Too old to be young?

[SassyLady87]

I'm about to turn 30 soon and I'm having conflicting feelings and wanted to hear others take. I've dated men my age mostly but I've also been with quite a few "older men".

I enjoyed being the young girl that excited them but now, does 30 take me out of that category? I'd like to hear from men but also women who have maybe had these same thoughts.

 

[caughtbyU]

Old or young is a state of mind. I would consider you young. I am in my 40s. You should turn on your private messages.

 

[ratherabsurd1]

I'm about to turn 30 soon and I'm having conflicting feelings and wanted to hear others take. I've dated men my age mostly but I've also been with quite a few "older men".

I enjoyed being the young girl that excited them but now, does 30 take me out of that category? I'd like to hear from men but also women who have maybe had these same thoughts.

You are never to old. It is your mind that controls everything

 

[HoldYouDown]

It's better than the alternative!

 

[Isevil1976]

I'm about to turn 30 soon and I'm having conflicting feelings and wanted to hear others take. I've dated men my age mostly but I've also been with quite a few "older men".

I enjoyed being the young girl that excited them but now, does 30 take me out of that category? I'd like to hear from men but also women who have maybe had these same thoughts.

Being in my 40's I would still consider you the young girl that excites me, realistically though for me age is just a number you're only as old as you let yourself feel

 

[wiguylooking]

It really isn't about age. That is just some random number. It is more about personality and the way your carry yourself. If you feel and act younger then that is what you will seem.

Yea, maybe a bit too much, I don't' know the right word, but its still holds true.

 

[SassyLady87]

Being in my 40's I would still consider you the young girl that excites me, realistically though for me age is just a number you're only as old as you let yourself feel

I'm glad I can still be in that category. I still feel young just smarter and more experienced than I once was.

 

[SassyLady87]

It really isn't about age. That is just some random number. It is more about personality and the way your carry yourself. If you feel and act younger then that is what you will seem.

Yea, maybe a bit too much, I don't' know the right word, but its still holds true.

I understand what you mean and I feel exactly like I did when I was 21 just that I know more now and I'm more secure in myself as a person but also sexually.

 

[Hans101]

At 30 you move from "she's great fun" to "I should marry this one."

 

[Isevil1976]

I'm glad I can still be in that category. I still feel young just smarter and more experienced than I once was.

There is a absolutely nothing wrong with being smarter and more experienced, makes it more fun for us older folks lol

 

[SassyLady87]

There is a absolutely nothing wrong with being smarter and more experienced, makes it more fun for us older folks lol

Lol love hearing that. I think experience just adds an extra layer. There's always more I can learn and be taught but At the same time you've tried enough to know how to entice/pleasure.

 

[roc23]

A confident and smart women is very appealing.
I like a woman that's smart and isn't shy about showing it.

And pretty sure even at 30,plenty of people will not consider you old.

 

[Turtlelincoln]

Age is one thing. But I find that people are young at heart and old souls in equal measure.
Being 30 doesn't really cross a threshold IMO it's all about your personality and demeanor. I know women in their 40s who act like they are mid 20s and ladies in their 20s who are wise and knowing beyond their years. How it applies to a relationship...it's a case by case

 

[SassyLady87]

Age is one thing. But I find that people are young at heart and old souls in equal measure.
Being 30 doesn't really cross a threshold IMO it's all about your personality and demeanor. I know women in their 40s who act like they are mid 20s and ladies in their 20s who are wise and knowing beyond their years. How it applies to a relationship...it's a case by case

I strangely enough consider myself both young at heart and an old soul they just come into play in different areas of my life.

 

[ShyMaleSub]

At 59 myself, I consider 30 quite young and would love it if a 30 year old lady such as yourself took an intetest in me, even if just flirting.

 

[HumasWanderingWeiner]

I understand what you mean and I feel exactly like I did when I was 21 just that I know more now and I'm more secure in myself as a person but also sexually.

Wait till you hit your 50s. I still think about being in my 20s. Toby Keith said it best "I'm not as good as I once was, but once, I'm as good as I ever was".

 

[blue80driver]

I totally agree with the answers here to your question. It's about the mutual connection between the two people. If the connection is strong and compatible the age diff. is irrelevant.

 

[JackOffer]

Age is just a number. At 63 I still enjoy a great deal of sex. My Mom had sex right up to her passing in her mid 70's, although Dad had passed away several years earlier.

 

[SassyLady87]

Wait till you hit your 50s. I still think about being in my 20s. Toby Keith said it best "I'm not as good as I once was, but once, I'm as good as I ever was".

I love that lol I'll need to remember it.

 

[vachuck]

I'm about to turn 30 soon and I'm having conflicting feelings and wanted to hear others take. I've dated men my age mostly but I've also been with quite a few "older men".

I enjoyed being the young girl that excited them but now, does 30 take me out of that category? I'd like to hear from men but also women who have maybe had these same thoughts.

I would still put you young. Just because there is snow on the mountain doesn't mean there isn't fire in the furnace. May want to look at older men who would enjoy your company.

 

[MrGoatee]

30 is in no way old and experience is more of a turn on than naivety. Age is a number not a state of mind, enjoy your mind and body

 

[UpwardSpiral]

I'm about to turn 30 soon and I'm having conflicting feelings and wanted to hear others take. I've dated men my age mostly but I've also been with quite a few "older men".

I enjoyed being the young girl that excited them but now, does 30 take me out of that category? I'd like to hear from men but also women who have maybe had these same thoughts.

I would say I concur with most of the responses posted here. As someone who is now hitting his mid-40's, a partner in her early-to-mid 40's has a great deal to offer, with considerable advantages over someone younger.

1.) You have a much better idea of what works for you than someone younger, including types of partners, sexual activities, life goals, etc. And 2.) you have enough life experience for there to be a mental bond with someone my age. Might just be me, but chemistry is super important, even in a purely physical relationship, and a nicely intersecting Venn diagram of mental interests, combined with a maturity and intellect that allows you to extrapolate my life experiences against your... yeah, that's a big deal.

Not sure if all that makes sense, but yes, 30 is definitely not "old" in my book, and most definitely not unappealing.

 

[Bray123]

Enjoy your inner cougar

When I was no more than a lad, I was seduced by a few older ladies, who were between 30-40 years old.

I was patiently instructed in the ways of female flesh and those lessons have served me well over the years.

Now is the time for you to take over the reins, make it your mission for the next decade or so. Do your best to ensure that the ladies of tomorrow have well-trained blokes to service them.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny

It's better than the alternative!

That's what worries us now. We're getting closer to the alterative and there is no turning back.
Every morning when we wake up we smile, because we woke up! Every evening we kiss and say "I love you" just in case we don't wake up.

I can still remember when I wished I was 21..................... I've been wishing that again for years!

We have kids who are grandparents.
I remember when our daughter told her mommy "after a woman turns 45 she can't wear low tops or short shorts." She is now 47 and still dresses like mommy does. I'm sure neither look 45 or even 30 anymore. But they both still turn heads and that's all that matters to the few of us walking with our heads turned.

We move slower and go out less. Still it's normal to party with those 30 year olds and 80 year olds in the same evening. Wait until you are 60 then ask those questions.

 

[Ilovemymilf]

I'm about to turn 30 soon and I'm having conflicting feelings and wanted to hear others take. I've dated men my age mostly but I've also been with quite a few "older men".

I enjoyed being the young girl that excited them but now, does 30 take me out of that category? I'd like to hear from men but also women who have maybe had these same thoughts.

Have no fear, I am 56 and trust me when I say 30 would definitely still be considered a hot, young woman. Probably even more desirable since you would have a little more maturity about you.