We chatted...now he wants to meet! Now what?

[TheChemist]

So I just finished an online chat with a guy, really wild, me saying things I never thought I'd say, like "Take me, do it, my ass is yours now, it's for your cock, use it, use me..." and then he told me to tell him how much I wanted him, and now he wants to meet IRL, and I've never done that before. Part of me is curious/excited, part of me is nervous. Any thoughts?

 

[peter49parker]

So I just finished an online chat with a guy, really wild, me saying things I never thought I'd say, like "Take me, do it, my ass is yours now, it's for your cock, use it, use me..." and then he told me to tell him how much I wanted him, and now he wants to meet IRL, and I've never done that before. Part of me is curious/excited, part of me is nervous. Any thoughts?

It is a giant leap to meet IRL. Make sure this is what you want before you carry it to the 'action' level. A public meeting place for a drink or coffee is a good start for me. It is normal to feel nervous when trying something new or different. Again be positive that it is something you really want to do. Remember, you can never un-suck a cock or get un-fucked.

Good luck.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Suck That Cock

So I just finished an online chat with a guy, really wild, me saying things I never thought I'd say, like "Take me, do it, my ass is yours now, it's for your cock, use it, use me..." and then he told me to tell him how much I wanted him, and now he wants to meet IRL, and I've never done that before. Part of me is curious/excited, part of me is nervous. Any thoughts?

I don't see the problem. This is what you wanted...

 

[SuperSissy]

Fast forward to your 95th birthday. As you look back, will you regret doing it or not doing it. Given that our lives are mostly experience and emotion, I would regret not giving it a try.

 

[SparkyMark1961]

Meeting is a big step. I was super nervous about it the first time I did it. Who am I kidding, all three times I have done it. Like someone before me said, meet someplace public then if he is hideous or gross then you won't be stuck in a place you can't get out of. Chat a little first, if things feel right then move forward.

 

[mtsnowrider]

So I just finished an online chat with a guy, really wild, me saying things I never thought I'd say, like "Take me, do it, my ass is yours now, it's for your cock, use it, use me..." and then he told me to tell him how much I wanted him, and now he wants to meet IRL, and I've never done that before. Part of me is curious/excited, part of me is nervous. Any thoughts?

Maybe some more, non-sexual, chat if you feel you want to know more about him. After that, if you are still interested and comfortable, a meeting in a public place - a park bench, a mall - with enough other people around that, if he looks sketchy, when he walks up and says, " Are you __?", You can say, "No". If all looks good you are still in control of the situation and can move forward or not. Better than always wondering if you made a mistake by not trying.

 

[Maddiel1]

Just one online chat? It’s iffy territory. I’m not saying youre looking for your soul mate but what do you know about him? It’s not about him being being less that good looking, it’s about you making sure you get to know if he’s clean, if he’s sane, if he’s safe. Lust clouds things up, worse than booze. Think it over and be careful. Just my opinion.