Dom needing advice

[Fullmaledom]

nothing

It's done

 

[JohnnySavage]

I'm in a pickle I'm engaged to be married in two months to my gf of 10 years and have been with my sub for about 14 months. My sub has known I'm engaged for the majority of the relationship... since my wedding is getting closer I was thinking of not getting married and just being with my sub but I don't think I'll be able to do that as too much money has already been committed and my fiancé is going to move from about 6 hrs away and she already has a job and she's selling her place. My sub has 4 kids who are great and we've become a family this last year... I've been helping my sub a lot financially and getting her life straightened out and she's almost on the right track she's writing her last exam and she will be a full nurse!!!! But with the pressure of her exam and her other financial stresses are adding to her being stressed about the wedding and she's indirectly asking me to break it off or effectively asking me to choose. How do I get out of this choice? I love both of them dearly and although I'm doubting I'll be married forever which is when I want my sub to stay waiting for me till should I just tell my sub to move on and leave me? I know people will say I'm a bad person for getting involved on the side but I'm marrying a vanilla girl and honestly I would tell my sub to move on but she has terrible choices in men and our boys need a good father figure and I know she won't find one based off her history. Thanks for reading I'm excited to read responses as this is my first time on the site!!

The whole dom/sub nonsense is nothing but role-playing between weak-minded individuals. It deserves to be pointed at and laughed at.

The quoted post is a good example.

 

[Lancecastor]

You should dump them both.

The trailer trash "sub" grrl for obvious reasons.

The "vanilla" grrl because you are fucking up her life, asshole.

 

[hashtag34]

The content is that of a dirty older man,
Unlike the style - reads like a teenager.

 

[lovetoread]

a real Dom wouldnt have to cheat to get off, a real Dom would have made sure they were compatible sexually with the person they asked to marry them.

Both of these people should dump your sorry ass

 

[slutindianwife]

how sad

 

[lovecraft68]

My advice is, get a noose and hang yourself for being a cheating scumbag an all around D-bag and piling more bad imagery on the legit BDSM community.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

You don't need advice, you need an ass-whoopin'. Like trip-to-the-ER whooped, need-a-transfusion whooped, ain't-got-no-mo'-teef-left whooped.


Tell the fiancee to stay where she is. She hasn't done anything that can't be undone, so she needs to stay put, dump your pathetic disingenuous ass, and move the fuck on dot org with her life . . . after whatever period of grieving and/or counseling is needed, Allah willing so she not get fooled again by the loser likes of you. Likewise, the "sub-girl" is better off without you, too. The one thing you got right is that she makes fer-shit choices - go look in the fucking mirror at her latest "choice".


Quit your job, sell all your shit, and give it all to the fiancee as an amend of sorts. Go join the French Foreign Legion and have your pay sent to the subbie to help support her kids, and so you won't piss your pittance away on whiskey and bar whores. Maybe, after about 20 years, you'll man the fuck up enough to be able to be in a relationship, which implies that you'll have grown a pair. It's time you learned to give and to quit being the useless leeching taker you are, scumbag.


Or just carry on as you are, trusting in Allah that it'll all work the fuck out fine . . .
.

 

[chillywilly2]

You're right...your sub does make terrible choices in men, and her kids won't have much of a father figure with this one

 

[BabblingBrooke]

You cannot just get out of this mess you created. You will have to make a choice. If you get married and let her uproot her entire life to move here when you are already saying you believe you will divorce, then you are the worst of all scumbags. Don't let her change her entire life when you don't give a damn. You'll be lucky if your "sub" keeps you, too, by the way.

 

[Aphro]

Wow, are you ever a dick.

Do your fiance a favour and call off the wedding. You are already planning to divorce her as it is. Save her and you the trouble.

It's a good job your sub is going to be a nurse, she will know how to stem the bleeding after your fiance rips your nuts off.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Are you available to run for office as a Democrat? They need you, man.

 

[Hashtag47]

I'm in a pickle I'm engaged to be married in two months to my gf of 10 years and have been with my sub for about 14 months. My sub has known I'm engaged for the majority of the relationship... since my wedding is getting closer I was thinking of not getting married and just being with my sub but I don't think I'll be able to do that as too much money has already been committed and my fiancé is going to move from about 6 hrs away and she already has a job and she's selling her place. My sub has 4 kids who are great and we've become a family this last year... I've been helping my sub a lot financially and getting her life straightened out and she's almost on the right track she's writing her last exam and she will be a full nurse!!!! But with the pressure of her exam and her other financial stresses are adding to her being stressed about the wedding and she's indirectly asking me to break it off or effectively asking me to choose. How do I get out of this choice? I love both of them dearly and although I'm doubting I'll be married forever which is when I want my sub to stay waiting for me till should I just tell my sub to move on and leave me? I know people will say I'm a bad person for getting involved on the side but I'm marrying a vanilla girl and honestly I would tell my sub to move on but she has terrible choices in men and our boys need a good father figure and I know she won't find one based off her history. Thanks for reading I'm excited to read responses as this is my first time on the site!!

After reading that tripe I would say that you are a pretty big loser. Thanks for sharing.

 

[cowslinger64]

The whole dom/sub nonsense is nothing but role-playing between weak-minded individuals. It deserves to be pointed at and laughed at.

The quoted post is a good example.

Are you another query alt? Because that is something spectacularly stupid and ignorant he would say.

You'd have been better off saying: "I know absolutely jack shit about dom/sub relations, so I'll keep my ignorance to myself... you're a cheating scumbag tho"


At least you would have been half right.

 

[Hashtag47]

Are you another query alt? Because that is something spectacularly stupid and ignorant he would say.

You'd have been better off saying: "I know absolutely jack shit about dom/sub relations, so I'll keep my ignorance to myself... you're a cheating scumbag tho"


At least you would have been half right.

Grown adults who play Dom -sub games are morons.

 

[dolf]

It's"dominant" to be too weak to tell your fiance she's not a sexual match, and just leave her? Because it sounds feeble to me.

 

[dolf]

Also, becoming part of the kids' lives when you have no intention of staying is really low.

 

[Que]

Are you another query alt? Because that is something spectacularly stupid and ignorant he would say.

You'd have been better off saying: "I know absolutely jack shit about dom/sub relations, so I'll keep my ignorance to myself... you're a cheating scumbag tho"


At least you would have been half right.

Dammit!

How did you figure it out?

NO one ever suspected my JohnnySavage alt before!

 

[Hashtag47]

Also, becoming part of the kids' lives when you have no intention of staying is really low.

The old queerbait move.

 

[Fata Morgana]

The whole dom/sub nonsense is nothing but role-playing between weak-minded individuals. It deserves to be pointed at and laughed at.

The quoted post is a good example.

Well said Johnny. Load of tripe.

 

[lovetoread]

Well said Johnny. Load of tripe.

just for that comment, i am gonna send you canned cheese

 

[Fata Morgana]

just for that comment, i am gonna send you canned cheese

Will you collar me and make me beg for it, Sir?

 

[Disgustipated]

Are you another query alt?

That's just mean

 

[Libsam]

Or just carry on as you are, trusting in Allah that it'll all work the fuck out fine . . .

That could be an option for the OP.
Move to a country where sharia law has their own courts, become a Muslim, and have a harem. Or he could just tell his fellow muslims about his whore sub and they could stone her to death for him.

 

[neci]

Tell your fiancee she isn't the only woman in your life, that you believe you are sexually incompatible with her because she doesn't get on her knees to suck your dick, and you've become a daddy to this other woman's children. It will be much cheaper on her in the long run.