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nawtyally said:
Your thread, your standards. Sorry to intrude. *backing away respectfully*
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No.

hotoldrguy said:
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Yes!!!
Proximus said:
Gagging also means that you have surrendered everything up to and including part of your own personal safety to his pleasure. It's a huge part of the power exchange... and a serious adrenaline rush. But like all things BDSM, there has to be trust, respect, and control so that it doesn't go too far.
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Very Yes!

nawtyally said:
As a newcomer to the thread, it did come off to me as being a little more judgey here than I expected from a BDSM thread, but I apologise for the misunderstanding and if you're good, it's all good. No harm, no foul. :rose:

I commend your efforts to get (and keep) conversations going here. I think that's one thing that's sorely missing in so many threads around here: interaction with fellow Liitsters. Isn't that why most of us come here? Where's the fun (or education) in just posting smut, without sharing your thoughts or opinions on them?

I for one, am more than happy to converse about all the ins and outs or ups and downs of all things oral servitude, rather than just posting images. Not that I'm an expert on the subject or anything; just an amateur enthusiast, but you're never too old to learn new tricks of the trade and it's always so interesting to find out all the different things that make other people tick...

Having said that, this is all about fun, sex, kink, blowjobs, rimming and eating pussy. It's meant to be fun, gosh darn it! So, "lighten up, cookie! it's just about sucking dick!" :p
The sarcastic bitch in me couldn't resist sayin' it, but the cock-worshiper in me really can't joke about such things, even for a second! :cattail:

P.S. I love that you have no standards! Me neither! Life's so much more fun that way, isn't it? :D
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It’s not judgey. It IS trying to keep communication open so it doesn’t become “just another BJ thread”... not that there’s anything wrong with BJs. Clearly, we don’t think that!
We all have different definitions of servitude. I like the gag. I’m better at the suck. But I like the gag. I want to get better at it. Not just for him, but also for me, because to me, sometimes servitude is him using my mouth and throat like a cock sleeve.
It doesn’t have to be all lovey, black and white airbrushed gifs. In fact, I prefer the “real”.
That being said, I think cookie was trying to get more discussion going. Instead of this turning into a gif thread.

Here’s one: Do you have to love to serve? Why does love make it better, or worse? Does it matter?
 
Farawyn said:
No.



Yes!!!


Very Yes!



It’s not judgey. It IS trying to keep communication open so it doesn’t become “just another BJ thread”... not that there’s anything wrong with BJs. Clearly, we don’t think that!
We all have different definitions of servitude. I like the gag. I’m better at the suck. But I like the gag. I want to get better at it. Not just for him, but also for me, because to me, sometimes servitude is him using my mouth and throat like a cock sleeve.
It doesn’t have to be all lovey, black and white airbrushed gifs. In fact, I prefer the “real”.
That being said, I think cookie was trying to get more discussion going. Instead of this turning into a gif thread.

Here’s one: Do you have to love to serve? Why does love make it better, or worse? Does it matter?
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Good question ... I couldn't imagine having a guy I didn't at least care for a lot (if not love) fuck my throat that way ... and I definitely couldn't imagine someone I didn't love hauling me around by my hair like that to force me onto his cock. I don't think I could trust anyone to do that if I didn't know he cared for me deeply. That's a more general bdsm thing, but it definitely applies in this instance. And really, if it wasn't someone I was extremely fond of, I just don't think I'd care to have him make me gag like that. It's quite a physical effort and general headfuck on my part ... I don't really want to expend that much effort and headfuckedness on just anyone.
But I know that's just me ... other people seem fine about various aspects of the bdsm thing with people they're not in affectionate relationships with, and cool for them. It's just not for me.

(PS We had a laugh about your and my's idea of the guys texting each other ... and then he said 'but no'. :rolleyes: )
 
Farawyn said:
No.



Yes!!!


Very Yes!



It’s not judgey. It IS trying to keep communication open so it doesn’t become “just another BJ thread”... not that there’s anything wrong with BJs. Clearly, we don’t think that!
We all have different definitions of servitude. I like the gag. I’m better at the suck. But I like the gag. I want to get better at it. Not just for him, but also for me, because to me, sometimes servitude is him using my mouth and throat like a cock sleeve.
It doesn’t have to be all lovey, black and white airbrushed gifs. In fact, I prefer the “real”.
That being said, I think cookie was trying to get more discussion going. Instead of this turning into a gif thread.

Here’s one: Do you have to love to serve? Why does love make it better, or worse? Does it matter?
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Like I said, a misunderstanding on my behalf which I thought we'd put behind us and happily moved on from.

Like I also said, I'm all for open, judgement-free discussions about all kinds of oral servitude.

Having said that, I find myself, after reading your comment, feeling again that I, or anyone else who might like to post a 'lovely, black and white airbrushed gif' instead of a sloppy, messy, tear-stained red faced one (not that there's anything wrong with that!) is being judged, by some, as not being as serious about our dedication as others, such as yourself.

And that's fine. Everyone's entitled to think (or not think) that. Just like I'm entitled to agree or disagree. I'm not offended (and tough shit if I was. This is a BDSM thread for fuck sake!!). I'm not upset. I just have no interest in hanging out some where that appears as if it's going to be nothing but hard work, without the satisfaction of a blow-job well done <---see what I did there? :D

No matter what is said now, I believe that my first impression actually was correct. A place that makes me feel I'm not good enough to sit at the table with the cool kids, is not somewhere I'm want to be. Sure, if I stick around long enough, the cool kids might find out I'm not only into classy, but also into all kinds of fucked up shit too. I'm flexible and fun that way.

But what's the point? 'tis no big deal. I only just got here and I know no one's gonna miss me or the disruption to the regularly scheduled program I've caused.

And besides, I have laundry I should be doing anyway. So, I'm out. And I may just let the door hit me on the arse on my way out, 'cause I might also like that kind of shit too, but you're never gonna know now.

*backing away, still somewhat respectfully, because it's my nature and I'm nice, dammit!*
 
What? What just happened? This is the cool kids table?

Who knew.

Will someone post a bow job picture please?
 
nawtyally said:
Like I said, a misunderstanding on my behalf which I thought we'd put behind us and happily moved on from.

Like I also said, I'm all for open, judgement-free discussions about all kinds of oral servitude.

Having said that, I find myself, after reading your comment, feeling again that I, or anyone else who might like to post a 'lovely, black and white airbrushed gif' instead of a sloppy, messy, tear-stained red faced one (not that there's anything wrong with that!) is being judged, by some, as not being as serious about our dedication as others, such as yourself.

And that's fine. Everyone's entitled to think (or not think) that. Just like I'm entitled to agree or disagree. I'm not offended (and tough shit if I was. This is a BDSM thread for fuck sake!!). I'm not upset. I just have no interest in hanging out some where that appears as if it's going to be nothing but hard work, without the satisfaction of a blow-job well done <---see what I did there? :D

No matter what is said now, I believe that my first impression actually was correct. A place that makes me feel I'm not good enough to sit at the table with the cool kids, is not somewhere I'm want to be. Sure, if I stick around long enough, the cool kids might find out I'm not only into classy, but also into all kinds of fucked up shit too. I'm flexible and fun that way.

But what's the point? 'tis no big deal. I only just got here and I know no one's gonna miss me or the disruption to the regularly scheduled program I've caused.

And besides, I have laundry I should be doing anyway. So, I'm out. And I may just let the door hit me on the arse on my way out, 'cause I might also like that kind of shit too, but you're never gonna know now.

*backing away, still somewhat respectfully, because it's my nature and I'm nice, dammit!*
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Wow. That's a lot of over-reading of what both Cookie and Far (two of the least judgemental people I've 'met') wrote.
 
So, back away, then. I really don’t know what else to say to your discomfort, and I’m here for me.

Since the thread is under my name I wanted to address it, not drag it out.

I told you all what I like. Not what I expect to see in this thread.

I love the gifs. I’m visual. I would like more discussion, but that’s also not up to me. ‘Cause this is a public board and once you put it out there, it belongs to us all.
 
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