Jada59
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This story goes back in time to the days of ICQ. Is that even still around? Use to be an instant messaging system.
I had a male friend who lived in another state. I think he wanted to be more than just friends but that's neither here nor there. He was trying to help me with one of the novels I had written. He sent me a message asking me to call him on the phone.
I had gone upstairs to do something and while I was there, my then husband saw the message, replied that I would call, then shut the computer off.
I didn't discover the message until about two weeks later. Was beginning to get concerned that maybe my friend was sick or something as I hadn't heard from him.
You can imagine how ticked off I was at my husband when I discovered what he had done. I immediately called my friend to apologize.
His response? "I'm surprised you're still talking to me!"
I was like...huh? "Why? I'm not angry with you. You did nothing wrong. It's my husband who was the asshole."
He then responded that it was because he was a man. And when women get angry at one man, they get angry at ALL men.
I found this hard to believe until I started asking around.
I asked my mom and a few female friends and they said that indeed when they got angry with one man, they were angry at all of them. This is something I just do not get. All of the people I asked are also man haters. I can't fathom this either.
Now maybe I'm just the odd one out. I love men. I mean...LOVE them! I don't know why but I have always been far more comfortable around men than I am women in general. And although I really do hate to generalize, it seems to me that there are a heck of a lot of women out there who are catty and like to play games. I know some men can be this way too but it seems that there are more women than men who act this way.
I don't mean to be putting women down. I do have women friends. But I never really have a craving to be around other women like I know some women do. I know people who are into "girl's night out" and to me that would be boring. I actually do crave men. Just being around them. Not necessarily in a sexual way. I just enjoy them. My mom tells me that I have always been this way.
Anyway... I guess I am asking if others here have noticed this thing about women hating all men just because they hate or are angry at one man?
Thanks!
I had a male friend who lived in another state. I think he wanted to be more than just friends but that's neither here nor there. He was trying to help me with one of the novels I had written. He sent me a message asking me to call him on the phone.
I had gone upstairs to do something and while I was there, my then husband saw the message, replied that I would call, then shut the computer off.
I didn't discover the message until about two weeks later. Was beginning to get concerned that maybe my friend was sick or something as I hadn't heard from him.
You can imagine how ticked off I was at my husband when I discovered what he had done. I immediately called my friend to apologize.
His response? "I'm surprised you're still talking to me!"
I was like...huh? "Why? I'm not angry with you. You did nothing wrong. It's my husband who was the asshole."
He then responded that it was because he was a man. And when women get angry at one man, they get angry at ALL men.
I found this hard to believe until I started asking around.
I asked my mom and a few female friends and they said that indeed when they got angry with one man, they were angry at all of them. This is something I just do not get. All of the people I asked are also man haters. I can't fathom this either.
Now maybe I'm just the odd one out. I love men. I mean...LOVE them! I don't know why but I have always been far more comfortable around men than I am women in general. And although I really do hate to generalize, it seems to me that there are a heck of a lot of women out there who are catty and like to play games. I know some men can be this way too but it seems that there are more women than men who act this way.
I don't mean to be putting women down. I do have women friends. But I never really have a craving to be around other women like I know some women do. I know people who are into "girl's night out" and to me that would be boring. I actually do crave men. Just being around them. Not necessarily in a sexual way. I just enjoy them. My mom tells me that I have always been this way.
Anyway... I guess I am asking if others here have noticed this thing about women hating all men just because they hate or are angry at one man?
Thanks!
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