no standards! Yikes!!!
I love love love most of the images here. I'm a huge fan of all things oral. I love that people can post what they enjoy and - mostly - aren't shot down for it. I don't like to receive oral sex but I love that those images are posted, that others enjoy it.
Holy cats - that is not where I meant for this to go and my hugest apologies if that came off as, ummm, orally snooty. LOL. Seriously. This is all about fun, sex, kink, blowjobs, rimming, eating pussy.
Please come back, please post whatever floats your boat.
I was just trying to get some conversation going, that's it.
If you want to say - lighten up, cookie - it's just about sucking dick - feel free!
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