Well Endowed Men

[ChattyAnnie]

Here's my question of the day prompted by three PMs I found waiting in my inbox.

Why do so many men state in their profile or send PMs saying that they are well endowed? Does it make any difference during cybersex or phone sex or any kind of sex really? Maybe it would be interesting during a video chat (which I don't do) but I doubt that many of those claiming to be well endowed really are. I've had sex with a lot of men and the percentage that fall into the "well endowed" category is quite small. Not so on Lit.

Okay, that's enough rambling. Anyone who has thoughts on the topic feel free to comment.

 

[SimpleGifts]

Here's my question of the day prompted by three PMs I found waiting in my inbox.

Why do so many men state in their profile or send PMs saying that they are well endowed? Does it make any difference during cybersex or phone sex or any kind of sex really? Maybe it would be interesting during a video chat (which I don't do) but I doubt that many of those claiming to be well endowed really are. I've had sex with a lot of men and the percentage that fall into the "well endowed" category is quite small. Not so on Lit.

Okay, that's enough rambling. Anyone who has thoughts on the topic feel free to comment.

It's like Lake Woebegone around here, except all the MEN are above average.

Seems like men are trying to appeal to your visual imagination to arouse you. I take it that's not working. I haven't found many women who get aroused by visuals, or at least not in a substantial way.

SG

 

[ChattyAnnie]

It's like Lake Woebegone around here, except all the MEN are above average.

Seems like men are trying to appeal to your visual imagination to arouse you. I take it that's not working. I haven't found many women who get aroused by visuals, or at least not in a substantial way.

SG

That's true to an extent. I would rather form my own mental image of a partner. I do need some guidelines like eyes, hair, height, age, etc. I don't care if they lie but I do find the humongous penis description a turn-off because it is a blatant lie. My other pet peeve is men who insist on sending penis pics... not that I haven't seen some nice ones, but most are turn-offs.

 

[MrGoatee]

As an averagely endowed man I just wonder if there are lots of men with no concept of inches and centimeters! Or maybe they are trying to scare off the rest of us.

In my experience giving pleasure all about technique and being attentive.

 

[CuntryGyrl84]

I agree that forums like Lit seem to be crawling with hung men that missed their calling as porn stars or so they will tell you. In a sense you have to look at this as actually be kind of a good thing. I enjoy talking with people but actually talking. If some guy sends me a message and his first words to me are I am hung and can fuck all night before shooting out a gallon of semen I can tell he is about as deep as a rain puddle and probably not worth my time.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

I think endowment is in the eye of the beholder (or holder ). If your experience with sex has proven that size doesn't matter, then you can ignore all the false claims and not be disappointed when you meet a less-then-endowed man. I won't make any claims about my own endowment, but women in general seem to favor girth over length, which does make sense anatomically, I would think. Men will naturally exaggerate penis size for the same reason we exaggerate other things -- to impress.

 

[ChattyAnnie]

I agree that forums like Lit seem to be crawling with hung men that missed their calling as porn stars or so they will tell you. In a sense you have to look at this as actually be kind of a good thing. I enjoy talking with people but actually talking. If some guy sends me a message and his first words to me are I am hung and can fuck all night before shooting out a gallon of semen I can tell he is about as deep as a rain puddle and probably not worth my time.

Exactly! You said it a lot better than I did.

 

[SimpleGifts]

I agree that forums like Lit seem to be crawling with hung men that missed their calling as porn stars or so they will tell you. In a sense you have to look at this as actually be kind of a good thing. I enjoy talking with people but actually talking. If some guy sends me a message and his first words to me are I am hung and can fuck all night before shooting out a gallon of semen I can tell he is about as deep as a rain puddle and probably not worth my time.

Seems like guys who take that approach suffer from the Gambler's Fallacy. They figure 1 woman in 1,000 will be turned on by that approach, so if they PM 1,000
women, they have a 100% chance of success. So, yeah, presumably not deep or creative.

SG

 

[CuntryGyrl84]

Seems like guys who take that approach suffer from the Gambler's Fallacy. They figure 1 woman in 1,000 will be turned on by that approach, so if they PM 1,000
women, they have a 100% chance of success. So, yeah, presumably not deep or creative.

SG

The same men that when you say hi to them they respond with tell me how bad you want my rock hard cock and what you'd do to it.

 

[WiserSoutherner]

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[PleasureHunter69]

Ok - so I hereby state I'm totally average.

Expecting my inbox to be full in 3....2....1

Average here and very happy with it too

 

[Carnevil9]

I'm hung like a bull mouse.

 

[hotoldrguy]

I agree that forums like Lit seem to be crawling with hung men that missed their calling as porn stars or so they will tell you. In a sense you have to look at this as actually be kind of a good thing. I enjoy talking with people but actually talking. If some guy sends me a message and his first words to me are I am hung and can fuck all night before shooting out a gallon of semen I can tell he is about as deep as a rain puddle and probably not worth my time.

LMAO...that is so sad, funny and true all at the same time. I have no idea what these guys could possibly expect in return from lines like those...other than laughter and ridicule.
I have never mentioned my cock size anywhere...and the only places my cock has appeared are in a Naked PIC thread of mine, Racey's cock pick thread and maybe in an Artsy thread. But I never send anything like that to anyone unless they have specially asked.

Besides, I would rather play and flirt and get to know people on LIT.

 

[redruin3]

Please do not upload pics of your cock. It's a violation of the forum guidelines. Thanks!

 

[CuntryGyrl84]

LMAO...that is so sad, funny and true all at the same time. I have no idea what these guys could possibly expect in return from lines like those...other than laughter and ridicule.
I have never mentioned my cock size anywhere...and the only places my cock has appeared are in a Naked PIC thread of mine, Racey's cock pick thread and maybe in an Artsy thread. But I never send anything like that to anyone unless they have specially asked.

Besides, I would rather play and flirt and get to know people on LIT.

Maybe some people think there are just floods of women waiting for their cock out there.

 

[philly1]

great responses from everyone! why cant ppl just be normal and have a good conversation!
I find connection in getting to know someone. NOT how big your boobs or cocks are! you can be sexy and erotic without having to mention size at all. The biggest sex organ is your brain!

 

[Risquerose]

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[maxmagg]

great responses from everyone! why cant ppl just be normal and have a good conversation!
I find connection in getting to know someone. NOT how big your boobs or cocks are! you can be sexy and erotic without having to mention size at all. The biggest sex organ is your brain!

well said sir,

 

[curiouschattycouple]

I have an entirely average endowment. According to my wife, while it is fun to bring a 8" long, 2" thick cock into the bedroom now and then, she is happy with average most of the time. As we all know, it's how you use it!

 

[talkeasy5813]

This is an absolutely fascinating thread. I like all the openness of opinions. And I think that it's been well said that while being well endowed is a matter of opinion there may be a better way for men to message women they wish to impress. Good thoughts!

 

[CharityLynn]

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[Tomr]

Average size here and I wouldn't want anything bigger than 8" to play with, etc.
A nice, cut 7-8 incher is perfect.

 

[xhxhxh]

Im still trying to wrap my head around the fact that guys will offer up their cock 2 sentences into the conversation. At the risk of sounding naive, that just shocks me.....

 

[THROBBS]

Many think that I am a big dick!







(I'm not, really — I'm just drawn that way. Also helps to lean against a small tree)

 

[KentuckyDom1971]

It's life in general these days. Everybody exaggerates everything.